What does it really mean to make your faith your own—and not just inherit it from your parents or your church culture? In this episode, guest host Luke Friesen sits down with young adults pastor Matt Bender to talk about the real struggles of owning your faith in today’s world. From deconstruction to doubt, bad church experiences, and spiritual burnout, Matt speaks honestly about how to navigate the tension between tradition and transformation. They unpack why some young people walk away, how false teaching can contribute to that, and why Jesus is still compelling when you meet Him on His terms—not just your preferences. Whether you're questioning everything or trying to grow deeper, this conversation will help you rethink faith, identity, and what it means to follow Jesus for yourself.