Writing about your life has incredible power. In this episode, Chris Valdheims shares his experiences of writing a memoir. He describes the process of collecting material, shaping it, and receiving feedback.

Writing about your life means taking ownership of one's story and finding meaning in what feels like confusing and disconnecting events.

Finally, we talk about how writing about your life helps anyone to find common ground, especially with people who don't share our life experiences.

• Writing about one's life can be valuable for personal growth and self-knowledge.
• Memoir writing involves finding meaning in events and taking ownership of one's story.
• Sharing and receiving feedback from others can help improve the writing and provide new perspectives.
• Personal stories have the power to connect people and foster understanding.

00:00 Introduction and Background

03:17 Starting the Writing Process

05:14 Writing Raw and Collecting Material

07:32 Learning about Memoir Writing

09:53 Sharing and Receiving Feedback

12:47 Objective and Subjective Truth

15:10 Finding Meaning in Events

17:06 Taking Ownership of Your Story

18:33 Themes and Connections

21:24 The Hero's Journey

22:19 Room for Invention and Interpretation

24:08 Finding Common Ground

26:01 The Value of Personal Stories

27:56 Writing as a Tool for Self-Knowledge

28:25 Conclusion

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We explore the concept of the void, a place where information and insight are missing or lost. 

I share my personal experience of encountering the void while researching his family history and discuss how to move from a situation of not knowing to making sense of things. 

This episode offers strategies for coping with the loss of information, such as accepting it as a reality of the human experience and remembering and cherishing what we can.

The episode also explores the use of imagination to fill in gaps and emphasizes the importance of telling the story that we can with the information available.

• The void, a place where information and insight are missing or lost, is a common experience in personal storytelling and historical research.
• Coping with the loss of information involves accepting it as part of the human experience and remembering and cherishing what we can.
• Imagination can be used to fill in gaps in our stories, but it is important to maintain honesty and truthfulness.
• Telling the story that we can with the available information is a way to honor the past and make sense of our own experiences.
• Knowing all the facts won't necessarily make us feel better, and it is important to focus on personal growth and gratitude for what we have.

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In this episode, Chris Valdheims discusses the process of creative iteration and how it applies to his podcast.

He shares his experience of starting the podcast and writing a book and how he had to adjust along the way.

Chris emphasizes the importance of feedback and how it can help refine and improve creative projects. He also talks about the need for patience and the evolution of his podcast's concept.

Chris explores the concept of hypermemoir and how it is an ongoing iterative process.

• Creative projects often undergo a process of iteration, where the initial idea may change and evolve over time.
• Feedback from others is crucial in refining and improving creative projects.
• Being patient with oneself and allowing time for experimentation and refinement is important in the creative process.
• Putting creative work out there and gathering feedback helps develop and clarify the concept.

00:00 Introduction: The Process of Creative Iteration

02:20 Starting the Podcast and Writing a Book

04:02 Creative Iteration and Feedback

08:13 Being Patient and Refining the Concept

10:36 Developing the Concept of Hypermemoir

13:49 Putting Something Out and Getting Feedback

15:13 Concept Development through Creative Iteration

16:08 Shifting Focus to Personal Stories

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In this episode, Chris Valdheims shares the story of his grandfather, Zanis Waldheims, a geometric abstract artist he only learned about in 2009.

Chris explains how he discovered his grandfather's artwork and its impact on his life. He also discusses his search for family history and his connection with Yves, a friend of his grandfather who preserved his legacy.

Chris delves into his grandfather's philosophy and the recognition his artwork has received in recent years.

Takeaways

• Discovering family history can be a transformative experience and provide valuable insights into one's identity.
• Preserving and sharing the legacy of loved ones can profoundly impact future generations.
• Art can convey complex philosophical ideas and offer new perspectives on the world.
• Recognition and appreciation for an artist's work may come long after their passing, highlighting the importance of perseverance and belief in one's creative expression.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

02:21 Discovering My Grandfather's Artwork

05:10 Searching for Family History

09:56 Connecting with Yves and Preserving the Legacy

12:00 Exploring My Grandfather's Philosophy

16:13 Recognition and Exhibitions

20:31 The Unfolding Story

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The essential role of a human is to create; that’s how I look at it, at least. While you might disagree with that statement, it’s hard to deny that creating something new offers a sense of fulfillment that few other things can.

Everyone should step into the creator role, but internal and external constraints often conspire against that.

In this episode, I discuss finding yourself as a creator despite the countervailing forces that life throws at us.

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I had a weird hang-up about family trees.

In this episode, I discuss how, as an adult, I rebuilt my family tree. This came after growing up confused as I wondered whether my adoptive family’s family tree was mine or whether I could still use my birth family’s.

Rebuilding my family tree meant reconnecting with my ancestors and developing a sense of place again.

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If you have perfect information, it’s too late.

Too many creative projects die because we plan and think them to death. We can feel that if we read one more book or do one more tutorial, we will finally be “ready.”

But our creative projects die while we await a state of readiness that never arrives.

This episode discusses how overthinking and overplanning are just a mask for fear. And given that, what can we do to find the balance between preparation and positive forward momentum?

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In this episode, I tell a story from my high school years about when a friend and I got the cops called on us for a zine we made.

This happened over 30 years ago, but it hurt my creativity until I learned to explore the emotions around it all.

I share this story to show how episodes like these can shatter our creative spirit and how we can confront them and reverse the damage.

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In 2016, I went to Latvia for the first time. I had been the first person in my family to return since they fled the country in 1945.

Going back there seemed like a way to complete a circle, especially since my main reason for going was to see my grandfather's artwork on display in his home country. Even if he couldn't be there, some part of him could.

In this episode, I talk about a deeply personal experience traveling back to where one side of my family had come from after immense tragedy befell them.

The experience connects with ideas of facing discomfort and the darkness of the past, acts that are essential in creative growth.

I hope you discover more of yours by hearing more of my story.

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I love to write but will do whatever it takes to avoid it. If you have a creative calling, you may also know that starting can be a real drag and super-hard.

In this episode, I discuss why we avoid creative work, and I also share some tips for how to break through that initial resistance.

[00:01:41] Prioritizing tasks can hinder creative endeavors.

[00:03:50] Avoiding writing, find what you love.

[00:07:02] Unleashing thoughts, confronting emotions through journaling.

[00:09:34] Internal doubts discourage writing; change is unsettling.

[00:15:45] "Meditating and writing benefit my day-to-day."

[00:17:30] Meditation, exercise, structure: the key to writing.

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