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  • Hot Takes | Marriage Dos & Donts
    In this episode of Husbantr Hot Takes, David and J. Brandon are sharing some of their biggest marriage dos and don'ts, and nothing is off limits.
    From whether it's ever okay to poop while your spouse is in the bathroom to why talking behind your partner's back can quietly damage a relationship, they tackle the habits that strengthen a marriage and the ones that can slowly tear it apart. Along the way, they discuss the importance of brutal honesty, healthy communication, respecting boundaries and knowing when to laugh at yourselves.
    Equal parts funny, heartfelt and refreshingly honest, this episode is filled with personal stories, hot takes and plenty of moments that will have couples saying, "Yep... we've been there."
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    17 min
  • Hot Takes | The Downside of Therapy
    Welcome back to another Husbantr Hot Takes, our between-season series where we dive into one topic that's been living rent-free in our heads.
    This week, we're talking about The Downside of Therapy.
    Before anyone comes for us, let us be crystal clear. We are huge proponents of therapy and truly believe it can be life-changing. But just because something is good doesn't mean it's beyond criticism.
    From bad therapists and poor advice to people who weaponize what they've learned in therapy, we're unpacking the conversations that don't happen nearly enough. Is every therapist the right fit? Can therapy language be misused? And when does "doing the work" become an excuse instead of a solution?
    It's an honest, thoughtful and sometimes hilarious conversation about the side of therapy we don't talk about enough.
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    16 min
  • Hot Takes | Couple Q's Pt.2
    Couple Q's is back, but this time J. Brandon is in the driver's seat.
    After putting J. Brandon on the hot seat in Part 1, it's David's turn to answer a fresh batch of random questions. From heartfelt moments to hilarious stories, you never know where the conversation is going to go.
    How well do you think you know the husbands? Play along! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com
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    14 min
  • Hot Takes | Couple Q's Pt.1
    It's time for the first-ever installment of Couple Q's on Husbantr Hot Takes!
    A fun little game for couples, or even besties. This time around J. Brandon picks a mystery category at random, and he and David answer whatever question is waiting for them. The result? A fun, unscripted conversation filled with laughter, nostalgia and honest reflections.
    Play along with your own partner, spouse, or best friend by answering each question before David and J. Brandon do.
    Think you have a great question for a future episode? Leave it in the comments, send them a message on social media, or tag @Husbantr in your own Couple Q's answers. Your question might just make it into the next installment! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com
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    14 min
  • Hot Takes | High Stories
    What happens when David and J. Brandon decide to record a podcast after a little quality time with the devil's lettuce?
    Chaos. Questionable decision-making. Uncontrollable laughter. And somehow... one of the most honest episodes of Husbantr Hot Takes yet.
    In this special unfiltered edition, the husbands swap some of their funniest, wildest, and most memorable high stories—while actively being high themselves. No scripts. No filters. Just pure bantr.
    The stories get weird. The tangents get weirder. And the laughter? Nonstop.
    Life is better with a little bantr... Husbantr! 🍃🎙️ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com
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    30 min
  • Hot Takes | Pride Stories
    Pride Month means something a little different when you've spent the last decade helping bring some of the world's largest Pride celebrations to life.
    In this episode, David and J. Brandon share some of their favorite Pride stories, unforgettable behind-the-scenes moments, and the ways Pride has shaped their lives as queer men. From David's work producing major Pride events and serving as Executive Producer and Co-Host of the NYC Pride March Broadcast, to J. Brandon's journey from supportive spouse to key makeup artist for the ABC broadcast team, the couple reflects on what it means to experience Pride both in front of and behind the scenes.
    Part personal reflection, part insider perspective, this conversation explores community, visibility, chosen family, and the moments that continue to make Pride matter.
    Life is better with a little bantr... Husbantr! 🌈🎙️ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com
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    25 min
  • Hot Takes | Am I Enough?
    In this episode of Husbantr Hot Takes, David and J. Brandon tackle a question that many people quietly ask themselves: Am I Enough?
    The husbands explore the complexities of identity and belonging, reflecting on their experiences as queer people, people of color, and individuals who have often felt caught between worlds. From feeling like outsiders in spaces that should feel like home to sometimes feeling disconnected within their own communities, they discuss the challenges of navigating identities that don't always fit neatly into a box.
    Through honest conversation, David and J. Brandon share how racism, discrimination, and other obstacles have shaped their journeys—not only testing their confidence but ultimately helping them build resilience, self-worth, and a deeper understanding of who they are.
    It's a candid discussion about belonging, self-acceptance, and the ongoing work of believing that, despite what the world may say, they are enough.
    Remember, life's better with a little bantr... Husbantr! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com
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    28 min
  • Hot Takes | Sick of It!
    In this episode of Husbantr Hot Takes, David and J. Brandon are officially Sick of It!
    The husbands let off some steam as they sound off on the people, habits, and everyday frustrations that are currently burning their biscuits. From bad customer service and poor social etiquette to generally inconsiderate people, no topic is safe from scrutiny.
    And yes, influencers make the list.
    Part vent session, not too serious and entirely relatable, this episode explores the little things that drive people crazy and asks the question: Are standards slipping, or are David and J. Brandon just becoming grumpy?
    Tune in for laughs, hot takes, and plenty of opinions.
    Life is better with a little bantr... Husbantr! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com
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    24 min
  • Hot Takes | Love Languages
    In this episode of Husbantr Hot Takes, David and J. Brandon dive into the complicated, funny and sometimes completely misunderstood world of love languages. From words of affirmation to quality time, the husbands unpack how they each give and receive love, where they naturally align, and where things can occasionally get lost in translation.
    The conversation gets honest as they reflect on the small everyday moments that actually make a relationship feel supported, valued and connected, while also taking a look back at their relationship and recalling times when they weren't speaking the same love language.
    Whether you’re in a long-term partnership, dating, married, or just trying to better understand the people you love, this episode is a reminder that love is rarely one-size-fits-all. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com
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    21 min
  • Hot Takes | Measure of Success
    Success looks different for everyone and in this episode of Husbantr Hot Takes, David and J. Brandon are unpacking exactly that. From career goals and financial pressure to love, family, freedom, and the expectations society places on us, the couple gets honest about how their definition of success has evolved over time.
    They explore the sacrifices people make in pursuit of success, the milestones we’re told we should want, and why fulfillment may have less to do with status and more to do with building a life that actually feels good to live. It’s a thoughtful, funny, and very real conversation about redefining success on your own terms. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com
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    24 min

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A Podcast That Celebrates Love, Laughter and Lessons LearnedWe’re thrilled to introduce Husbantr; a unique podcast led by two married, queer men of color who have shared over 20 incredible years…