April 07, 2025

How Wedding Ceremonies Are Different Than in the 1990s (A Pastor’s Perspective)

24 minutes

Wedding ceremonies today are very different from those of the 1990s. Thom and Sam discuss what’s changed. What’s surprising and what’s not?

Some ceremonies are shorter and smaller, while others are more expensive and elaborate.

Ceremonies today are less traditional and tend to be more personalized.

Everyone is living together. Pre-marital counseling is more important than ever.

There are far more people getting married who are older (delaying marriage, divorces, and blended families).

Fewer pastors come to the rehearsals and dinners.

Fewer weddings take place in the church sanctuary.

The photos and videos are far more epic (drones!).

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