Haven!

How to Fight Better


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Welcome to Season 3!!!!!


This new season is all about relationships. I took a poll a few months ago asking why you're listening to this podcast and the topics that rose to the top were marriage, parenting, & friendships.


So with as our first topic... let’s get into some conflict.


What’s your favorite fight you’ve ever had?

How do you win an argument?

What happens in your body during an argument?

And the real question—what’s the best part of a fight?


In this episode, my husband Aaron and I dive deep into the messy, unavoidable reality of conflict in marriage. No matter how much you try to choose your words carefully, fights will happen—so the real skill is in how you handle them.


Our longtime marriage counselor, Dr. Jonathan Cude, once told us that both divorcing couples and healthy couples fight the same amount. The difference? What they say in those heated moments.


You can’t control your partner’s words, but you can control how you respond. So what do you do when you feel criticized? How do you break out of the criticism / defensiveness cycle before it wrecks your connection?


Join us as we share what we’ve learned, how our fights have evolved, and why conflict doesn’t have to be a relationship killer.

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