“It’s Rom-Complicated!” returns, helping you find love by watching rom-com movies. This time, dating coach Connell Barrett shares love lessons from the 1989 Cameron Crowe classic “Say Anything.” He’s joined by special guest Cristina Nava, a Hollywood producer who specializes in making rom-coms! (Her latest movie, the very funny “Say a Little Prayer,” is now streaming on Amazon Prime and Apple TV.) Can a quirky nice guy like Lloyd Dobler (John Cusack) really win over his dream girl, Diane Court (Ione Skye)? Or does it take a boombox, a trench coat, and a questionable lack of boundaries? Let’s break it down.

Connell and Cristina Discuss:

4:12: Why Women WANT to Date Nice Guys Like Lloyd Dobler

5:59: Why “Say a Little Prayer” is a Great Date Movie

16:30: Cristina Reveals Her Real-Life Rom-Com Moment: Surprise Roses in Eighth Grade

24:53: The Rom-Commies—the Best, Worst, and Stalkiest Moments of “Say Anything”

31:22: The Best Dating Move from the Movie that Actually Works

36:35: The Worst Dating Advice in the Film—Avoid This!

39:33: The Secret to Lloyd’s Confidence (It’s NOT His Looks)

49:27: What Hasn’t Aged Well: Boomboxes and Boundary Issues

1:14:26: The Film’s Biggest Love Lesson that Women Want You to Know

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So, you finally get a first date with a smart, attractive woman… only for her to say, “no thanks” to a second. It’s discouraging. Let’s fix that! After last week’s special 4-part Valentine’s Day series on meeting and attracting women IRL, you don’t want to put in all that effort only to hit a first-date roadblock. Connell and his girlfriend, Jess, break down what made their first date a fun, flirty success—and what you can do to get a LOT more second dates. (Originally aired in November.)

In this episode, Connell and Jess discuss:

3:20: The Profile Photos that Made Her Swipe Right

13:05: The Right Way to Text a Woman Before a First Date

18:20: Jess’s Top First-Date Tip

29:00: What to Talk About So You Never Run Out of Things to Say

30:48: How to Avoid Interview Mode and Not Get Friend-Zoned

34:15: Jess Called this First Kiss Move “Suave”—You Need to Know It!

37:18: How to Ask Women Out for a Second Date

39:21: Her Top 3 First-Date Mistakes that Guys Make

45:00: Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Toxic “Alpha Males”Sick of hearing “Let’s just be friends”?

Learn how to get more second dates, starting now.

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Do women send you mixed signals—and you have no clue what they mean? Get ready for the raw, unfiltered truth about what women really want, from straight- talking dating expert Sabrina Zohar. A social media sensation with over 2 million followers, Sabrina reveals why “nice guys” lose out, the texting mistakes that get you ghosted, and how to finally land dates with great women on the apps.

Sabrina Will Tell You:

13:33: How to Stop Taking Rejection Personally and Bounce Back Stronger

20:15: The One Texting Mistake that Makes Girls Lose Interest

22:48: How to Message Women the Right Way and Stop Getting Ghosted

31:27: The Profile Photos and Prompts that Get You Matches

33:57: The One Photo You Should NEVER Put on Hinge or Bumble

37:47: Why Women Swipe Left—and How to Get them Swiping Right

44:12: The Approach Fail that Gets You Rejected Every Time

49:36: The WORST Gym Pickup Line Ever—and What to Say Instead

Sabrina’s no-B.S. advice will help you start winning at dating. Listen now!

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It’s Valentine’s Weekend—get ready to flirt with women and get dates! In the last of a 4-part series about attracting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the final steps in becoming a 1 Percent Man—the rare guy who can confidently approach women without weird pickup lines. You’ll hear ACTUAL AUDIO of Connell meeting and flirting with bright, beautiful women, for an inside look at how simple and powerful it is when you approach with authenticity. Plus, you’ll get great openers for 10 situations, and also learn the 5 biggest approaching mistakes to avoid.

Highlights of the Episode:

03:25: The Night Connell Went from a Panic Attack to Approaching and Attracting Kelly

10:45: How to Become a Confident, Authentic 1 Percent Man

14:05: What to Say to a Group of Women at a Bar to Spark Interest

15:28: What to Say to a Cute Girl at Your Gym to Be Charming, Not Creepy

17:50: What to Say at a Grocery Store to Make Her Laugh

21:00: What to Say in the Elevator to Have a Great Conversation

25:20: The All-Purpose Opener that Works with Women Anywhere

28:33: The 5 Biggest Approaching Fails and How to Fix Them

50:00: EXCLUSIVE! For the First Time Ever, Connell Shares Actual Audio of Him Approaching Women and Getting Numbers and Dates

1:31:27: The One Action to Take Today to Get a Great Girlfriend in 90 Days or Less

Your journey to meeting and attracting wonderful women starts today. Listen now!

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You’re talking to a woman you like—now what? How do you avoid running out of things to say and awkward silences? And how do you ask her out? In Part 3 of this special dating IRL series, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you a simple, 3-step roadmap to keep the conversation flowing, spark attraction, and smoothly get her number. Plus, discover the 7 biggest conversation fails that kill attraction (and how to fix them). And you’ll learn the right way to meet women at the gym, without being “that guy.”

You’re About to Learn:

2:47: The 3-Step Roadmap to Keep Conversations Flowing and Get the Date

5:37: What to Talk About First After You Approach

8:15: The Magic Word that Makes You More Interesting to Her

12:30: The Exact Way to Ask Her Out

21:51: How to Get Her Phone Number

27:07: The BIG Mistake that Will Get You Ghosted

28:45: The 7 Conversation Fails that Kill Attraction and How to Avoid Them

47:10: Why Women Ghost You—and the Simple Move to Fix It

56:54: How to Meet and Charm Women at Your Gym

Listen now to have flirty conversations with women you meet IRL—so you can get dates!


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You see a woman you’d love to talk to, but your brain locks up. You overthink what to say, and the moment is gone—so is she. In part 2 of this special 4-part series on meeting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals his foolproof Natural Approaching Method—a simple, tested way to start authentic conversations and almost always get a positive response. And it works 90% of the time, whether you’re at a bar, coffee shop, or the gym.

What You’ll Learn:

3:40: How to Confidently Break the Ice with a 90% Success Rate

6:08: Always Know What to Say with the Natural Approaching Method

15:33: How to Compliment Women with Charm—and What to Avoid

25:51: The Perfect Icebreaker? Just Ask This One Question

35:00: How to Make Your Openers Fun, Flirty, and Effortless

47:48: The Power of Direct Approaching—When and How to Use It

51:27: What to Say When You Approach, Day or Night

1:02:06: The Mindset Shift that Makes Starting Conversations Easy

1:10:01: Your 24-Hour Challenge—Are You Ready to Take Action?

Listen now and start confidently approaching women—with charm, authenticity, and real results!


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You’re tired of the apps, and you’d love to confidently talk to women at bars, cafes, stores or your gym. But hesitation and overthinking stop you. With Valentine’s Day here, it’s time to break free and start meeting women in real life. Dating coach Connell Barrett presents a special 4-part series to teach you how to meet women IRL the right way—not with weird “approach tactics” but with authentic confidence. In Part 1, Connell reveals the 5 mental blocks keeping you stuck and shares the 5 breakthroughs that will help you meet and flirt with wonderful women—anywhere, anytime.

Episode Highlights:

4:25: Why ‘Approaching’ Feels So Hard and Scary

13:37: Mental Block #1: ‘I’m Not Enough’ and Why This is Total B.S.

16:34: Mental Block #2: ‘She Doesn’t Want Me to Bother Her’ and What Women Really Think

17:18: Mental Block #3: ‘I Might Creep Her Out’ and How This Kills Your Confidence

19:45: Mental Block #4: ‘I Don’t Know What to Say’ and the Simple Move to Fix This

21:16: Mental Block #5: ‘What If I Get Rejected?’ and the Win-Lose Mindset That Hurts You

25:33: Breakthrough #1: ‘I Am Enough’ and the Truth About Attraction

31:45: Breakthrough #2: ‘She Wants Me to Talk to Her’—What Women Truly Want

38:37: Breakthrough #3: ‘Talking to Women Is Attractive’ and the ‘Aha!’ Shift You Need

50:12: Breakthrough #4: ‘I Don’t Need the Perfect Line’—How to Know What to Say

1:02:02: Breakthrough #5: ‘I Cannot Lose’—the Win-Win Mindset that Makes You Confident

Listen now and start confidently meeting women in real life!


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Sick of sending openers that women ignore? Not sure what to write on Hinge, Tinder, or Bumble? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his top 10 best flirty online-dating openers—tested and proven to get responses. You’ll get copy-and-paste openers for every type of woman to get them writing you back and going on dates with you. Plus, Connell reveals his no. 1 opener that works on ANY woman … and gets him replies 81% of the time!

You’re about to learn:

05:30: Connell’s Lowest Online-Dating Moment

06:45: His Comeback: 3 Great First Dates in 3 Nights—All from the Apps!

09:30: Flirty Opener #10: What to Write… when Her Bio is Empty

12:52: Flirty Opener #9: …when She Has Lots of Selfies14:31: Flirty Opener #8: …when She’s into Partying and Socializing

16:25: Flirty Opener #7: …when She Has a Dog in Her Photos

19:09: Flirty Opener #6: … when She Has Bold, Flirty Pics (Bikini shots, Cleavage)

23:30: Flirty Opener #5: …when Her Bio is Witty or Sarcastic

30:01: Flirty Opener #4: …when She’s Really into Travel

33:40: Flirty Opener #3: …when She’s an Artsy, Creative Type37:00: Flirty Opener #2: …when She’s Highly Career-driven

40:03: Flirty Opener #1: The Best Opener that Works On Any Woman 81% of the Time

Listen now and use these flirty openers to get women writing you back… and get dates!


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You want a bright, beautiful girlfriend, right? But you’re not sure how to connect with women. And maybe the girls you’re attracted to keep picking other guys over you. Not anymore! Because you’re about to learn the 7 Dating Superpowers. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 7 most powerful attractors that make women say, “I want him!” From confident flirting to texts she can’t resist, you’re about to go from Peter Parker to Spider-Man… no radioactive arachnid required! Plus, you don’t need all 7 superpowers—just unlocking one or two can change everything.

Here are the 7 Dating Superpowers You’re About to Learn:

9:43: Fearless Approaching so You Can Start Conversations with Women Anywhere

15:07: Effortless Flirting so You Can Be Charming and Attractive

21:15: Magnetic Charisma so Women Feel Drawn to Your Authentic Self

34:14: Unshakable Confidence so “Rejection” Can’t Hurt You

40:03: Top-Tier Texting so You’ll Go from “Unread” to Setting Up Dates

51:33: Vibe Mastery so Your Dates Feel Flirty and Sexy

59:48: Decisive Leadership so Women Trust You and See You as Boyfriend Material

Every dating superpower is here and learnable. What’s yours? Which one will you master? Listen now.


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Do you ever feel like you’re just not what women want? Like you’re not charismatic or interesting or attractive enough? It’s frustrating. The good news? You can fix it—fast! In this special live coaching episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett guides his client Nick to a powerful breakthrough. In just one hour, Nick transforms from feeling insecure to truly magnetic, simply by destroying his biggest limiting belief. (This coaching session first aired in 2023. Now, in 2025, Nick is dating a wonderful woman!)

You’re about to learn:

2:00: The Real Cause of Dating Insecurity (and How to Fix It)

5:28: The Secret to Confidence: Awakening Your Higher Self

23:05: How to Identify the Limiting Belief that’s Hurting Your Dating Life

38:30: A Simple Way to Erase Self-Doubt for Good

52:17: Nick’s Aha Moment: Ditching his Insecurities and Realizing his True Worth to Women

1:07:14: The Confidence Breakthrough: Awakening Your Most Amazing, Authentic You

Listen now to stop feeling insecure and start feeling confident and magnetic to women.


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