I Died The Day I Loved You: The Journey of an Interracial Relationship

Van & Joel give talk about what lead to their breakup, whether they would have stayed together and how the racism & disrespect of Joel's immediate family affected their friendship.

Joel gives his interpretation of what lead to their breakup.

Van & Joel detail how his family's disrespect & racism led to their breakup.

Van details how Joel's family & friend disrespected her family & her home... and led to a major change in their relationship.

Joel & Van delve into how his love language led to a new level of trust with her family.

Joel discusses his trust for Van's family & how his small gesture was par for the course.

Joel & Van talk more about her aunt and how their relationship during her childhood shaped who she is today.

Van reminisces about one of her familial inspirations and how Joel stepped up during one of her family's saddest times.

Joel & Van chat about the first time they said "I love you", what "love" means and how past relationships - and parent's marriages - affected their willingness to say "I love you".

Joel discusses the first time he told Van "I love you"... and how it didn't go as planned.