We get it—he’s hot, the chemistry is insane, and he’s an amazing kisser. But before you jump into bed, ask yourself: Is he actually interested in you, or is he just looking for a convenient hookup? In this episode, we’re breaking down how to spot the signs of a guy who’s only in it for sex, how to set boundaries, and how to make sure you’re getting what you want out of dating. Whether you’re looking for a relationship or just want to avoid getting played, we’ll help you navigate the difference between a real connection and a booty call.

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Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

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