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How to discipline without drama.

• Keep Things in Perspective.
  • Remember that challenging parenting moments are nothing more than learning and teaching opportunities. 
  • Look inward:
    • What can you control?
    • What is your role?
    • How do you want to show up?
• Be emotionally intentional.
  • Model emotional control
  • This will help you build a rock-solid relationship
  • This will solidify the message you are teaching.
• Focus on your role and be intentional.
  • My role as a dad is to teach, coach, and support.
  • When I discipline, I try to keep this in mind and intentionally teach, coach, and support. 
  • Some situations call for different roles. 
• Practice teaching. 
  • Teach a skill.
  • Teach a benefit.
  • Teach the expectation. 
  • Teach the breakdown.
• Show support, connection, confidence, and closure. 
  • Show them that you're in their corner.
  • Seek to understand where they are coming from and connect with them there.
  • Show them that you have confidence in them and their ability to grow.
  • When the conversation closes, don't keep beating a dead horse. 

So, what can you do now?

Put this into practice. This will take discipline on your part. You will have to learn and develop your skills in this area. 

Trust that by YOU being true to your role and purpose as their parent, YOU WILL have a powerful impact on their life. 

Take the plunge and practice disciplining without drama TODAY!

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