Getting Better with Jonathan Van Ness

How To Stop Editing Yourself for the Wrong People (with MattLovesHair)


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What happens when you meet someone who looks like your long-lost twin… and then they also have an iconic backstory to match? 


JVN is joined by Matt Newman (aka MattLovesHair on social media) for one helluva delightful conversation. From photoshoot fiascos, an ANTM-era detour, and Matt’s origin story as an OG Drybar stylist. From there, it’s all the hits - strip club stories, “DollarStoreJVN,” frat hazing, first love, and how social media can shape (and sometimes warp) the way we see ourselves.


Then we go deeper: how gender expression evolves, what it takes to feel safe being seen, and the confidence it requires to live more honestly—even when the world has opinions. And yes… JVN talks about potentially chopping their hair off, what it was like cutting their hair back in the day, and what it taught them about identity, control, and change.


If you’ve ever felt like you were editing yourself to fit the room, this one will hit—and leave you feeling a little braver.


Full Getting Better Video Episodes now available on YouTube

Follow Matt Newman on Instagram @mattloveshair 

Follow us on Instagram @gettingbetterwithjvn Jonathan on Instagram @jvn

Executive Producer, Chris McClure

Producer, Editor & Engineer is Nathanael McClure

Production support from Chad Hall

Our theme music is also composed by Nathanael McClure.

Check out the JVN Patreon for exclusive BTS content, extra interviews, and much much more - check it out here: www.patreon.com/jvn 

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