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Join The Smell of Money to rebuild financial stability after divorce, fix your money mindset, and create a simple financial plan that actually works.

How to rebuild financial stability after divorce without feeling restricted or broke starts with breaking the save and splurge cycle and finally creating a simple money system that works.

In this episode, we sit down with Heather Boers, founder of Wilder Profits and the Directory on Skool, to talk about the real patterns keeping women stuck in financial instability.

From saving everything and then overspending out of frustration, to avoiding money altogether, this conversation uncovers the emotional and practical shifts needed to build true wealth.

Heather shares her journey from financial avoidance to awareness, how she stopped ignoring her numbers, and how simple systems helped her finally feel in control of her money. We also dive into entrepreneurship, shiny object syndrome, and how to find the right platform that actually supports your income and energy.

Heather Boers is the founder of Wilder Profits and the Directory on Skool, helping entrepreneurs collaborate, gain visibility, and grow income through community.

Connect here: The Directory

What you’ll learn:

• Why making more money does not solve financial instability
• The dangerous save and splurge cycle and how to break it
• How money avoidance keeps you stuck in debt and confusion
• Simple ways to start tracking money without overwhelm
• Why visibility and collaboration can increase income
• How to find a business model that actually aligns with you

Timestamped Key Moments:
00:00 Why making more money doesn’t mean you keep more
02:00 The save and splurge cycle explained
05:00 Money avoidance and not tracking spending
08:00 Feeling restrictive vs creating balance with money
10:30 The power of awareness and celebrating income
13:00 Shiny object syndrome in entrepreneurship
17:00 Finding your platform and aligned income strategy
22:00 Building visibility and collaboration for income growth
25:00 How the Directory creates opportunities and cash flow

Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?

Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.

Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving.

Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸

Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it

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That’s exactly why I created the Wealth Accelerator.

Join The Smell of Money community and start rebuilding your financial confidence today.

If you’ve been wondering how to rebuild your finances after divorce, feel confident investing, or finally understand how money works, this episode is for you.

In this conversation, we break down money mindset, financial literacy, and simple investing strategies that help you move from confusion to clarity. You’ll learn how to start small, think long term, and make aligned financial decisions that actually support your future.

This is about more than money. It’s about confidence, stability, and finally trusting yourself again.

What we cover:
• Rewriting your money story
• How to learn investing without overwhelm
• Why saving is non negotiable
• Investing with small amounts
• Conscious decision making with money
• Building wealth later in life

Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
02:00 Money story and early beliefs
06:00 Learning investing basics
10:00 Saving and financial habits
13:00 Conscious wealth decisions
15:00 Market uncertainty and investing
18:00 Starting late with money
20:00 Action steps

Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce? 

Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple. 

Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving.

Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸

Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it

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Join The Smell of Money community and start rebuilding your financial confidence today.

Why do you still feel broke even when you’re working hard? This episode breaks down the real reason. It’s not your income. It’s your beliefs.

In this conversation, we explore how subconscious patterns, learning challenges, and the way you process information can directly affect your ability to earn, grow, and feel confident with money. If you’ve been stuck in confusion, fear, or self-doubt, this will help you finally understand why and what to do next.

This is about clarity, simplicity, and rebuilding your financial foundation from the inside out.

Chapters:
00:00 Why more money isn’t the solution
02:00 Understanding how your brain processes information
06:00 A simple system to create clarity
12:30 How confidence impacts income
18:30 Rewriting your money story
25:00 Where to get support

Russell Van Brocklen is a New York State Senate-funded dyslexia researcher, dyslexic professor, and creator of a breakthrough learning system that helps students rapidly improve reading and writing skills. Despite entering law school with a first-grade reading level, Russell taught himself to read and write at an advanced level, leading him to develop a proven method that has helped students move from middle school writing to graduate-level performance in less than a year.

His work focuses on simplifying complex learning challenges into practical, parent-led strategies that can be implemented at home in just minutes a day. Russell specializes in helping children and families unlock confidence, improve communication, and overcome learning barriers without expensive programs or years of intervention.

Resources:
Dyslexia Classes
Free Guide 'The 3 Reasons Your Child's Dyslexia Education Isn't Working' and How to Fix It

Join The Smell of Money community to create clarity, stability, and confidence with your finances.

Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?

Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.

Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving.

Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money!

Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it🗝️🌬️💖💸

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Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?

Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.

Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving.

Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸

Investment strategies after divorce can feel confusing, intimidating, and risky. But building wealth does not require guessing or gambling. It requires clarity, education, and the confidence to ask the right questions.

In this episode of the iDateMoney Lisa sits down with decorated U.S. Air Force Lieutenant Colonel turned tech executive and investor Sara Blackmer. Sara shares how she moved from military service into venture capital and how women can start understanding the world of investing without feeling overwhelmed or behind.

If you've ever wondered how wealthy investors think about diversification, alternative investments, and building long-term wealth, this conversation will help you see investing from a completely new perspective.

What you'll learn in this episode:

• Why many women feel intimidated by investing and how to overcome it
• The difference between public market investing and private investments
• What a balanced investment portfolio can look like
• Why financial literacy is the key to rebuilding wealth after divorce
• How alternative investments can help accelerate wealth building
• Why building a supportive “financial village” matters for long-term success

Key Moments

00:00 Introduction and Lionfin’s Money Adventure book
02:08 Sara’s journey from military service to venture capital
05:18 Discovering what motivates you and building an exceptional career
08:00 Why building a support village matters after divorce
09:52 Understanding venture capital and alternative investments
16:40 Managing the emotional side of investing
19:29 Why diversification protects your wealth
23:30 The role of AI in modern investing
27:11 Why women should not feel intimidated by investing
29:56 How to connect with Sara and learn more about

investing opportunities

Resources:
Sara Blackmer LinkedIn

Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it
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Divorce can leave women feeling financially powerless, overwhelmed, and unsure about their future. In this episode, divorce strategist Becky Sampson shares how she fought through a three-and-a-half-year legal battle and why knowing your rights can change everything.

00:00 – Introduction
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01:46 – Meet Becky Sampson

03:08 – How the Divorce Battle Started.

05:15 – Moving to Hawaii and the Marriage Turning Point

06:35 – Refusing to Sign Fraudulent Tax Documents

07:34 – The Defining Conversation About “Value”

08:32 – Serving Divorce Papers on April Fool’s Day

09:56 – Fighting for Financial Fairness

11:22 – Why Women Leave Divorce Financially Struggling

12:29 – The Biggest Lie Women Believe About Divorce and Money

14:20 – The Power of Understanding Financial Increase in Marriage

16:11 – Turning Divorce Pain Into Purpose

18:34 – Why Advocating for Yourself Matters

20:28 – Creating a Business From Hard Experiencesess.

22:30 – Becky’s Podcast and Resources

24:01 – Final Advice for Anyone Facing Divorce.

25:07 – Encouragement for Women Starting Over Financially

Becky Sampson is the founder of OnlySubpoenas and a divorce strategist who helps women navigate divorce with strength and confidence. After representing herself through 21 subpoenas and three and a half years of court battles, she now teaches others how to understand their rights and advocate for themselves financially and legally.

She also hosts the podcast Divorcing Strong, where she interviews attorneys and legal experts to educate people on navigating divorce with clarity and empowerment.

Becky Sampson
https://beckysampson.com

Podcast
Divorcing Strong (YouTube)

Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸

Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce? 

Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple. 

Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving.

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Franchising is often associated with fast food, but many of the most profitable opportunities today are outside the restaurant industry. In this episode, Lisa Drennan speaks with franchise consultant Jon Ostenson about how franchising works, how much it costs to start, and how entrepreneurs are using franchises to create long-term wealth and financial freedom.

Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸

Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce? 

Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple. 

Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving.

Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO today.

Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it

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What if the visibility you are chasing in business is actually hurting you. In this episode, PR expert Lynn Aronberg explains the truth about public relations, earned media, and how entrepreneurs can build real authority without wasting money.

• The difference between earned media and paid media and why it matters
• The biggest PR scams entrepreneurs fall for
• When it actually makes sense to hire a PR agency
• Why visibility is a long game, not a quick win

00:00 Introduction and the question of financial freedom
01:50 Lynn’s journey from Dolphins cheerleader to PR agency owner
04:00 The truth about PR scams and paid media traps
07:40 When entrepreneurs should invest in PR
09:30 Turning a public divorce into international media exposure
14:00 Navigating fear and entrepreneurship after major life changes
17:00 The emotional battle entrepreneurs face around money
20:00 Why many six figure businesses still feel broke
23:00 PR contracts and understanding the long game of visibility
26:00 Supporting authors and building visibility through media

Lynn Aronberg is the CEO of Lynn Aronberg Public Relations LLC, a full service PR agency with international reach. A former Miami Dolphins cheerleader, she built her career in public relations before launching her own agency at age 30. Lynn represents entrepreneurs, CEOs, and companies seeking national and international media coverage, and she is known for helping clients build credibility through earned media.

Connect with Lynn Aronberg
Email: [email protected]

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Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce? 

Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple. 

Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving.

Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO today.

Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it

🗝️🌬️💖💸

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Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple. 

Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving.

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What if financial freedom does not start with spreadsheets or budgets, but with your intuition? In this episode, Lisa sits down with intuitive healer and embodiment coach Victoria Nielsen to explore how reconnecting with your inner wisdom can transform your relationship with money.

Episode Highlights

• Why financial freedom begins from the inside out
• The connection between intuition, self worth, and money decisions
• A simple breathwork practice busy moms can use to reset their nervous system in seconds
• Key Moments

00:01 Introduction and the real meaning of financial freedom
02:18 What intuition really is and why women lose connection with it
04:15 A simple breathwork practice to calm overwhelm
06:05 Why your thoughts shape your financial outcomes
08:32 How money stories create push pull dynamics with wealth
11:36 The emotional roots behind debt and spending habits
14:02 Inner child healing and self worth in your money journey
16:20 Rituals, somatic release, and transforming money patterns
17:53 Recognizing how your body reacts to money triggers
20:20 Writing a “Dear Money” letter to uncover hidden beliefs
22:14 Feminine cycles, entrepreneurship, and trusting the flow
23:17 How to connect with Victoria Nielsen

Guest Bio

Victoria Nielsen is an intuitive healer, embodiment coach, and Kundalini Yoga facilitator who helps women reconnect with their inner wisdom and create lives they do not want to escape. Through breathwork, somatic healing, and ancient practices made practical, she empowers women to trust their intuition, release limiting beliefs, and step into bold authenticity.

Connect with Victoria Nielsen
Website
Instagram: @victoriamargauxnielsen

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What if one simple question could completely change how you make money, build confidence, and create financial stability?

In this episode of iDateMoney®, Lisa sits down with Holly Hurd to talk about the power of asking the right questions. Holly shares how women can turn their passions, talents, and everyday skills into income streams that create freedom and stability.

If you have ever struggled with inconsistent income, burnout, or feeling like you are doing everything for everyone else, this conversation will shift your perspective.

00:01 – Welcome to iDateMoney and guest introduction
01:00 – The story behind Holly’s book The Life-Changing Power of One Question
02:20 – Why women struggle to prioritize themselves
03:40 – Letting go of guilt and making self care non negotiable
05:10 – How Holly rebuilt her strength after multiple surgeries
06:20 – Why community improves women’s health and longevity
07:20 – The connection between burnout, health, and profit
08:40 – Systems and planning that support successful entrepreneurs
11:45 – Serving clients from a full cup
12:00 – Managing inconsistent income as a commission based entrepreneur
13:20 – Real estate investing and creative cash flow ideas
15:10 – The power of diversified income streams
17:40 – Simple side hustles that can create immediate income
19:00 – Identifying what you love and turning it into a business
21:05 – Holly’s first book VentureMom: From Idea to Income in 12 Weeks
22:00 – Encouragement for women ready to start a business or side gig
22:45 – Where to connect with Holly

Holly Hurd is the founder of VentureMom, an online platform dedicated to helping women launch businesses based on their passions and talents. A successful entrepreneur who made her mark on Wall Street at just 25 years old, Holly has been recognized as one of Fortune’s People to Watch. She is the author of The Life-Changing Power of One Question and VentureMom: From Idea to Income in 12 Weeks, where she helps women discover how to turn their ideas into income and build meaningful businesses.

Holly Hurd's website: https://venturemom.com

Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸

Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce? 

Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple. 

Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving.

Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO

Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it

🗝️🌬️💖💸

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Divorce can shake everything: your identity, your finances, and your confidence. In this conversation, Lisa Drennon sits down with heart-centered divorce coach Joyce Ayers to talk about rebuilding after divorce, healing your relationship with money, and learning to trust yourself again.

They unpack the emotional side of financial decisions, the hidden cost of self-abandonment, and why true financial freedom starts with clarity, responsibility, and self-worth.

• Why money issues and relationship issues are deeply connected
• How unhealthy money dynamics create tension in marriage
• The emotional impact of divorce on financial decision-making
• Why stay-at-home moms do contribute financially
• How self-abandonment shows up in relationships and spending

• 00:00 Intro: Why relationships and money cannot be separated
• 01:33 Meet Joyce Ayers, heart-centered divorce coach
• 02:15 Joyce’s story and how divorce led her to this work
• 04:16 What changed after divorce and reclaiming her energy
• 05:53 Why reading books is not enough without support
• 06:56 Money conversations couples need to have
• 08:50 The value of stay-at-home moms and unseen labor
• 09:54 Scarcity, spending beyond your means, and asking permission
• 13:27 Conscious spending, quality time, and relationship trust
• 15:10 Joyce’s amicable divorce and customized financial agreement
• 18:32 Why financial counsel matters during divorce
• 19:30 Financial literacy, retirement, and long-term planning
• 23:31 When it is the right time to get divorce support
• 26:22 Mindset, nervous system regulation, and monitoring your thoughts
• 29:33 Rebuilding your future and stepping into your zone of genius
• 31:50 Self-abandonment, family patterns, and inherited beliefs
• 34:23 Comparison, self-trust, and money choices
• 37:55 The language you use shapes your future
• 39:16 Quick fixes versus real healing
• 41:15 How to connect with Joyce Ayers
• 42:31 Final takeaway: It’s not how much money you have, it’s what you do with it

Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸

Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce? Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple. 

Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving.

Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO

Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it

🗝️🌬️💖💸

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