What happens when the life you’ve carefully built disappears overnight?
In this episode of Human Enough, we sit down with Desirae Terry, a licensed psychotherapist, speaker, and author of the forthcoming memoir SPINAL TAP: How My Medical Trauma Uncaged Me.
At just 24 years old and pregnant, Desirae experienced a catastrophic spinal injury that changed the course of her life. The elite athlete who once measured herself by achievement, resilience, and doing everything “right” suddenly found herself confronting disability, multiple surgeries, grief, surrogacy, and an entirely new identity.
Rather than allowing trauma to define her, Desirae discovered that healing isn’t about becoming who you were before—it’s about becoming someone more honest, more whole, and more free.
Together, we explore perfectionism, identity, motherhood, resilience, grief, burnout, and what it truly means to stop performing and start living.
Whether you’ve experienced trauma, struggle with perfectionism, or simply feel exhausted by trying to hold everything together, this conversation offers hope, compassion, and a new way forward.