Dear Matthew,

I have spent my entire adult life in a relationship with one person and we broke up. 

I quite literally don't know what to do.

We had been together for 5 years now. 

Our breakup was painful, mostly because we both still very much love each other and want the best for the other... 

Our life just grew apart I guess. 

My problem is that I can't let go of him, all I think about is that some day we will find each other again and fall in love once again. Since I was 17, I was dreaming of marrying this man and it looked like it's gonna be a reality for a very long time... So now I'm here, with all my plans and dreams being placed on one person broken.

 I'm just looking for some advice from those of you who are more experienced in break ups, how do you get yourself together the fastest? 

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