By Ben Pugh
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The podcast currently has 228 episodes available.
In this eye-opening episode, Ben, an experienced parenting coach, challenges the common parental instinct to shield teens from failure. Discover why allowing your teen to experience setbacks is crucial for their personal growth and future success.
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Ben shares insights on how to shift from being a "fixer" to becoming a supportive guide for your teen. He offers practical advice on how to respond to your teen's failures in ways that build confidence and resilience.
If you're tired of constantly intervening in your teen's challenges and ready to help them develop true independence and resilience, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how embracing failure can be the key to your teen's long-term success and emotional well-being.
Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
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Are you struggling to connect with your teenager? In this insightful episode, Ben, an experienced parenting coach, tackles the widespread issue of parent-teen disconnection and offers a transformative approach to rebuilding your relationship.
Discover why the disconnect between parents and teens is so common and learn about:
Ben shares a touching personal anecdote about his toddler son connecting over football, illustrating how children naturally seek connection through shared interests. He then explains how to apply this principle to your relationship with your teen.
If you're tired of feeling like you and your teen are speaking different languages and you're ready to foster a deep, loving connection, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how to bridge the gap and create a relationship where both you and your teen feel understood and valued.
Full show notes at https://benpughcoaching.com/224
Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
TAKE THE QUIZ
Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!
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Are you caught in the trap of blaming your teen for your parenting struggles? In this eye-opening episode, Ben, an experienced parenting coach, challenges the common myth that your teen's behavior is responsible for how you parent.
Discover why this belief is not only disempowering but also prevents you from becoming the parent you aspire to be. In this episode, you'll learn:
Ben shares relatable examples, including a recent incident from a parenting group that highlights this common misconception. He offers insights on how to break free from the cycle of blame and guilt, and instead embrace a more empowering approach to parenting.
If you're tired of feeling like a victim in your parenting journey and ready to take control of your relationship with your teen, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how to become the parent of your dreams, regardless of your teen's choices. It's time to stop blaming and start BEing the parent you want to be!
Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
TAKE THE QUIZ
Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!
🎧 LISTEN HERE!
Are you frustrated by parenting advice that promises to make your teen obey or trust you? In this eye-opening episode, Ben, a former foster parent and experienced coach, challenges the myth of teen control and offers a transformative perspective on parenting.
Discover why trying to control your teen is counterproductive and learn about:
Ben shares candid stories from his experience, including a memorable conversation with an anesthesiologist dad about the absurdity of total teen control. He offers insights on how small mindset shifts can dramatically improve your relationship with your teen.
If you're tired of power struggles and ready for a more harmonious approach to parenting, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how to empower both yourself and your teen, becoming the supportive parent you aspire to be.
Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
TAKE THE QUIZ
Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!
🎧 LISTEN HERE!
Are you a parent struggling to set effective boundaries with your teenager? In this eye-opening podcast, Ben, a former high school principal and experienced parent coach, reveals how you can transform your approach to boundaries and consequences, leading to a more harmonious relationship with your teen.
Ben introduces a powerful tool called The Consequence Quadrant, which challenges the common misconception that consequences are all about punishment. He explains how parents often fall into the trap of relying too heavily on negative, enforced consequences, and shares a more balanced and empowering approach.
In this podcast, you'll discover:
Ben emphasizes that while you can't control your teen's actions, you can create an environment that encourages responsible decision-making. He shares relatable examples from his own experiences as a parent and from working with numerous families, offering insights into how small shifts in your approach can lead to significant improvements in your relationship with your teen.
Throughout the episodes, Ben provides actionable advice on how to have productive conversations about boundaries and consequences with your teenager. He encourages parents to involve their teens in the process, fostering mutual understanding and respect.
If you're a parent who feels overwhelmed by constant arguments, disrespect, or confusion about enforcing rules, this podcast will provide you with a fresh perspective and practical tools to improve your family dynamics. Tune in now and learn how to build better boundaries with better consequences, becoming the confident and effective parent you aspire to be.
Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
TAKE THE QUIZ
Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!
🎧 LISTEN HERE!
Are you feeling like you're on the "struggle bus" with your teenager? You're not alone. In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the single most significant factor causing friction between parents and teens worldwide.
Drawing from my experience coaching parents across five continents, I reveal why traditional parenting advice often misses the mark. You'll discover:
We'll explore real-life examples, including a personal anecdote about milk cows and teenage responsibility. Plus, I'll introduce you to a game-changing concept that can transform your relationship with your teen almost overnight.
Whether you're a seasoned parent or new to the teenage years, this episode offers fresh insights and practical strategies. You'll walk away with a clear understanding of how to stop struggling and start connecting with your teen.
Don't miss the exciting announcement about our upcoming free parenting class! Tune in to learn how you can choose your own parenting adventure and take the first step towards becoming the parent of your dreams.
Remember, it's never too late to improve your relationship with your teen. Let's start this journey together!
Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
TAKE THE QUIZ
Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!
🎧 LISTEN HERE!
As the school year kicks off, are you and your teen feeling overwhelmed? In this episode, we're uncovering 7 little-known secrets that can transform your back-to-school experience. Drawing from years of experience as a parent, foster parent, and former high school principal, I'm sharing insights that have helped countless teens and families navigate the challenges of academic life.
We'll explore why school failure doesn't equal life failure, how to prioritize your relationship with your teen, and why it's crucial to be aware of pro-school bias. You'll learn about the irreplaceable role of parents in education, how to inject fun into learning, and the ethical use of AI in schoolwork. Plus, we'll discuss the importance of seeking help early and consistently.
As a bonus, we'll reveal the ultimate secret to having great friends at school - it might surprise you!
Whether you're a parent looking to support your teen or a student aiming for a successful year, this episode is packed with practical advice and fresh perspectives. Tune in to discover how these secrets can help you and your teen not just survive, but thrive this school year.
Remember, you don't have to implement every secret - even one can make a significant difference. Let's make this the best school year yet!
Full show notes at https://benpughcoaching.com/219
Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
TAKE THE QUIZ
Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!
🎧 LISTEN HERE!
In this powerful episode rewind, we dive into ten game-changing daily habits that can revolutionize your parenting approach and strengthen your bond with your teenager. These practical, actionable strategies will help you navigate the challenges of raising teens with confidence and purpose.
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Whether you're struggling with communication, seeking to build a stronger relationship, or simply want to enhance your parenting skills, this episode offers practical wisdom and actionable advice. Learn how to set powerful intentions, stay present, manage your mind, and model the behavior you want to see in your teen.
Join us to discover how these ten daily habits can transform your parenting journey and create a more harmonious, connected relationship with your teenager."In this powerful episode, we dive into ten game-changing daily habits that can revolutionize your parenting approach and strengthen your bond with your teenager. These practical, actionable strategies will help you navigate the challenges of raising teens with confidence and purpose.
Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
TAKE THE QUIZ
Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!
🎧 LISTEN HERE!
In this eye-opening episode, we challenge the common parenting instinct to fix, change, or control our teens. Instead, we explore a transformative approach that puts the power of change right where it belongs - with you.
We'll dive into:
• Why trying to fix others, especially your teen, backfires
• The cultural trap of attempting to control others
• How shifting your attention to self-improvement can transform your family dynamics
• The profound impact of 'being the change you want to see'
• Real-life examples of how personal growth catalyzes change in others
Learn why parenting from the 'inside-out' is more effective than traditional 'outside-in' approaches. Discover how letting go of control paradoxically gives you more influence and improves your relationship with your teen.
Whether you're struggling with a rebellious teenager or simply want to enhance your parenting skills, this episode offers practical, powerful strategies for personal growth that ripple out to positively impact your entire family.
Join us to unlock the secret of truly effective parenting - it starts with you!
Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
TAKE THE QUIZ
Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!
🎧 LISTEN HERE!
In this thought-provoking episode, we challenge common misconceptions about trauma and empower you to take control of your healing journey. Discover why there's no need for 'trauma police' and how understanding trauma as programming can be a game-changer.
We'll explore:
• The personal nature of trauma and why comparisons are futile
• Two crucial aspects of trauma that are often overlooked
• How generational trauma manifests in everyday life
• The empowering perspective of viewing trauma as programming
• Why YOU are the key to healing your own trauma
Learn why shifting blame doesn't lead to healing and how taking responsibility for your trauma recovery can transform your life and future generations. We'll discuss real-life examples of generational trauma and provide insights on breaking these cycles.
Whether you're dealing with personal trauma or supporting a loved one, this episode offers a fresh, empowering perspective on trauma healing. Join us to unlock your potential for growth and discover how you can be the change that breaks the chain of generational trauma."
Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
TAKE THE QUIZ
Already taken the quiz?
Check out my ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!
🎧 LISTEN HERE!
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