This is a never before seen episode that was recorded but never aired and we couldn't keep holding onto this gem. During Summer 2020 we celebrated the 1 year anniversary of the How'd I Get Here podcast and it was a reflection on some of the episodes that have past. We talk about self doubt. Where does it come from and why do we have it? Our purpose in life. Can it change or are we stuck on one path? The conversation jumped around but this is certainly not an episode you want to miss. Tap in with us for this dope conversation!

Consistency is the key to everything. Key to success, key to happiness and so much more. We take a glance at how to find sustainable consistency. An effort that helps you achieve your goals but also helps you keep your sanity. In this weeks episode we covered A LOT. It's holiday season so we took a dive into holiday do's and don'ts. Should you bring your shortie around if they're not your partner? Do you take the bottle home with you that you brought? lol we cover it all. With the holidays here we know spending will be at an all time high. Have you ever financially cheated on a partner or hidden a bank account? Man this week got good. Tap in to this weeks episode and let us know what you think!

The wait is over the time has come to relive our best episode to date. What are gender roles? Are they a thing of the past or still part of the present? Should women be paying bills or is that all on the man in the relationship? Who pays for dates? What about new school relationships? What do they look like? We cover all this and more in our first live event episode. Tap in & thank you to everyone who came out and showed us love.

What is feminism? Is it just a woman who loves and supports everything for all women? No it's anyone who supports and want equality for all women. Yeah that's right men can be feminism too. With everything going on in todays climate from crazy laws in Texas to unfair jobs we took the time to take a deep dive into feminism. We covered everything from the music industry, to using the proper verbiage when addressing women. This episode is for everyone to understand and help the agenda in respecting women. Yup you guest it we're feminist here too and women all over deserve equal and fair treatment!

Having multiple partners is not "normal" according to societal standards. However to some it is the norm and in fact some peoples reality. The idea of having multiple intimate partners is what makes a polyamorous relationship so special. Intimate being the key word. They could come in the form of mental, physical emotional or any other stimulation. Some people may not want to share or understand how we can share partners but communication is a key component to understanding & accepting your partners needs. Tap into this weeks episode as we dive into Polyamory and more!

It's Fall so you know what that means! No not apple picking, corn mazes and haunted attractions. It means cuffin season is upon us. Yes corn mazes, haunted attractions and apple picking are apart of it. But so too is the sex, cuddling and everything else that cuffin season entails. What are the rules and perimeters? And how long does cuffin season last? We cover all this and more in this weeks episode. Tap in!

We all have a little bit of trauma. That's ok. But what isn't ok is allowing that trauma to dictate who we become and how we act. What's not ok is when that trauma makes us sabotage situations out of fear. Sometimes we self sabotage without even being aware. It hurts the people around us but even more so hurts ourselves. It could lead to bad habits and destroy relationships that were meant to help us. It could also lead to ghosting people which brings up the question is ghosting ever ok? And is it ok to ghost someone because they didn't pay for a date? Tap into this weeks episode where we cover all this and more!

We've all heard the term "Generational Curses" but what does it really mean? Does it equate to family curses and family trauma? How much of generational curses are because of culture and upbringing? For the 50th episode we took a dive into our upbringing to see what trauma we carried with us today. If you don't acknowledge your trauma it'll be passed onto your kids for generations and its time to break those bad habits now. It has to start somewhere.  Tap into this weeks episode!

Music is always a form of therapy. It can serve as a love language. Its a way to tell stories and also help communicate. In one way or another regardless of the genre music has done something for everyone. We kick off season 5 with a car ride listening to some of our favorite songs. We reminisce on some of our childhood stories and memories as well as some of the toughest and best life lessons we learned from music. Tap into this weeks episode and the kick off to season 5!  *we do not own the rights to any of this music*

It's been a long 12 weeks. 12 weeks of dope, clean and deep content. So we had to finish this season off strong. We took a deeper look into relationships. Should we be friends with ex's? Do we have to always cut people off and why? Sometimes it's because we've been hurt and have healed yet. Sometimes it's because we don't need certain energy around us. Relationships can also bring a sense of empowerment too. So can always being in control of your own situation. Or at least thinking you are. Tap into this weeks episode and finale of season 4.