How You Go There Podcast

How You Go There Podcast

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How You Go There Podcast episodes

  • Building Better Habits: The Foundation of Peak Performance

    In this episode of How You Go There, Scott and Linda shift the focus to one of the most overlooked drivers of success: habits.

    While goals often get the spotlight, it’s your daily habits that truly shape your performance, your leadership, and your long-term outcomes. This conversation breaks down how habits influence everything—from your relationships and partnerships to your energy, focus, and ability to lead effectively.

    Through real-life examples and practical exercises from the companion guide, Scott and Linda explore how to identify your current habits, build better ones, and create a foundation for consistent growth.

    If you’re looking to improve your leadership, increase your self-awareness, and operate at a higher level—this episode is where it starts.

    Because the life you want isn’t built in one big moment… it’s built in the habits you practice every day.

    Listen to more episodes: https://www.howyougothere.com/podcast

    Download FREE companion guide modules: https://www.howyougothere.com/hygt-pdf-giveaway

    Timestamps:

    00:00 – Welcome + “Two Voices, One Vision” explained

    01:46 – Why this podcast blends multiple leadership perspectives
    03:42 – Why habits are the focus of this episode
    05:17 – What habits actually are (and why they matter)
    06:11 – Habits as the key to peak performance
    07:09 – Why habits matter more than goals
    07:59 – The Habit Assessment exercise explained
    08:45 – Why partnerships, relationships, and self-care matter
    10:10 – Habits that strengthen partnerships
    11:13 – The importance of intentional check-ins
    12:05 – Habits that deepen relationships
    12:38 – Active listening as a leadership habit
    14:12 – Breaking distraction and being present
    15:52 – Creating habits for focus and effectiveness
    17:03 – Preparing yourself before important moments
    17:50 – Self-care habits and self-awareness
    19:12 – “This is not an emergency” mindset
    20:31 – Taking a beat before reacting
    21:48 – Why most people fail at building habits
    22:07 – How to actually create sustainable habits
    22:25 – Eliminating vs. reducing habits
    23:10 – Real example: quitting smoking through habit change
    24:21 – Knowing yourself to build the right habits
    24:30 – Key takeaway: habits shape outcomes
    25:17 – Positive habits and consistency
    25:35 – Start small: consistency over intensity
    26:03 – Why habits drive long-term success
    26:32 – What’s coming next: building stronger habits
    26:43 – Final takeaway: small actions build the life you want

    29 min
  • Making Genuine Connections: Moving Beyond Transactional Relationships

    In this episode of How You Go There, Scott and Linda continue the conversation on relationships—this time focusing on how to move beyond transactional networking and start building genuine, meaningful connections.

    They break down the difference between surface-level interactions and relationships rooted in authenticity, vulnerability, and consistency. Through real stories and practical exercises from the companion guide, you’ll learn how to better understand yourself, show up with intention, and create connections that actually support your personal and professional growth.

    Because how you go there isn’t just about the destination—it’s about who you go there with.

    Listen to more episodes: https://www.howyougothere.com/podcast

    Get your free companion guide: https://www.howyougothere.com/hygt-pdf-giveaway

    Timestamps:

    00:00 – Why relationships don’t have to last forever to matter

    00:23 – Introduction to the series and relationship deep dive
    02:19 – Transactional vs. genuine relationships
    03:54 – Why networking often feels performative
    04:42 – The “garden” metaphor for building relationships
    06:02 – Leading with vulnerability instead of your résumé
    07:26 – Rethinking the elevator pitch (“Know Thyself”)
    08:31 – Do transactional relationships have an expiration date?
    09:25 – How real connections actually start (Scott & Linda’s story)
    11:21 – Presence vs. positioning in conversations
    13:40 – The “Know Thyself” exercise explained
    16:21 – Finding relationships that complement (not mirror) you
    18:19 – Preparing for meaningful conversations
    20:43 – How to intentionally build deeper connections
    22:43 – Why consistency matters in relationships
    25:23 – Using the Relationship Action Plan
    26:18 – When credentials hurt more than they help
    27:48 – It’s okay for relationships to evolve or end
    29:02 – Weekly challenge: connect with no agenda

    30 min
  • It’s Not What You Know — It’s Who You Know | The Power of Relationships

    What if everything you’ve been taught about success is backwards?

    In this episode of How You Go There, Scott and Linda dive into one of the most overlooked — yet powerful — drivers of personal and professional growth: relationships.

    From challenging the idea that success is built on skills alone, to exploring how the right relationships create access, opportunity, and momentum, this conversation reframes how you think about your journey.

    You’ll learn why every meaningful milestone in your life likely traces back to a person, how to identify the relationships shaping your path, and what it actually looks like to build intentional, high-impact connections.

    Plus, we introduce a practical exercise from the How You Go There workbook: relationship mapping — helping you break down your network into mentors, supporters, challengers, and more.

    Whether you're looking to grow your career, strengthen your network, or better understand your path, this episode will challenge you to rethink who’s on your “train” — and why it matters.

    In this episode:
    • Why “it’s not what you know, it’s who you know” is more true than you think
    • How relationships shape your career and life trajectory
    • The difference between relationships and partnerships
    • How to map and evaluate your current network
    • Why you need both supporters and challengers
    • When it’s time to strengthen, repair, or release relationships
      • Reflect on this:

      If someone mapped you, what role would you play in their life?

      Timestamps:

      00:00 Introduction to the series and focus on relationships

      00:52 Why relationships are central to success
      01:31 Scott’s UVA story and late-career milestone
      03:35 Key takeaway from students: relationships matter most
      04:33 “It’s not what you know, it’s who you know” explained
      05:22 Every milestone is tied to a relationship
      06:08 How relationships create opportunity in careers
      07:25 Honoring and sustaining relationships over time
      08:26 Relationships vs partnerships explained
      10:32 Why relationships are often underestimated
      12:22 Long-term relationships and trust in action
      13:26 Skills vs relationships debate
      15:30 How relationships create access and opportunity
      16:01 Introduction to relationship mapping exercise
      18:03 How to map your network (mentors, supporters, challengers)
      20:07 Key realizations from mapping relationships
      23:22 Three core takeaways from the episode
      25:03 Final reflections on growth and relationships
      25:41 Where to connect and follow the podcast

      27 min
    • The Secret to Better Partnerships (Kite vs String Explained)

      Who you partner with can shape everything—your business, your growth, and your life.

      In this episode, Scott and Linda explore the difference between partnerships and relationships, introduce the “Kite vs String” framework, and share practical ways to identify strengths, growth areas, and complementary skill sets.

      If you want to build stronger partnerships and become a more effective leader, this episode is for you.

       

      Find more at howyougothere.com

      28 min
    • What Brought You Here? Reflecting on Your Career & Leadership Journey | HYGT Podcast

      Before you can move forward in your career or leadership journey, you need to understand what brought you here.

      In this episode of the How You Go There Podcast, hosts Scott Montgomery and Linda Misegadis kick off the season by walking through the very first exercise in the How You Go There workbook — reflecting on your journey.

      Through personal stories and practical leadership insights, Scott and Linda explore how pivotal moments, relationships, and decisions shape our professional paths. They also share simple exercises to help you pause, reflect, and identify where you want to go next.

      You'll hear real examples of leadership lessons, career missteps, and the powerful role that mentorship and partnerships can play in shaping your trajectory.

      If you’ve ever asked yourself “How did I get here?” or wondered what your next step should be, this episode will help you begin that process with intention.

      In This Episode You'll Learn

      • Why reflection is the first step to meaningful career growth

      • How pivotal moments shape leadership development
      • The importance of relationships and partnerships in your journey
      • A simple exercise to clarify where you are and where you're going
      • How small actions today can move your career forward

      Key Takeaways

      ✔ Write your “Here Statement” — why you are where you are today

      ✔ Choose one short-term goal for the next 30 days
      ✔ Identify one action step that moves you forward

      Growth doesn't start with a five-year plan.

      It starts with understanding your story.

      Resources

      Learn more about the workbook and resources:

      https://howyougothere.com

      Explore more episodes and links:

      https://linktr.ee/hygtpodcast

      Timestamps

      00:00 Introduction to the How You Go There Podcast

      00:41 Why understanding your journey matters
      01:23 The first exercise in the HYGT workbook
      02:13 Why partnerships and relationships shape our careers
      03:24 Scott’s early career story and a pivotal leadership lesson
      05:16 A career mistake that almost ended in termination
      06:16 The power of trust and relationships in leadership
      07:01 Linda shares a leadership lesson from defending her team
      08:32 A career setback that became a leadership growth moment
      09:23 Leadership starts with how you respond to challenges
      10:00 Sponsor message
      11:05 Reflecting on the “season” of your career
      11:35 How journaling and reflection create clarity
      13:02 Questions to help you evaluate your partnerships
      14:16 The simple framework: Where are you, why are you here, and what are your goals?
      16:12 Coaching leaders through career frustration
      17:28 Why reflection helps you move forward
      17:44 Actionable exercises from the workbook
      18:04 Write your “Here Statement”
      18:59 Setting one goal for the next 30 days
      20:23 Identifying your next small step
      21:07 Why small actions create momentum
      21:28 Final takeaways and reflections
      22:02 Wrapping up the episode and preview of next week

      24 min
    • EP 12: How to Reset Your Career & Reconnect with Purpose | Coaching, Reflection, and Real Growth

      Welcome to Episode 12 of How You Go There (HYGT Podcast) — a space where we go beyond traditional success stories to uncover the real strategies, skills, and turning points that shape careers and leadership.

      In this episode, hosts Scott Montgomery (ICF Certified Leadership Coach and author of How Did You Get Here?) and Linda Misegadis (business strategist and host of Her Resources Podcast) open up about what it means to pause, reset, and realign in your career.

      They share an honest conversation about self-reflection, fulfillment, and how to apply coaching tools at every stage of your career — even after decades of experience.

      🎧 Listen in to learn:

      • When it’s time to “reset” your career direction

      • The difference between coaching, therapy, advising, and mentorship

      • How to apply your professional experience in new, meaningful ways

      • Why vulnerability and trust are key to growth

      • The power of reflective tools like the How You Go There Companion Guide

        🕒 Chapter Markers

        00:00 – Introduction: What Do You Do With All Your Experience?

        01:05 – Welcome to How You Go There
        02:00 – Why It’s Time to Reset
        04:00 – Practicing What You Preach
        06:30 – Setting Goals and Evaluating Relationships
        08:00 – Giveaway: Win How Did You Get Here? + Companion Guide
        10:00 – Coaching vs. Therapy and Finding Fulfillment
        15:00 – The Value of Vulnerability
        19:00 – Mentoring, Authenticity, and Leadership Growth
        24:00 – Trust, Transparency, and Effective Coaching
        30:00 – Final Takeaways: Sustainable Success and Self-Discovery

        🎁 Promo Code:

        Use HYGTEP12 for exclusive discounts on How You Go There resources.

        📘 Free Resource:

        Download our free guide — Finding Your Coach → https://www.howyougothere.com/exercise-pdfs/p/finding-your-coach-pdf

        🌐 Learn More:

        Website: https://www.howyougothere.com
        Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/how-you-go-there
        Listen on Podbean: https://www.instagram.com/howyougotherepod

        💬 Join the Conversation:

        Have you ever felt like you needed a career reset? What helped you find your direction? Drop your thoughts below and let’s talk about it!

        #HowYouGoThere #LeadershipDevelopment #CareerReset #Coaching #Podcast #ScottMontgomery #LindaMisegadis #PersonalGrowth #SelfReflection

        34 min
      • Go First: Leadership Growth, Confidence & Creating Opportunities | How You Go There Podcast Ep. 11

        Episode 11 – Go First | How You Go There Podcast

        Leadership isn’t about waiting your turn — it’s about knowing when to step up. In this episode, hosts Scott Montgomery and Linda Misegadis explore the power of going first—whether in meetings, career transitions, or personal growth.

        You’ll learn how to overcome fear, judgment, and imposter syndrome while building the confidence to create opportunities. From ice-breaking in the workplace to finding mentors and opening doors in everyday life, this conversation shows how taking the first step can change the trajectory of your career and leadership journey.

        💡 What You’ll Discover:

        • Why going first builds influence and credibility

        • How leaders can create safe environments for others to step up

        • Practical strategies to balance humility, courage, and vulnerability

        • The role of relationships in advancing your leadership growth

          📥 Free Resource for Leaders & Young Professionals:

          Download our Habit Tracker PDF with code HYGTEP11 → Download Here

          🌐 Learn more at howyougothere.com

          #LeadershipGrowth #SelfDevelopment #YoungLeaders #LeadershipJourney #HowYouGoTherePodcast

           

          • 00:00 – Opening Insights

            Fear, judgment, and the challenge of speaking up.

          • 02:10 – Why Going First Matters

            Confidence, leadership, and creating opportunity.

          • 04:00 – Icebreakers at Work

            Speaking up in meetings and setting the tone.

          • 06:30 – Humility & Intentionality

            How to “go first” without overperforming.

          • 08:15 – Building Mentorship Through Initiative

            Turning vulnerability into mentorship opportunities.

          • 09:45 – Confidence & Restraint

            Balancing courage with listening and learning.

          • 12:10 – Mentoring & Gender Dynamics

            Different styles of collaboration and mentoring.

          • 15:15 – Public Speaking as a Leadership Skill

            Why speaking up develops long-term leadership growth.

          • 17:00 – Everyday Examples of Going First

            From networking to personal apologies.

          • 20:00 – Leadership & Safe Environments

            How leaders foster spaces for others to step forward.

          • 22:20 – Key Takeaways

            Building confidence, taking initiative, and creating opportunities.

          • 23:00 – Free Resource + Closing

            Habit Tracker PDF with code HYGTEP11.

            25 min
          • HYGT Ep. 10 | From Job #1 to Job #2 – How Relationships Launch Your Career

            Episode 10 – From Job #1 to Job #2: Building the Bridge

            Your first job might get you started, but it’s the second job where careers really begin to take shape. In this episode, Scott and Linda talk about what it takes to successfully move from Job #1 to Job #2 — without losing momentum.

            Hear how reputation, authentic relationships, and staying prepared for opportunities can open doors you didn’t even know existed. If you’ve ever wondered how to leverage your first job into the next big move, this episode is your playbook.

            💡 FREE PDF GIVEAWAY:

            Get the Effects of Habits PDF from the How You Go There Companion Guide for free with promo code HYGTEP10:
            https://www.howyougothere.com/exercise-pdfs/p/effects-of-habits

            🔗 Explore More:

            🌐 Website: howyougothere.com
            🔗 All Links: linktr.ee/hygtpodcast

            ⏱️ Podbean Chapter Markers

            • 00:00 – Why Your Second Job is Pivotal

            • 01:17 – Reputation is the Best Resume

            • 03:00 – Building Relationships that Open Doors

            • 05:24 – Job #1 Lessons that Propel Job #2

            • 07:10 – Linda’s Career Story: From Secretary to Finance

            • 09:30 – The Power of Authentic Networking

            • 12:00 – Follow-Up, Gratitude & Staying Ready

            • 14:30 – Exploring New Industries Without Fear

            • 16:45 – Turning Conversations Into Opportunities

            • 17:43 – Key Takeaways & Practical Career Advice

            • 19:27 – Free PDF Giveaway & Closing

              21 min
            • EP 9 | Networking That Lasts: How First Jobs Shape Career Growth & Leadership

              Episode 9 of How You Go There explores networking as the foundation of career and leadership success.

              Scott and Linda discuss how networking starts with your very first job and continues throughout your career. They share candid insights into how meaningful connections—whether with peers, executives, or mentors—can transform your path and lead to future opportunities you never expected.

              This episode goes beyond surface-level advice to show you how to network authentically, follow up with purpose, and turn professional relationships into lasting ones.

              🎁 Don’t miss your FREE Habit Action Plan PDF — a practical guide to turn networking insights into daily action. Get it at: https://www.howyougothere.com/exercise-pdfs/p/habit-action-plan using promo code HYGTEP9.

              🌐 Learn more at: https://www.howyougothere.com

              ⏱️ Timestamps:

              0:00 – Introduction

              2:00 – Networking starts with your first job
              4:00 – How relationships come full circle
              6:00 – Showing up prepared for connection
              8:00 – Building relationships with leaders
              10:00 – Using LinkedIn & personalization
              13:00 – Authentic follow-up & gratitude
              15:00 – Cross-functional networking
              17:00 – Remembering details that matter
              18:00 – Networking that becomes lifelong friendship
              20:00 – Closing insights

              21 min
            • How to Build Stronger Relationships at Work | How You Go There Podcast Ep. 8

              Episode 8 of How You Go There explores what it really takes to grow your career: relationships, networking, and communication. Scott Montgomery and Linda Misegadis share stories from their first jobs, lessons learned in leadership, and strategies to stand out in any workplace.

              If you’re serious about leadership growth and self development, this episode will give you practical steps to connect authentically, overcome insecurities, and open doors for new opportunities.

              🎁 FREE RESOURCE: Download the Build Stronger Habits exercise at https://www.howyougothere.com/exercise-pdfs/p/build-stronger-habits with promo code HYGTEP8

              🌐 Visit us at howyougothere.com

              🔗 More links: https://linktr.ee/HYGTPodcast

              ⏱️ Timestamps

              0:00 – Why networking is the key to career success

              2:00 – Lessons from our first jobs
              5:00 – Doing more than the daily tasks
              7:00 – Facing insecurities and going first
              10:30 – The role of body language in leadership
              14:00 – Reframing questions to open opportunities
              16:00 – Leadership communication exercises
              18:00 – Finding balance between tasks and networking
              20:00 – Streamlining awareness for faster growth
              22:00 – Breaking the ice with small gestures
              23:00 – LinkedIn networking strategies
              24:00 – Building strong networks early
              25:00 – Wrap up and next steps

              26 min

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            The How You Go There Podcast helps you understand your journey so you can intentionally shape what comes next.