Brandon The Dom

How To Train a Service Sub in BDSM

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What if the most powerful kind of submission didn’t involve ropes, pain, or punishment—but quiet devotion? This deep dive into the world of the service sub explores the psychology, practices, and emotional intimacy behind acts of service in Dom/sub dynamics. Discover how small tasks become sacred rituals and why this underrated role holds transformative potential for both Dominants and submissives.

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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:27) - What is a Service Sub?
  • (02:30) - Why Might Someone Enjoy Being a Service Sub?
  • (05:26) - Why Might Someone Enjoy Being Served?
  • (07:12) - Creating Tasks for Service Subs
  • (10:52) - Addressing the Service Submissive’s Needs
  • (13:27) - Training a Service Sub
  • (14:44) - Correcting Mistakes
  • (15:58) - Aftercare for Service Submission
  • (16:48) - Principles for Being a Service Sub

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