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Hosts of Front Porch Swingers, a podcast that started as a blog and has evolved into a hub for conversations around ethical non-monogamy and details of their own hot sex stories.

Topics mentioned:

Adult entertainment, anxiety, arousal, attraction, authenticity, Bdsm, bisexual men, bisexual women, blog, boundaries, censorship, Chief Operating Officer, communication, community building, confidence, consent culture, content creation, corporate burnout, Craigslist hookup, creative expression, creative freedom, demisexual, digital intimacy, Dom/sub dynamics, emotional vulnerability, ENM Summit, erotic storytelling, event curation, exhibitionism, exploration, fantasy brainstorm, fire pit sex, First Amendment attorney, friends-to-lovers, front porch sex, gender expression, Golden Knights game, heteronormativity, hotwife events, hotel takeovers, identity evolution, inclusivity, kink community, lifestyle events, lifestyle podcast, lifestyle space, LGBTQ+, LLCs, long-term play partners, love, masculine identity, men’s bisexuality, microdosing vulnerability, morality clause, munches, naked confidence, non-disclosure agreements, non-monogamy, nostalgia, NSFW podcasting, OnlyFans, open relationships, pansexuality, party planning, play parties, pleasure, polyamory, primary partner, professional dom, public sex laws, reclaiming slut, Reddit DMs, relationship dynamics, rural swingers, safe spaces, same-room sex, scheduling play, secrecy vs pride, self-advocacy, self-discovery, self-pleasure, seminar hosting, sensory sex, service marks, sex educators, sex industry, sex podcasting, sex positivity, sex worker pride, sexy branding, shame deconstruction, single men in lifestyle, slut celebration, social norms, solo play, speakeasy fantasy, sponsors, storytelling, submission, swingers, swingers judgment, taboo, talking dirty, TikTok bans, toxic monogamy, trademarks, transparency, trust, vetting process, voyeurism, weekly podcasting, word vomit intimacy, working with lawyers.

🔗 BRENNA & BRIAN LINKS | frontporchswingers.com / instagram / twitter

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White female, submissive, exhibitionist, switch, comedian.

Topics mentioned:

Affection, androgyny, apps, attraction to genderqueer people, bisexuality, body awareness, boundaries, Bud Light twins commercial, casual sex, cishet norms, communication styles, couple privilege, couples therapy, creative touch, dating apps, deep connection, desire denial, discipline, domme demo, emotional bonding, emotional evolution, emotional habits, erotic exploration, euphoric bisexuality, event disappointment, exhibitionism, expectations around penis owners, female pleasure, Field app, fingering, foreplay, G-spot stimulation, gender expression, genderqueer attraction, group sex, hand stuff, hierarchy in polyamory, hetero-flexibility, hookup culture, identity development, jealousy, kink events, kinky play, lady doms, learning from mistakes, long-term relationship, male gaze, male-male-female threesome, masturbation, monogamy, mutual pleasure, new relationship energy, non-binary partners, non-hierarchical polyamory, non-monogamy, open marriage, orgasm anxiety, orgasms, pansexuality, pegging dynamics, penis insecurity, performance pressure, pleasure focus, polyamory, praise kink, promiscuity, queer desire, rejection, romantic connection, same-gender experiences, same-sex dating, sapphic desire, satisfaction, sensation preferences, service switching, shame in submission, sexual agency, sexual autonomy, sexual discovery, sexual insecurity, sexual shame, slow sex, spanking, squirting, sub dynamics, switching, talking about sex, threesomes, TikTok, trust building, vaginal pleasure, vibrator mentality, vulnerability, woman-on-woman sex.

Leah's episode from April 2019 | The Woman Who Asks You Out

Leah’s update from June 2024 | Navigating Jealousy & Noticing Needs

🔗 LEAH LINKS | @newtononmonogamy

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4’11” female switch pornstar and legal courtesan.

 Topics mentioned:

18-year-old dancer, aggressive porn, anal play, art of porn, arts and crafts, ass play, ass worship, atheist clowns, Ava Sinclaire, Bible porn, bisexual curiosity, blowjob, brothel, camming, clown fetish, clown porn, consensual degradation, courtesan, creepy sex fantasies, creative porn, deepthroat, directing porn, dirty talk, DIY porn, domination, domme switch, drinking pee, edge play, exhibitionism, face slapping, fantasy gangbangs, feet, femdom, fisting attempts, Florida sex parties, gangbang fantasies, girl next door roles, group sex, hardcore porn, horror porn, humiliation kink, insertion fantasies, kink interviews, kinky clown motel, kinky content, latex allergy, lesbian gangbangs, Linktree, love of porn, masturbation repression, missionary position, morning sex parties, mutual consent, Nevada brothel, OnlyFans, online courtesan, pegging, pee in butt, pegging, personal boundaries, play parties, porn art, porn community, porn direction, porn dreams, Pornhub, porn inspirations, porn origin story, princess fetish, producing porn, professional submissive, pussy stretching, religious porn, rough sex, safe sex work, sandwich song, schedule control, sensitive clit, sex art, sex as healing, sex crime repression theory, sex dungeon, sex museum, sex worker co-working, sex worker fantasy, sexual boundaries, sexual freedom, sexual self-expression, shooting locations, shooting softcore, Sheri's Ranch, shy porn star, SFW/NSFW boundary, slutty co-working, social media porn stars, softcore porn, solo creation, spitting, squirting, step-sibling porn, submission, taboo desires, team skeet, tight pussy, TikTok, tithing critique, Twitter, vanilla content, victim play, voyeurism, wardrobe creativity, working at a brothel, working with friends.

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Host of The Curious Girl Diaries podcast.

Topics mentioned:

Abstinence, anonymity, audio erotica, BDSM, begging, bisexuality, blowjob, business mindset, censorship, clitoral anatomy, cock cage, collaborative bucket list, communication in relationships, community building, consent, content creation, couple dynamics, creative sexuality, Curious Girl Diaries, desire, dominant, double penetration, energy exchange, ethical non-monogamy, fantasy room, female pleasure, fluids, gangbang, group sex, guided sex bucket list, horny, hot sex, intimacy, kink, kinky audio, kink play, latex sheets, lesbian observation, lifestyle change, libido mismatch, listener transformation, masturbation denial, milking table, missionary conversion, mistress, nakedness, non-monogamy, open relationships, orgasm, orgasm denial, partners, pegging, pegging fantasy, pegging play, penis worship, personal growth, pleasure, podcasting, polyamory, private podcast, prostate play, public identity, pussy, safe spaces, same-frequency sex, secrecy, self-discovery, sex bucket list, sex coaching, sex education, sex goals, sex podcast, sex-positive community, sex stories, sex toys, sexual adventure, sexual boundaries, sexual communication, sexual confidence, sexual healing, sexual identity, sexual liberation, sexual power exchange, sexual repression, sexual satisfaction, sexual self-expression, sexual storytelling, sexual surrender, sexual vulnerability, shame, sharing fantasies, spanking, submissive, submissive partner, taboo topics, threesome, titillation, toy play, trust, voyeurism, waxing poetic, wetness, woo-woo energy, worthiness of pleasure.

Layla’s episode from July 2022 | The Curious Girl Diaries

🔗 LAYLA LINKS | the curious girl diaries / @the_curiousgirldiaries

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44 white trans woman, in a relationship of 15-years that is monogamous, with some kinky hall passes.

Topics mentioned:

Anal beads, anal play, anal sex, art class, bad dragon, bdsm clubs, beekeeping, being pegged, being spit roasted, blowjobs, board games, body image, boots, braided hair, breast forms, burlesque, caning, catholic guilt, chest plate, cleaning in a maid outfit, clove-infused lube, community band, confidence, consent, conservative upbringing, corsets, costuming, cotton thongs, creative self-expression, deepthroat, delivery driver, dressing up, drag shows, face app, face sitting, fantasy play, fire cupping, fireplay, fingernails on cock, French horn, French maid fantasy, gender fluid, gender identity, gencon, ginger figging, graphic designer, hair pulling, hall passes, handmade lingerie, heels, hot wax, Indiana, Instagram attention, intimacy, kink curiosity, lace panties, latex, learning to sew, long hair, lingerie, married sex, medieval reenactment, monogamy with exceptions, naked cooking, nipple play, nudist lifestyle, online fetishization, oral sex, pegging fantasy, playing dress up, playing with wax, polyamorous partner, ponytail pulling, prostate play, public sex, queer identity, reenactment groups, remote-controlled butt plug, rimjob, roleplaying games, romantic connection, Roman Catholicism, satin thongs, seasonal cosplay, self-pleasure, sensation play, sewing bras, sexual shame, shibari, shoe paddle, shoes, silicone toys, size progression, solo anal play, spanking, spit roast fantasy, strap-on oral, strip clubs, subspace, submissive identity, synthetic breasts, tight clothing, toy collection, trans community, trans visibility, trans woman, Victoria’s Secret thongs, visual pleasure, warm lube, wax dripping, wedding dress dreams, winter fashion.

🔗 LILITH LINKS | @lilithmkieffer

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27 straight white cis male, who is has been both monogamous and polyamorous with his partner of five years.

Topics mentioned:

Anal sex, asexual partner, bisexual fantasies, blowjob, bra fitting, carpenter, Catholic sex education, cheeky cut panties, chlamydia, clear communication, cross-dressing, cuckquean fantasy, dildo, doggy style, face licking, fingering, foreplay, freckles, Freckled Redheads subreddit, group sex, handjob, kink exploration, lingerie shopping, long-distance voyeurism, masturbation, meet cute, monogamy, molecule meetings, naked cuddling, new relationship energy, non-monogamy, oral sex, outdoor sex, pegging, photography, pillow humping, pink panties, playboy magazine, polyamory, prostate stimulation, public sex, redheads, relationship communication, roleplay, safe sex, sex club curiosity, sex on grass, sex on mattress, sex toys, sexual awakening, sexual exploration, sexual fantasy, shame meter, skirt play, strap-on, tantric handjob, threesome, vibrator, voyeur, wig shopping, women's underwear.

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41 queer poly cis femme legal courtesan.

Topics mentioned:

Addiction recovery, age play, anal sex, asexual mother, BDSM, bisexuality, body confidence, bondage, brothel, Catholic schoolboy roleplay, chosen family, Christian mysticism, closet goth, clown porn, consent culture, courtesan, cults, cunnilingus, daddy dom, deity work, dominance and submission, double penetration, drug addiction, electrical tape outfit, erotic massage, exhibitionism, eye contact, fantasy archetypes, feet in mouth, fisting, foot fetish, foot worship, forbidden desires, fucking machine, gangbang, gender expression, girl-on-girl, goth culture, group sex, guilt, handjobs, heel worship, hot tubs, incest play, inner divine masculine, intimacy coach, kink, kitten play, lap dances, latex, leather, legal sex work, lingerie, loss of virginity, lust, masturbation, mental health, meth, missionary exit interview, Mormon shame, My Little Pony, mutual care, naked dancing, nipple play, non-monogamy, nudity, OnlyFans, orgasm, orgies, paddling, pansexuality, pegging, performance sex, personal growth, pet play, polyamory, pony play, predatory shame, professional dominatrix, public sex, puppy play, queerness, restraint, roleplay, sacred sexuality, same-bed threesomes, schoolgirl fetish, self-bondage, self-love, sex education, sex magic, sexual abuse culture, sexual confidence, sexual debut, sexual healing, sexual shame, sexual spirituality, sexwork safety, shaving fetish, Sheri’s Ranch, spanking, spiritual sex, star fucking, stripping, switch dynamics, taboo play, Tantra, threesomes, toe sucking, trauma healing, trust, vibrator use, virginity loss, voyeurism, water play, witchcraft, Wisconsin, worship.

🔗 NATASHA LINKS | linktr.ee/natasharosetemple

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23 American pansexual cis male, married with some poly mixed in.

Topics mentioned:

Anal orgasm, anal play, anniversary, anxiety, attention whore, BDSM test, biting, blowjob, blood play, bondage, buttplugs, caregiving, cartoons, choking, cisgender male, cock worship, college girlfriend, coming out, communication, consent, cuckquean, DDLG, deepthroat, dildos, discipline, exhibitionism, exploration, fantasies, feminine tops, fisting curiosity, Florida, friendship, group sex, handjobs, healthcare, hotwife fantasies, IT job, kink discovery, kink education, kitchen table poly, late bloomer, lingerie, listening, male-on-male oral, masturbation, mutual masturbation, night vision porn, non-monogamy, oral sex, pansexual, pegging, penis worship, porn exposure, power exchange, prostate toys, public sex, queerness, razors, receptive desire, roleplay, same-sex encounters, scratching, self-exploration, sex addiction, sex education, sex parties, sex toys, shame, shared masturbation, shared orgasms, spanking, strap-on play, submissive, swinging, talking dirty, tea and consent, threesomes, thigh highs, under-bed restraints, vulnerability, waxing and waning libido.

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Hands-free orgasms, pine-needle sex, and choir room hookups—Mercedes shares how she's finding power, pleasure, and play through queer community, public fun, and creative consent.

📈 STATS | 18 bisexual white cis femme, kinky, queer, drag king.

⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 Meet Mercedes: bisexual, kinky, masochist-sadist switch, drag king, and public play enthusiast

05:06 Negotiating her first scene as a submissive with cords, drawing, and wax

10:10 Defining sex, shame, and the realities of early sex ed and period-shaming

14:41 Formative trauma, shutting down desire, and rediscovering sexuality through therapy and queer friends

22:14 Drawing her own porn, masturbation inspiration, and being caught by her dad

24:09 Braces stuck together mid-kiss, secret kink with an older trans masc partner, and public play out of necessity

28:40 Log sex, pine needles, and being fucked in the forest

30:11 A dreamy 6’4” femme top, getting small, and discovering her submissive side

33:15 Hot threesomes, switchy group dynamics, and one partner who wouldn’t put down the controller

34:51 Poly pleasures and heartbreak: when boundaries around protection are broken

37:05 How music, dancing, and creative connection build trust and turn her on

38:57 Navigating kink curiosity with a vanilla partner, and why she won't be anyone’s experiment

40:08 Favorite rope tricks, using belts for control, and a surprise boob grab escape

41:35 Loving vanilla sex too: lap sitting, full-body pressure, and hickey preferences

43:04 From wax to bite marks to bruises: what her masochist side loves

47:00 Pussy pleasure maps, nipple sensitivity, and a vibrator that hits both spots

48:38 Wanting to train under a dominatrix and explore more rope and professional play

🤩 TOPICS | Abortion talk, actor kink dynamics, adventurous partners, aftercare needs, anal curiosity, anxiety around sex talks, ass grabbing, assigned female at birth, bisexual identity, biting during sex, blood play adjacent, body art kink, body sensation preferences, bratty submission, bruising kink, butch attraction, casual hookups, chest sensitivity, childhood sex ed gaps, childhood sexual shame, clitoral stimulation, college dating life, communication kinks, confident dom attraction, consent negotiation, control play, creative threesome dynamics, daddy issues, dating older people, degradation curiosity, direct STI conversations, dominant partner criteria, drawn porn, dry humping orgasm, emotional safety, erotic biting, erotic drawing, erotic storytelling, experimental queerness, femme tops, feminist porn, fingering in group sex, first girlfriend, fluid power exchange, forest sex, full-body pressure kink, glue stick tampon joke, group makeouts, hair pulling, hands-on sex ed, hickeys as kink, high school sex stories, historical fiction erotica, hookup logistics, improvisational sex, initiation shame, kink discovery journey, kinky queer sex, lap sex, laptop cable bondage, learning through erotic books, lesbian therapist, lingerie shopping, loud orgasms, making out in public, masochist tendencies, masturbation with fantasy, medically accurate sex ed, mixed orientation threesomes, multiple orgasms, mutual masturbation, neck kissing, nerdy doms, nipple play, nonbinary attraction, oral fixation, orgasm from thigh stimulation, outgrowing purity culture, painful first experiences, partner-switch dynamics, period shame, physical sex definitions, platonic cuddling, polyamory boundaries, power imbalance awareness, private part marking, queer community healing, queer high school sex, queer kink visibility, relationship trust repair, rough sex preferences, sadist tendencies, school bathroom makeouts, secret hookups, self-discovery through therapy, self-pleasure routines, sex after trauma, sex ed by books, sexual healing, sexual initiation stories, sexual trauma survival, shaving mishaps, sharing STI results, shower masturbation, shy doms, side-of-neck marks, situational submission, skin sensitivity, soft doms, solo vibrator play, sore muscles from sex, strap-on curiosity, submissive vulnerability, switch identity, teaching doms, teenage kink exploration, thigh grabbing, touching waist kink, trauma-informed play, trust after betrayal, unplanned kink negotiation, vanilla sex appreciation, vibrator with clit arm, visible bruises, wax play, weighted pressure kink, witchy sex therapist, writing erotic stories.

Mercedes’ update from January 2024 | Masochistic Soft Dom

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40s mostly heterosexual white male, based on the east coast.

Topics mentioned:

Aluminum shovel, anal play, ankle zaps, BDSM class, BDSM demo, being fisted, bendy double-ended dildo, big dildo, body zapping, bungee jumping, cabinets full of toys, cold impact tools, communication in kink, conductor electricity play, consent, countryside upbringing, DIY BDSM, double penetration, electric current play, electric fence, electric finger touch, electricity play, endurance, erotic performance, feathers, female dom, fieldo, fingering, fisting, floggers, fur-lined tools, group zap, impact implements, impact play, kink exploration, latex gloves, leather vampire gloves, life-changing experience, male dom, meat claws, meat mallets, mindfulness during sex, mutual fucking, naked at home, new sexual experiences, non-verbal check-ins, orgasm from fisting, partner trust, play ship, pleasure and pain, porn comparisons, power dynamics, public kink demo, RV sex, safe words, sandcastle shovel, sensation play, sex after kids, sex in RV, sexual communication, sexual experimentation, sexual inspiration, sexual mindfulness, Spanx harness, spanking, subspace, switch dynamics, toys from Michaels, travel sex, trysexual identity, vaginal fisting, van de Graaff electricity play, watching public scenes, whips, wooden rods, yoga headspace during sex.

Jon's episode from June 2020 | True Trysexual

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