I Died The Day I Loved You: The Journey of an Interracial Relationship

Van & Joel discuss the effortless nature of their first official (non-Walmart & Waffle House) date. Was it intricately planned or did they just go where the wind took them?

Joel reminisces about his & Van's first Valentine's Day/double date with his parents together, as well as the easy spontaneity of their first official date.

Van & Joel discuss all the details behind their first Valentine's Day, as well as their first double date with Joel's parents (and how his parent's behavior appears differently today).

Van describes what she remembers about her & Joel's first Valentine's Day together, as well as their first official date.

Van & Joel discuss how their relationship started to grow & thrive, while the relationships of others close to them faltered & failed.

Joel reminisces on his first kiss with Van... and how it wasn't exactly what he thought it would be.

Joel & Van delve deeper into her "relationship" with Ernest. Then, they think back on how adding a physical aspect changed their relationship forever. One tiny problem: they remember key details very differently.

Van reminisces on her expedited breakup with Ernest... and how she & Joel took their friendship to a physical level.

Van & Joel discuss their relationship with Joel's immediate family (Stephen, Janet, Michael & Jessica) and how it foreshadowed their future.

Joel reminisces to the first time he met Van's parents, as well as her first time meeting his immediate family.