In this episode of How You Go There, Scott and Linda continue the conversation on relationships—this time focusing on how to move beyond transactional networking and start building genuine, meaningful connections.

They break down the difference between surface-level interactions and relationships rooted in authenticity, vulnerability, and consistency. Through real stories and practical exercises from the companion guide, you’ll learn how to better understand yourself, show up with intention, and create connections that actually support your personal and professional growth.

Because how you go there isn’t just about the destination—it’s about who you go there with.

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00:00 – Why relationships don’t have to last forever to matter

What if everything you’ve been taught about success is backwards?

In this episode of How You Go There, Scott and Linda dive into one of the most overlooked — yet powerful — drivers of personal and professional growth: relationships.

From challenging the idea that success is built on skills alone, to exploring how the right relationships create access, opportunity, and momentum, this conversation reframes how you think about your journey.

You’ll learn why every meaningful milestone in your life likely traces back to a person, how to identify the relationships shaping your path, and what it actually looks like to build intentional, high-impact connections.

Plus, we introduce a practical exercise from the How You Go There workbook: relationship mapping — helping you break down your network into mentors, supporters, challengers, and more.

Whether you're looking to grow your career, strengthen your network, or better understand your path, this episode will challenge you to rethink who’s on your “train” — and why it matters.

If someone mapped you, what role would you play in their life?

00:00 Introduction to the series and focus on relationships

Who you partner with can shape everything—your business, your growth, and your life.

In this episode, Scott and Linda explore the difference between partnerships and relationships, introduce the “Kite vs String” framework, and share practical ways to identify strengths, growth areas, and complementary skill sets.

If you want to build stronger partnerships and become a more effective leader, this episode is for you.

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Before you can move forward in your career or leadership journey, you need to understand what brought you here.

In this episode of the How You Go There Podcast, hosts Scott Montgomery and Linda Misegadis kick off the season by walking through the very first exercise in the How You Go There workbook — reflecting on your journey.

Through personal stories and practical leadership insights, Scott and Linda explore how pivotal moments, relationships, and decisions shape our professional paths. They also share simple exercises to help you pause, reflect, and identify where you want to go next.

You'll hear real examples of leadership lessons, career missteps, and the powerful role that mentorship and partnerships can play in shaping your trajectory.

If you’ve ever asked yourself “How did I get here?” or wondered what your next step should be, this episode will help you begin that process with intention.

• Why reflection is the first step to meaningful career growth

✔ Write your “Here Statement” — why you are where you are today

Growth doesn't start with a five-year plan.

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00:00 Introduction to the How You Go There Podcast

Welcome to Episode 12 of How You Go There (HYGT Podcast) — a space where we go beyond traditional success stories to uncover the real strategies, skills, and turning points that shape careers and leadership.

In this episode, hosts Scott Montgomery (ICF Certified Leadership Coach and author of How Did You Get Here?) and Linda Misegadis (business strategist and host of Her Resources Podcast) open up about what it means to pause, reset, and realign in your career.

They share an honest conversation about self-reflection, fulfillment, and how to apply coaching tools at every stage of your career — even after decades of experience.

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When it’s time to “reset” your career direction

The difference between coaching, therapy, advising, and mentorship

How to apply your professional experience in new, meaningful ways

Why vulnerability and trust are key to growth

The power of reflective tools like the How You Go There Companion Guide

00:00 – Introduction: What Do You Do With All Your Experience?

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Episode 11 – Go First | How You Go There Podcast

Leadership isn’t about waiting your turn — it’s about knowing when to step up. In this episode, hosts Scott Montgomery and Linda Misegadis explore the power of going first—whether in meetings, career transitions, or personal growth.

You’ll learn how to overcome fear, judgment, and imposter syndrome while building the confidence to create opportunities. From ice-breaking in the workplace to finding mentors and opening doors in everyday life, this conversation shows how taking the first step can change the trajectory of your career and leadership journey.

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Why going first builds influence and credibility

How leaders can create safe environments for others to step up

Practical strategies to balance humility, courage, and vulnerability

The role of relationships in advancing your leadership growth

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00:00 – Opening Insights

02:10 – Why Going First Matters

04:00 – Icebreakers at Work

06:30 – Humility & Intentionality

08:15 – Building Mentorship Through Initiative

09:45 – Confidence & Restraint

12:10 – Mentoring & Gender Dynamics

15:15 – Public Speaking as a Leadership Skill

17:00 – Everyday Examples of Going First

20:00 – Leadership & Safe Environments

22:20 – Key Takeaways

23:00 – Free Resource + Closing

Episode 10 – From Job #1 to Job #2: Building the Bridge

Your first job might get you started, but it’s the second job where careers really begin to take shape. In this episode, Scott and Linda talk about what it takes to successfully move from Job #1 to Job #2 — without losing momentum.

Hear how reputation, authentic relationships, and staying prepared for opportunities can open doors you didn’t even know existed. If you’ve ever wondered how to leverage your first job into the next big move, this episode is your playbook.

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00:00 – Why Your Second Job is Pivotal

01:17 – Reputation is the Best Resume

03:00 – Building Relationships that Open Doors

05:24 – Job #1 Lessons that Propel Job #2

07:10 – Linda’s Career Story: From Secretary to Finance

09:30 – The Power of Authentic Networking

12:00 – Follow-Up, Gratitude & Staying Ready

14:30 – Exploring New Industries Without Fear

16:45 – Turning Conversations Into Opportunities

17:43 – Key Takeaways & Practical Career Advice

19:27 – Free PDF Giveaway & Closing

Episode 9 of How You Go There explores networking as the foundation of career and leadership success.

Scott and Linda discuss how networking starts with your very first job and continues throughout your career. They share candid insights into how meaningful connections—whether with peers, executives, or mentors—can transform your path and lead to future opportunities you never expected.

This episode goes beyond surface-level advice to show you how to network authentically, follow up with purpose, and turn professional relationships into lasting ones.

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0:00 – Introduction

Episode 8 of How You Go There explores what it really takes to grow your career: relationships, networking, and communication. Scott Montgomery and Linda Misegadis share stories from their first jobs, lessons learned in leadership, and strategies to stand out in any workplace.

If you’re serious about leadership growth and self development, this episode will give you practical steps to connect authentically, overcome insecurities, and open doors for new opportunities.

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0:00 – Why networking is the key to career success

Welcome back to Part Two of How to Build Real Relationships at Work, where Scott Montgomery and Linda Misegadis go beyond titles and résumés to show how real connection, vulnerability, and follow-through are the most powerful leadership tools you have.

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Real relationships—not job titles—shape your career path

Promotions and opportunities often start with conversations, not applications

A wide-ranging career built on trust, gratitude, and curiosity sets you apart as a leader

Visual impressions and preparedness play crucial roles in networking

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00:00 – Recap and Setup for Part 2