How to Lose the Wait

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  • 48. Artful Revolution: Rewriting Your Body’s Story Through Creative Expression

    Discover how art can transform your journey toward body acceptance in this empowering episode of ‘Say When!’.

    Host Holly Toscanini explores the therapeutic power of creativity, highlights inspiring women artists, and offers practical tips for embracing your body through artistic expression.

    Perfect for women looking to break free from diet culture and celebrate body diversity.

    Tune in for insightful discussions on body positivity, self-love, and the healing power of art.

    Key takeaways:

    Art as a Powerful Tool for Body Acceptance: Art offers a unique and liberating way to explore and express feelings about your body. Engaging in creative activities can help shift your perception and foster a deeper sense of self-love and body acceptance, whether through painting, photography, writing, or movement.

    Challenging Societal Norms Through Creativity: Many women artists are using their work to challenge narrow societal beauty standards and promote body diversity. By embracing art as a form of resistance, you can contribute to a broader movement that celebrates all bodies and encourages a more inclusive view of beauty.

    Overcoming Barriers to Creativity: You don’t need to be a professional artist to benefit from the healing power of art. Start small, embrace imperfections, and remember that the process of creating is more important than the final product. Engaging in creative expression is a journey toward self-discovery, empowerment, and body positivity.

    Resources:

    Dianne Bondy @diannebondyyogaofficial https://diannebondy.com/ https://yogaforeveryone.tv/catalog

    Megan Jayne Crabbe @bodyposipanda https://www.meganjaynecrabbe.com https://www.instagram.com/meganjaynecrabbe/?hl=en

    Michelle Elman (@scarrednotscared) https://michelleelman.com/ https://www.instagram.com/michellelelman/?hl=en

    Sally Hewett @sally_hewett https://www.instagram.com/sally_hewett/?hl=en

    Teri Hofford @terihofford https://terihofford.com https://www.instagram.com/terihofford/?hl=en

    Visithra Manikam @vissyarts https://www.visithra.com/ https://www.instagram.com/vissyarts/?hl=en

    Toyin Ojih Odutola @toyinojihodutola https://www.instagram.com/toyinojihodutola/?hl=en https://toyinojihodutola.com

    Jessamyn Stanley @mynameisjessamyn https://jessamynstanley.com/ https://theunderbelly.com/

    Taynee Tinsley @tayneetinsley https://www.tayneetinsley.com

    Connect with Holly: Instagram: @hollytoscanini Facebook: HollyToscanini Website: www.hollytoscanini.com

    32 min
  • 47. Fitness Freedom: Exercise Without Obsession

    In this episode, Holly explores the transformative concept of “Fitness Freedom,” encouraging listeners to shift their focus from weight loss to well-being and joy. Drawing from the Health at Every Size (HAES) philosophy, Holly shares practical tips and real-life stories to help you find joy in movement and create a supportive fitness community. Tune in to learn how to break free from obsessive exercise and embrace a balanced, joyful approach to fitness. Key Takeaways: Redefine Fitness Goals: Shift your focus from weight loss to enjoying the physical, mental, and emotional benefits of exercise. Embrace Joyful Movement: Discover and engage in physical activities that you genuinely enjoy, such as dancing, hiking, or yoga. Mindfulness in Exercise: Incorporate mindfulness into your fitness routine to enhance your experience and stay present in the moment. Body Positivity and Acceptance: Promote body positivity and acceptance within yourself and your community to foster a supportive fitness environment. Connect with Like-minded Individuals: Join HAES-aligned classes, workshops, and online communities to find support and inspiration on your fitness journey. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider before starting any new exercise program. Connect with Holly: Instagram: @hollytoscanini Facebook: HollyToscanini Website: www.hollytoscanini.com

    24 min
  • 46. Body Talk: Understanding Your Body’s Language

    Today we’re discussing a topic that’s incredibly relevant in our fast-paced, diet-obsessed culture: understanding our body language. In a world where we’re constantly bombarded with messages about how we should look, eat, and feel, it’s easy to lose touch with our bodies’ inherent wisdom. But our bodies are always communicating with us, and today, we’re going to learn how to listen. Key Takeaways: Understanding Body Language: Learn about the non-verbal cues we give through our facial expressions, gestures, posture, and movements. Understanding these signals can enhance communication and self-perception. The Science Behind Body Language: Explore the biological reality of the mind-body connection. Understand how emotions manifest physically and learn to interpret these signals. Emotions and the Body: Discover how different emotions trigger various physical responses and how to manage them through emotional intelligence. Food and Intuition: Intuitive eating is about listening to your body’s hunger and fullness cues rather than following external diet rules. Mindfulness and Self-Compassion: Develop these practices to better understand and care for your body. Responding to Your Body: Create supportive rituals and routines that honor your body’s needs. Connect with Holly: Instagram: @hollytoscanini Facebook: Holly Toscanini Website: www.hollytoscanini.com

    22 min
  • 45. Diet Fads: The Good, The Bad, and The Hilarious

    In this episode of “Say When!”, we take a humorous yet critical look at the world of diet fads and fitness trends that have captivated us over the years. From the bizarre Tapeworm Diet to the ever-popular Keto and Intermittent Fasting, we explore how deeply ingrained diet culture can lead us to try anything to lose weight, often at the expense of our health. We also delve into the significant health risks posed by dangerous diet fads promoted on social media, such as Teatoxes and the Apple Cider Vinegar Diet. Through laughter and real talk, we encourage listeners to embrace body acceptance, trust their intuition, and adopt healthier, more sustainable approaches to wellness. Key Takeaways: Diet Culture’s Influence: Many people are willing to try extreme and sometimes dangerous diet fads due to the pervasive influence of diet culture, which often prioritizes quick fixes over long-term health. Health Risks of Popular Diets: Diets like Teatoxes, the Apple Cider Vinegar Diet, and Water Fasting pose significant health risks, including dehydration, nutrient deficiencies, and digestive issues, despite their widespread promotion by influencers. Importance of Body Acceptance: Embracing body acceptance and intuitive eating can lead to a healthier relationship with food and our bodies, moving away from the harmful cycle of chronic dieting and unrealistic body standards.

    25 min
  • 44. How to Stop Procrastinating: Empowering Women to Achieve Their Goals

    In this episode, Holly unpacks the pervasive issue of procrastination and self-sabotage that often hinders our personal growth and fulfillment. Holly unpacks the roots of these self-defeating behaviors, exploring how procrastination steals our time, diminishes productivity, increases stress, and erodes self-esteem. You’ll discover practical strategies to break free from procrastination, including cognitive-behavioral techniques, mindfulness practices, and actionable tips for enhancing motivation and productivity. Holly also breaks down the unique challenges women face, such as societal expectations, self-doubt, and emotional labor, providing tailored solutions to overcome these barriers. Let’s explore the detrimental effects of procrastination, understand the mental roadblocks that keep us stuck, and learn how to reclaim our time and goals. With engaging listener stories and real-life examples, this episode is packed with insights to help you take the first step towards a more empowered, fulfilling life. Don’t miss out on this transformative episode! Listen now and take the first step towards overcoming procrastination and self-sabotage. Remember to visit Holly’s website at www.hollytoscanini.com to sign up for the Freedom From Diets Assessment, designed to help you break free from patterns that hold you back and live your most empowered life. The Pomodoro Technique

    30 min
  • 43. Sacred Vessels: Your Body is a Sanctuary of Self-Love and Healing

    In this episode, Holly reinforces the message that treating the body as a sanctuary is a journey of self-discovery, acceptance, and reverence. She offers a heartfelt exploration of the body as a sacred vessel, emphasizing its role as a sanctuary for self-love, healing, and respect. Holly encourages listeners to view their bodies beyond physical attributes, recognizing them as intricate unions of spirit, emotion, and unique essence. Key Takeaways: 1. Redefining Body Perception: Holly challenges societal standards that reduce bodies to mere physical attributes, advocating for a holistic view where the body is seen as a complex, functioning universe housing mind, spirit, and emotions. 2. The Body as a Sacred Vessel: Drawing parallels with spiritual and religious contexts, Holly encourages listeners to view their bodies as sacred containers deserving of love and care, disrupting commercialized and commodified self-worth. 3. Autonomy and Self-Preservation: Emphasizing body autonomy, Holly discusses breaking free from societal expectations and internalized criticism, advocating for a view of the body as miraculous and worthy of celebration. 4. Spiritual and Cultural Context: The episode touches on various cultures like ancient Egypt, India, and Indigenous beliefs, highlighting how these cultures revered the body as a sacred space, thus grounding the discussion in a historical and multicultural perspective.

    27 min
  • 42. Reclaiming Your Mind: Kara Loewentheil’s New Book “Take Back Your Brain”

    In this episode of “Say When!”, host Holly Toscanini explores Kara Loewentheil’s new book, Take Back Your Brain: How a Sexist Society Gets in Your Head and How to Get it Out. Holly discusses the key themes and practical strategies Kara presents for combating internalized sexism and diet culture. From understanding the pervasive influence of societal messages on women’s self-perception to utilizing tools like thought ladders for building self-esteem and confidence, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable steps for reclaiming control over one’s mind and life. Holly also shares personal anecdotes from her coaching practice and highlights the importance of financial empowerment and authentic relationships. Key Takeaways: Understanding Internalized Sexism: Recognize how societal messages shape self-perception and lead to self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and the relentless pursuit of physical perfection. Diet Culture and Patriarchy: Learn how diet culture, intertwined with patriarchal norms, perpetuates unrealistic beauty standards, undermines self-worth, and creates a cycle of guilt and shame. Practical Steps to Reclaim Body Image: Develop media literacy, embrace body positivity, and join supportive communities to counteract the negative impacts of diet culture and patriarchy. Overcoming Romantic Relationship Challenges: Identify and address societal conditioning that equates worth with romantic success to build authentic, fulfilling relationships based on mutual respect and emotional independence. The Power of Thought Ladders: Utilize thought ladders to shift from negative to positive thoughts gradually, fostering self-acceptance and confidence in various aspects of life, including body image, relationships, and financial empowerment. Tune in to discover how you can take back your brain and lead a more empowered, confident, and fulfilling life. Resources: Take Back Your Brain: https://www.takebackyourbrainbook.com/ School of New Feminist Thought: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/ UnFck Your Brain Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-ck-your-brain-feminist-self-help-for-everyone/id1229434818

    24 min
  • 40. From Restriction to Liberation: Transform Your Eating Habits and Self-Image

    Fed up with restrictive dieting? Holly offers a fresh perspective on intuitive living and escaping diet culture. She covers everything from the basics of intuitive eating to overcoming body image struggles, supported by insights from ‘The Wellness Trap’ by Christy Harrison. Tune in to start your path to body positivity and food freedom. In today’s episode, we delved into the transformative journey away from diet culture towards intuitive eating and body positivity. Here are the top three key takeaways: The Power of Personal Transformation: Through the ‘Freedom from Diets Assessment’ (now called the Intuitive Woman Blueprint) and stories from real women who have embarked on this journey, we highlighted how personalized insights and actionable steps can lead to significant life changes—enhancing self-acceptance, reducing food-related anxiety, and increasing overall life satisfaction. Understanding and Rejecting Diet Culture: We explored what diet culture is and how it negatively impacts our mental and physical health by promoting unrealistic beauty standards and unhealthy eating habits. Recognizing and rejecting these influences is the first step towards healing our relationship with food and our bodies. Embracing Intuitive Eating: Intuitive eating is a practice that encourages us to listen to our body’s hunger and fullness cues without judgment. We discussed its core principles and how it leads to better health outcomes by fostering a balanced and mindful approach to eating. Learn tools to break free from restrictive eating patterns and receive inspiration to reclaim your power over food and develop unconditional self-confidence. The Wellness Trap: Break Free From Diet Culture, Disinformation, and Dubious Diagnosises and Find Your True Well-Being- Christy Harrison

    25 min
  • 41. Unpacking the Spiritual Crisis of Diet Culture: The Religion of Thinness

    Dive into the world of holistic health in this episode of ‘Say, ‘When!’ as we explore effective strategies to escape the restrictive chains of diet culture. Discover the benefits of intuitive eating and learn how to value your mental, spiritual, and physical health equally. Read ‘The Religion of Thinness’ for deeper insights. Key Takeaways Understanding the Psychological and Emotional Aspects: We’ve explored how chronic dieting often stems from deeper emotional needs and how it can become a coping mechanism that affects our mental, spiritual, and physical health. Holistic Approach to Well-being: It’s crucial to approach health and wellness by equally valuing our mental, spiritual, and physical health. This holistic view can lead us to more sustainable, fulfilling lifestyles. Breaking Free: We’ve discussed practical strategies for breaking free from the dieting cycle, focusing on intuitive eating and activities that nourish our bodies and souls. Resources Michelle M. Lelwica’s book, “The Religion of Thinness: Satisfying the Spiritual Hungers Behind Women’s Obsession with Food and Weight.”

    36 min
  • 39. Diet Culture Exposed- Unmasking Its Impact and How to Break Free

    In today’s episode of “Say When!”, we explore the pervasive influence of diet culture and its impact on our self-perception and everyday lives. We uncovered how diet culture not only shapes our eating habits but also affects our self-esteem, relationships, and mental health. By unmasking the harmful effects of diet culture, we empower ourselves to embrace a healthier, more fulfilling approach to living that celebrates diversity in body shapes and sizes and focuses on genuine well-being rather than unrealistic beauty standards. Key Takeaways: Understanding Diet Culture: We discussed the various ways diet culture manifests, from labeling foods as good or bad to promoting exercise as a form of punishment rather than enjoyment. Recognizing these patterns is the first step toward breaking free from their grip. The Impact of Diet Culture: Diet culture not only affects our eating and exercise habits but deeply influences our self-worth and emotional health. By challenging the norms of diet culture, we can reclaim our self-esteem and develop a more compassionate relationship with our bodies. Embracing Body and Food Freedom: We emphasized the importance of tuning into our body’s natural cues and rejecting external pressures, fostering an environment where we can find true satisfaction and joy in our eating habits and body image.

    26 min

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Welcome to How to Lose the ‘WAIT’—the podcast for women in midlife who are tired of living like their real life starts “later.”

If you’ve been waiting for confidence, the perfect timing, the…