Imagine you've decided it's time to have "the conversation" about your partnership ambitions. You book time with a senior partner in your firm. The meeting goes well. You feel energised.
Then, a few days later, you sense something's off with your direct line manager. The atmosphere has changed. They seem cool with you.
What happened? You just committed one of the cardinal sins of partnership politics: you went to the wrong person first.
This political misstep might have just damaged your partnership chances more than any weakness in your Business Case.
The unwritten rule: always go to your direct line manager first. Not the senior partner you once worked with. Not the office managing partner. Not the influential partner you met at a networking event. Your direct line manager. Always.
In this episode, you'll discover the political rules of partnership conversations that no one tells you about, but everyone expects you to know.
In this episode you will learn:
The golden rule of partnership conversations (and why breaking it can damage critical relationships)
Why your direct line manager needs to be your first conversation (and how going over their head signals you don't value them)
How different partners have different agendas (and why the office managing partner cares about different things than your practice group leader)
How to ask for partnership conversations without creating political problems (the exact language to use)
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