I Don't Know Jack About Parenting

0:55  Final episode

1:10  Next step - FBI Dads: The Podcast

1:15  Thank you to each and every one, even if you only listened to one episode

2:30  I hope it saves even one marriage

3:10  Having a father in the home improves to odds of success for the kids

3:45  I hope the FBI Dads podcast helps give parents tools they need

4:00  Thanks to all the people that have helped make this possible

7:30  FBI Dads, at my kid's school, grew from 6 dads to 155 dads (consistently)

8:05  Now it's morphed to a virtual meeting

8:25  A brief overview of FBI Dads meeting

10:05  There are 3 things a parent should tell their child every single day

12:00  Kids are intuitive, they know what's important

13:00  Magic happens when they have conversations around important things

14:15  "Look what MY dad said about ME!"

15:35  I was told "dads don't want to be involved"... I proved them wrong!

16:20  I find the dads at the kid's sporting events, but they often fall short when it comes to saying "I Love You"

17:40  I know a LOT about being fatherless, and I know having an involved father is MUCH better

18:20  I don't plan on ever stopping my mission to help dads get involved

19:00  See you on FBI Dads: The Podcast

1:25  I've been thinking about this leadership podcast for a while

1:40  If you "lead" your household, you will create leaders

2:03  Let them KNOW they are leaders

3:35  Wait, stop, think... don't just follow, you are a leader

3:10  I've recorded 300 podcasts, I'm a self-motivated leader

3:30  I lead things at school

3:55  I lead my clients to success.

4:10  I bring organizations at school together

4:40  I'm on the board of the Sock-it-to-em sock campaign foundation

5:15  As I'm recording this, I'm pulling up to the car pickup line

6:00  My son wanted to run for class vice-president

6:40  Help them believe early on that they ARE a leader

7:45  I grew up in survival mode, I didn't have the luxury of "frivolous" knowledge

8:50  I was more concerned about meals than leadership

10:20  Let your kids know they are loved unconditionally through words and actions

10:30  Let them know that they are safe

11:00  More is shown through your actions than can possibly be conveyed in words

12:50  "I want both", here's the deal... then back it up

15:05  Leaders follow through on their promises

15:10  I love that YOU, the listener, are working to learn and get better

16:05  This podcast has helped me pay more attention and get better

1:00  Glenn Lundy:

3:00  Intentional activities

4:00  Productivity and fulfillment

4:30  Principles of success in parenting: #1 morning routine

5:05  TheMorning5.com  Download Glenn's free ebook

5:15  Glenn's BIG 5 things to do every morning

5:40  The typical car business routine... is failing them

7:45  The "67 Day Challenge"

8:15  That's how long it takes to have a physiological change

10:10  Structure and morning routines are the bedrock of parenting

11:07  Preparing for the trip vs surprise

14:45  I never know God's plan but I know it's good

15:03  I know I'm not powerful enough to keep my kids on course or knock them off of it

18:30  Even with COVID: you can NOT take a kid off their path

21:20  We've created generations of sheep following others instead of leading

24:00  Don't plant the seeds in your children, water them

25:00  You can either be a consumer or producer. Start producing

26:25  You need to come to an FBI Dads breakfast to understand

27:25  "How do kids spell LOVE?"

29:15  Kids will love those that serve them with what they need

30:10  Just 15 minutes a day with a child can be all they need

31:30  We can argue or we can say yes

33:35  Talk to them as if they understand now

34:45  Go the GlennLundy.com to find all the ways to get in touch with Glenn

35:50  Glenn's Facebook group has raised over $700k for various causes

41:00  Are you 100% in sync and integrity? If so, your spouse will follow and support

0:55  This is MY goal "The respect of my adult children" and no thing or no fling will get in the way

1:15  Examples of HOW that looks along the journey

3:00  We're getting close to the end of this podcast series

3:15  "FBI Dads" podcast is starting 2012

3:45  There is a certain group of people that have a higher level of success

4:00  The Jewish phenomenon

4:45  Education: flexibility, options, knowledge

5:40  The 5 to 6 year jumpstart

6:10  Culturally, Jewish people declare their children to be adults much earlier

7:10  Then expectations are set options are laid out and plans are made

7:45  Professions, schools, grades, money, scholarships become part of the planning

8:45  At 13, they start acting like an adult with intention

9:05  When you're treated like an adult, you start acting like an adult

10:40  No one did it for me, but I want to break the cycle

11:00  I want to be the one to guide and encourage my children

12:10  I don't need to be Jewish to follow the things they do

13:12  You may want to start planning

1:03  Children change every day and I have to learn and adjust

1:20  "FBI Dads" podcast is coming in 2021

3:20  Last night me 9 year old had a meltdown about internet service

4:02  Internet "Glitchy" made him a little internet "_itchy" :/

5:05  Voices escalated back and forth, tensions are rising

7:05  After the baseball game, wind down... and it starts up again

8:00  My challenge as a dad... I love my kids but I also must support my wife

9:40  Certain words can be damaging, it's a tough balance

10:40  I had to explain what happened and smooth things over

12:01  Coaches like to bring up challenges and successes

13:10  Acknowledge to people around you that help you along the road

13:40  Parents should "huddle up" at night and get on the same page

1:00 3-year-old jumping and sticking the landing

1:30  Baseball with the 9-year-old

2:25  Energy is everything, highest energy wins

3:45  One by one they gave him a tap

4:40  Things started going our way and the energy got higher

5:55  I'm NOT a baseball fan, but I am a fan of competition etc.

7:00  Technical advice in the middle of a game?

7:50  Up 9-5 and the closer is brought in

9:05  Momentum going into last night's game

11:05  Then the batting order got switched up

12:10  When you ARE there, be fully present

13:05  This show is my documentation of my journey

13:40  Episode #300 will be the last podcast

14:15  Next is "FBI Dads" podcast (Fathers Being Involved)

15:25  Thank you for being part of my journey so  far

1:00  I LOVE Halloween

2:05  Halloween was always big in my home growing up

2:50  COVID style... leaving the candy out? Bagged?

3:12  The value in Halloween IMHO is the interactions

4:10  The value is in the questions, gifts, leaving comfort zone

5:15  Ask, get rewarded, learning to face possbile rejection

6:10  Children are being taught to get the reward without effort

8:40  Go, do nothing, get gifts is not the lesson I want for my kids

9:10  Practice is important!

10:30  Virtual learning vs Face to Face learning

11:00  It's about the experience NOT the result!

1:25  My fault, I don't like to ask for help

2:10  We cleaned up part of a road near our home

2:30  "Adopt a Road", elderly and needs help

3:10  We asked the city for help

3:45  We did our part, we helped the city

5:10  Neighbors saw us and thanked us on Nextdoor.com

5:35  But now most everything we need is being taken care of

6:45  People pay attention, a spark can create a fire

9:25  We need leaders to allow followers to do their work

0:55  Kids learn from our examples... Do YOU litter?

1:25  Do we pick up litter when we see it?

2:02  My boys, even at young ages, pick up litter in the park

2:25  "Why do others throw trash on the ground?"

3:20  Follow through, lead by example, whatever it is

4:02  A small area by the train tracks by my house

4:25  Beer and booze bottles and cans and lack of respect

4:50  Respect for our bodies and the planet

5:35  Lack of respect, does it lead to other problems?

6:03  Consequences, following rules, incarceration, picking up trash

7:18  "Dad, why do WE have to do it?"

7:30  If we see something wrong and don't do our part, WE are part of the problem

8:40  Look in the mirror and ask what you are modeling to your kids

9:05  What are the long term implications? I think about these things

1:00  Most of us dread this conversation

1:35  We just got back from a cabin retreat

1:55  On a hayride we heard about pumpkins, birds and bees

2:45  One of the parents had just had "the conversation"

3:30  Do I want a 10 year old telling my son or should I?

4:10  I usually research how to do these things

5:00  The boys are busting each other's chops

6:00  Here's my gut, I'll give him what he needs to know

6:25  First, it comes from a place of love and intimacy 

7:25  "You did that to her?!?!"

8:20  Remember, kids have access to the internet

9:02  I'll be the one sharing this because of XXX

9:55  When it comes from a parent first, they will come to us too