Everyone is so busy treating their symptoms that they can never get shit done. No breakthroughs, no healing. Just more anxiety, fear, insecurity & misery. 

I'm gonna tell you the truth. I'm gonna tell you when you're being a victim, living in fear, and pretending to be weak.

I was totally not planning on using Andrea's conversation about being miserable for the last 10 years to waking up freaking happy in less than a week but it touched my soul and I wanted her to touch yours too.

The theory that sharing our suffering and being vulnerable is embarrassing is total BS.

Access my Free Workshop today...

iam.laninalu.com/workshop

my Towle is my guest today and she is rocking the Earth with her spiritual and sexual expertise in healing Divine Feminine Sexual Energy.

I have not ever heard of another platform where everything you've never been told about your vagina's super powers are revealed. Today that's exactly what w did.

Society labels women who seek out pleasure a whore. This is a lie and today it stops.

I became my own icon.

I created a fucking Queen, the most Bad Ass, compassionate, strong, loving, embodied, abundant, fearless, truthful, love warrior to look up to.

A Lani I had never met before. Unlike any woman I'd ever met actually.

My spiritual gurus didn't value themselves and had no connection to their pure sexual and orgasmic energy.

My guest Marc Jospitre and I are doing a double podcast today!

His is called After Dark With Marc and his gift is sharing that success only comes with fuck ups.

There is so much fear in society about failing but seriously, my fear of failing is what made me fail!

We share the 1 Golden formula to manifest what you want.

We talk religion, anti depressants, sex, business, success and of course we share how we embrace our fuck ups.

You don't have everything you want because you're not the woman who deserves it.

Changing is one of our most incredible super powers.

What's not love is making excuses for your pain and suffering and staying exactly the same.

Holy crap how is that even an option! Of course you must change in order to feel, be and share something completely different than you feel now!

It is an epidemic in our society that pain and suffering is just accepted as love without question.

No it is not your purpose to feel worthless, abused, be yelled at, cheated on, hit, or controlled!!

What the fuck!

Your guilt is suffocating you!

But... No one starts with the Olympics. You can't start in the bedroom girl.

I know you know you can't lose 100 pounds by tomorrow.

So TF you think banging straight away is gonna heal your soul.

You don't start with a marathon or lifting a 100 pound barbell.

Just like you don't go straight to the bedroom with a sex toy and fuck.

I get real today about the EGO. The ego tells us we are powerless, we have no control, and we're suffering because of someone else.

I know when I have to take a shit, just like I know my truth.

There's no confusion, there's just the ego and truth. Of course the ego is going to complain and bitch and fight the light every step of the way.

I don't care about the fear. We ALL have the ego fear. Every single one of us.

It blows my freaking mind that today we are still shamed when it comes to speaking about sex.

We all have a vagina. We all have sex. Yet NO one freaking teaches us how. What the actual fuck.

My sex talk was "Only whores have sex."

I learnt about sex from society, movies, porn and my first sexual experience was traumatizing.

We must learn how to receive love. Just like we learn how to walk, write, and every other skill we acquire.