What if some of the qualities you’ve been praised for your entire life—being agreeable, easygoing, helpful, quiet, and accommodating—were once ways you learned to feel safe?
In this episode of HUMAN ENOUGH, I sit down with Bradley L. Gabbert, author of The Agreeable Child: A Yogic Journey from Tragedy to Triumph, for a deeply personal conversation about childhood trauma, silence, people-pleasing, masculinity, relationships, and finding your voice later in life.
At just two years old, Bradley was struck by a car, spent two weeks in a coma, and returned home having lost the ability to walk and speak. Although he eventually recovered physically, the deeper patterns formed around that experience followed him for decades.
Bradley became what he calls “the agreeable child”—someone who avoided conflict, accommodated others, stayed quiet, and allowed other people to make decisions.
It took decades for him to recognize that what looked like kindness and flexibility could sometimes be a survival strategy.
His journey eventually led him through therapy, breathwork, yoga, meditation, and deeper self-reflection, where he began learning not how to become a different person, but how to participate more fully in his own life.
This conversation explores a question many people may quietly recognize in themselves:
When does keeping the peace become losing yourself?
Connect with Bradley Gabbert:
https://theagreeablechild.com/