Hugo's Posts

From the moment we are born we begin to model the behaviors of others and shape our desires based on what others have. If we allow ourselves to covet too much the stuff of others we risk the chance of losing ourselves on unhappy pursuits. Hugo discusses the times he's been led astray and the steps he has taken to keep his unhealthy wants at bay. 

Today on the Show: 

Vsauce2: The Invention of Blame (Scapegoat Mechanism) https://youtu.be/lNJq6BlVyhM

Definition of Covet: a) To wish for earnestly. b) to desire (what belongs to another) inordinately or culpably.

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In spite of some glitches Hugo chats at length with a very busy Michael Dean Roberts of the Gay Mens Podcast. They discuss Michael's many professional endeavors, the topics discussed on his two popular podcasts, male underwear design and much more. Who says Gen Xers and Millenials can't get along?

Today on the Show:

Gay Mens Podcast:  http://www.gaymenspodcast.com/ 

Michael Dean Roberts IMDd:  https://www.imdb.com/name/nm10789348/?ref_=nv_sr_1?ref_=nv_sr_1 

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Hugo chats with published authors A.J Bass and Benjamin W. Bass about the ups and downs of writing in modern times. 

Today on the Show: 

A.J. Bass - Paige’s Story https://www.ajbasswrites.com 

Benjamin Bass - Alone In the Light https://www.benjaminwbass.com 

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While cleaning out his garage Hugo found an old poem his High School teacher assigned in the last days of Senior year. It made little sense to him then but twenty years later he's lived a life and the puzzle pieces are starting to make sense. Hugo reads the poem and shares his thoughts on the importance of listening to the wisdom of elders and why we need to truly listen to each other more.

Today on the Show:

Ken Blanchard: Raving Fans

Desiderata 

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,

and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible without surrender

be on good terms with all persons.

Speak your truth quietly and clearly;

and listen to others,

even the dull and the ignorant;

they too have their story. 

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,

they are vexations to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others,

you may become vain and bitter;

for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. 

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;

it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs;

for the world is full of trickery.

But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;

many persons strive for high ideals;

and everywhere life is full of heroism. 

Be yourself.

Especially, do not feign affection.

Neither be cynical about love;

for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment

it is as perennial as the grass. 

Take kindly the counsel of the years,

gracefully surrendering the things of youth.

Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.

But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.

Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline,

be gentle with yourself. 

You are a child of the universe,

no less than the trees and the stars;

you have a right to be here.

And whether or not it is clear to you,

no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. 

Therefore be at peace with God,

whatever you conceive Him to be,

and whatever your labors and aspirations,

in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul. 

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,

it is still a beautiful world.

Be cheerful.

Strive to be happy. 

Max Ehrmann, Desiderata, Copyright 1952.

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After some meandering thoughts Hugo gets back to the business of telling stories. This time, he recalls some from his days in revelry and then the moment when he grew and matured. A discussion on moving past the good stages in life in order to live a fuller whole story.

Today on the Show:

The Broadmoor Hotel:  https://www.broadmoor.com/ 

Quote: "The best laid plas of mice and men often go awry."  https://www.dictionary.com/browse/the-best-laid-plans-of-mice-and-men-often-go-awry "

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Graduation/Wedding season recently passed and after all the celebrating you might find yourself wondering....what's next. Hugo talks about how he copes with those days after reaching personal summits.

Today on the Show:

Pachellbel - Canon In D Major: https://youtu.be/NlprozGcs80

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 There have been times when Hugo has hesitated for the stars to align perfectly before acting. In some of those occasion, the waiting game has cost him dearly. Now Hugo tells you why it is more important to act and also how you might deal when you loose a profession that you've worked hard to achieve.

Clip from The Good, The Bad and the Ugly: https://youtu.be/aJCSNIl2Pls

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 Hugo has had a terrible cold over the last week. Unable to really talk but needed to for work and more he's faced a few battles this week. Even though he's only 5'7" our Podcast host is a scrappy fella with some tricks up his sleeves. He shares his...will you be kind enough to share yours?

Today on the Show:

Rocky IV Clip: The Russian's Cut: https://youtu.be/qZRbStnLn3c

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Hugo has a routine which includes listening to dozens of Podcasts a week. Who influences him? Here are just a few.

Today on the Show:

We Live on a Planet:  https://wloap.com/ 

Strong Body, Strong Soul:  https://anchor.fm/maria-humphreys 

Be A Man Podcast: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/anchor-podcasts/the-be-a-man-podcast

Swearing Mamas:  https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/anchor-podcasts/swearing-mamas 

Tiny Bites:  https://www.tinyambitions.com/ 

My Stuttering Life:  https://www.podbean.com/podcast-detail/27fb8-780b3/My-Stuttering-Life-Podcast 

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Hugo was an angry young man in Los Angeles during the late 90s and 2000s. Luckily his anger didn't land him in serious hot water. Now at 40 plus years he has rethought his approach to dealing with situations where tempers are flaring and how that could impact the lives of his kin. Your thoughts and comments are always appreciated. 

Today on the Show:

Boyz n the Hood clip: https://youtu.be/W1fv8bPOwGk

 Cholo Definition by Urban Dictionary:  https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cholo 

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