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  • Money Laundering and Song Production

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     In episode 36, the hosts focus on the word "launder", exploring its etymology, meanings, and a personal story that inspired the topic.

    Key Points:

    • Not About Synesthesia, Sourdough, or Keto:
      The hosts clarify this episode will not cover previously considered topics like synesthesia, sourdough, or keto diets, though they briefly mention the "30-30-30" diet trend.
    • Etymology of "Launder":
      "Launder" comes from the Latin lavar (to wash), through Old French (lavander) and Middle English (lavender), originally referring to washing clothes or linens. The discussion touches on how the spelling and pronunciation evolved, including the historical interchange of "v" and "u" in English.
    • Modern Meanings:
      • The most common meaning is to wash clothes or linens.
      • The verb also means to "launder money": to conceal the origins of illegally obtained money, typically by passing it through legitimate businesses or banks.
      • As a noun, "launder" can refer to a channel or trough used in mining or metallurgy for washing ore or conveying molten metal.
    • Personal Story – Gift "Laundering":
      The word was chosen because one host secretly saved money to commission a custom song as an anniversary gift. To keep it a surprise (since they share finances), she sent small amounts to her sister over time, who then paid the artist. This "laundering" was not illegal but was a playful way to hide the purchase. The story highlights the difference between criminal money laundering and innocent concealment for a surprise.
    • Discussion of Money Laundering:
      The hosts clarify that actual money laundering involves concealing the origins of illegally obtained money, making it appear legitimate (e.g., as depicted in TV shows like Breaking Bad). The legality hinges on whether the original funds were obtained through illegal means.
    • Family Involvement and Keepsake:
      The song became a cherished family memory, with relatives helping choose the artist and previewing the song. The family now owns the rights to the song, which is also used as intro/outro music for their other podcast, Nature Facts with Dark A.

    Conclusion:
    The episode blends language history, real-life anecdotes, and practical examples to illustrate the multiple meanings of "launder." It distinguishes between innocent and illegal uses of the term, all while sharing a heartfelt family story about creating and gifting a custom song.

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    Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique. 

    35 min
  • Neophilia, The Love of All Things New

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     In episode 35, the hosts introduce and explore the word neophilia, which means "love of the new." They explain that while the term isn’t widely used in English, it is constructed from Greek roots-philia (brotherly love or affinity) and neo (new). The discussion clarifies that philia words (like audiophile, bibliophile, cinephile) aren’t inherently negative and often describe someone with an above-average passion for something.

    Key Points:

    • Neophilia Defined:
      Neophilia refers to a strong interest in or love for new experiences, objects, or ideas. The hosts note it’s often used to describe older adults who develop an appreciation for novel things later in life, but it can apply to anyone who enjoys newness.
    • Contrast in Preferences:
      The hosts compare their own habits: one prefers new shows, books, and experiences, seeking novelty especially in fiction and art; the other finds comfort in rewatching familiar shows and reading favorite books, valuing predictability and happy endings, especially in entertainment.
    • Personality and Recreation:
      They reflect on how these preferences relate to their personalities and daily lives-one enjoys spontaneous activities in real life but seeks predictability in media, while the other prefers routine in life but novelty in entertainment.
    • Examples and Anecdotes:
      The episode references the animated show "Scavengers Reign" as an example of media that appeals to neophilia by depicting highly original, alien worlds. The hosts also discuss how, as people age, truly new experiences become rarer, making novel art or fiction especially appealing. Other works of fiction are discussed such as The Southern Reach Trilogy and Annihilation as well as other works that one hose finds familiar and comforting like The Office, Gilmore Girls, and The Matrix.
    • Broader Application:
      While neophilia is sometimes associated with older adults, the hosts clarify it can describe anyone’s love of new things, whether a child trying new foods or an adult seeking out new experiences.

    Conclusion:
    The episode uses neophilia as a lens to examine how people differ in their attraction to novelty versus familiarity, both in daily life and in entertainment, and how these tendencies may shift with age or personality.

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    Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique. 

    33 min
  • Happy Thanksgiving Mic Test

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     Thanksgiving Day is not a good day to release a podcast episode (now we know for next time)! We've shuffled some episodes around, and in the meantime you can enjoy this Mic Test from our archives, from a time before we recorded any episodes at all.

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    Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique. 

    2 min
  • Under the Auspices of I Hate Talking, a New Podcast Appears

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     Find the new podcast here: Nature Facts with Dark A.

    In episode 34, the hosts announce a new podcast called Nature Facts with Dark A, created by a young science enthusiast nicknamed Dark A. This child has been passionate about science from infancy, impressing adults with his knowledge of the solar system, dinosaurs, animals, and geography. The new podcast features short, Friday-released episodes where Dark A shares interesting nature facts. The hosts oversee and occasionally guest star on this show, which is produced under the auspices of I Hate Talking.

    The episode’s main focus is on the word auspices, which the hosts explore in depth:

    • Meaning:
      "Auspices" generally means patronage, support, or sponsorship, often used in the phrase "under the auspices of," indicating that an activity is conducted with the approval or authority of a higher power or organization.
    • Etymology:
      The word derives from Latin auspex, meaning "observer of birds" (from avis = bird and specere = to look). In ancient times, bird watchers interpreted the flight of birds as omens from the divine, seeking favorable signs. This practice linked the idea of auspices to divine approval or support.
    • Modern Usage:
      Today, "auspices" refers to formal sponsorship or authority delegated by an organization or person. The hosts clarify that it is not related to the word "ostrich," a common mishearing.

    The hosts also touch on:

    • The difference between "under the auspices of" and the mistaken phrase "under the office of."
    • The concept of synesthesia, inspired by Dark A’s unique way of associating colors with numbers and letters, which helps him excel in math.
    • Personal anecdotes about favorite colors and how color perception influences preferences. Find the supposed "ugliest color in the world" here: Pantone 448C.
    • A brief mention of the "Purple" brand bed, which helped alleviate one host’s back pain, humorously suggesting it as a potential sponsor.

    Conclusion:
    Episode 34 combines a podcast announcement with a rich linguistic exploration of "auspices," blending history, personal stories, and reflections on perception and sponsorship. The hosts invite listeners to check out the new Nature Facts with Dark A podcast and consider the deeper meanings behind everyday phrases.

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    Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique. 

    34 min
  • Bonus Behind the Scenes Terroir Content

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     In this lighthearted bonus content, the hosts test their recording equipment and joke about the possibility of receiving live questions from listeners, despite not being famous or broadcasting live. They discuss the idea of doing a live episode in the future and humorously consider whether anyone might be spying on them or contacting them about their podcast.

    The conversation then circles back to the word of the episode, "terroir," with the hosts playfully struggling to pronounce it correctly and comparing it to the sound of a lion's roar. They reference a recent Instagram clip and wrap up the segment with their signature sign-off, emphasizing that meaningful understanding begins with conversation.

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    Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique. 

    4 min
  • Terroir, Nature vs Nuture, and Mimicry

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     In episode 33, the hosts explore the word terroir, a French term referring to the complete natural environment-including soil, climate, and topography-that influences the characteristics of wine or other agricultural products. They discuss how terroir shapes the unique qualities of a wine, emphasizing that it encompasses all environmental factors combined, rather than any single element.

    The conversation then broadens to consider terroir of humans-how the environment where a person grows up impacts who they become as adults. This leads to a discussion of the classic nature versus nurture debate:

    • Nature: Genetic influences, illustrated by studies of identical twins showing similarities in traits like picky eating, even when raised apart. Anecdotes include twins separated at birth sharing surprising similarities in preferences and lifestyle.
    • Nurture: Environmental influences, including childhood experiences (both positive and adverse), which significantly affect adult behavior and success. The hosts mention the ACE (Adverse Childhood Experiences) score as a measure of childhood trauma linked to adult outcomes, and note that positive experiences can mitigate negative ones.

    They also touch on how people adapt their speech patterns and behaviors based on social surroundings, sometimes subconsciously mimicking accents or phrases to fit in. One host reflects on being consciously aware of these adaptations, while questioning whether such changes are purely subconscious or intentional.

    Overall, the episode blends linguistic exploration with psychological insights, personal anecdotes, and reflections on how both genetics and environment shape identity-much like how terroir shapes the unique character of wine.

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    Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique. 

    27 min
  • Bonus Mariana Trench with Guest Host DarkA

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     In this bonus episode, the hosts and a special guest discuss the Mariana Trench, the deepest point in the world’s oceans.

    Key Points:

    • The Mariana Trench is the deepest known location on Earth, reaching about 7 miles (over 36,000 feet) below sea level5.
    • Its depth is so great that if you placed the Empire State Building (1,454 feet tall) in the trench, it would be completely submerged-nearly 29 Empire State Buildings could be stacked end-to-end to reach the bottom.
    • The trench is home to unique deep-sea creatures, such as anglerfish and dragonfish. Despite their fierce names, these fish are quite small: dragonfish grow up to 4 inches, and anglerfish up to 13 inches.
    • Only a very small number of people have ever visited the trench due to the extreme depth and pressure, making exploration dangerous and rare.
    • The conversation ends with a lighthearted comparison to the size of a tuxedo cat and a recap of the fascinating facts learned about the trench and its inhabitants.

    Conclusion:
    The discussion provides an overview of the Mariana Trench’s depth, its comparison to famous landmarks, the rare creatures that inhabit its depths, and the challenges of human exploration in such an extreme environment.

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    Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique. 

    4 min
  • Proprioception and a Dream About a Kid Falling

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     In Episode 32, the hosts discuss the concept of proprioception-the body's ability to sense its own position and movement without visual cues. They share family anecdotes and games related to this "sixth sense," such as drawing or eating with eyes closed or while wearing goggles that invert vision.

    Main Segment: Dream Analysis
    One host recounts a vivid dream involving a family gathering outdoors, a dangerous staircase with no railings, and their youngest child climbing to a high landing to interact with a light source. The child, after being yelled at by concerned adults, loses balance and falls, but the parent manages to nudge him mid-fall so he lands on his feet, though with an injured ankle. The dream ends with the parent comforting the child and possibly calling emergency services.

    Dream Reflection and Real-Life Parallels:

    • The hosts connect the dream’s details to a recent family hike involving heights and safety concerns, as well as the parent’s own sore ankle.
    • They discuss how dreams can reflect subconscious worries and recent experiences.

    Key Takeaways from the Dream:

    1. Man-Made vs. Natural Dangers:
      Human-made environments (like stairs without railings or vehicles) can introduce dangers beyond what the human body is naturally equipped to handle, compared to natural obstacles.
    2. The Impact of Communication:
      Yelling at children to be careful can actually cause them to become more anxious and unsteady, increasing the risk of accidents. Calm, supportive communication is often safer and more effective.
    3. Dreams as Reflections:
      The dream illustrates how anxieties about safety and parental responsibility can manifest in vivid, symbolic ways during sleep.

    Conclusion:
    The episode blends science (proprioception), personal stories, and thoughtful analysis of how our environments and reactions shape safety for ourselves and our loved ones. It encourages mindfulness in both how we design our surroundings and how we communicate, especially with children.

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    Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique. 

    29 min
  • Bonus Poutine Content with Guest Host DKZoo

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     In this bonus episode, a special guest named DKZoo is invited to guess the meaning of the word "poutine." Initially, DKZoo guesses that poutine might be a type of dessert, based on a hint that it is food and its Canadian association. The hosts clarify that poutine is not a dessert but a savory Canadian dish consisting of french fries, cheese curds (explained as the chunky parts of cottage cheese), and hot gravy poured on top. DKZoo reacts with surprise and some disgust at the combination, saying that while potatoes with cheese or potatoes with gravy sound appealing separately, the combination of all three seems unappetizing. The segment ends with DKZoo expressing reluctance but some openness to trying poutine in the future, and the hosts joke about the divisive nature of potatoes with cheese and gravy.

    Key Points:

    • Poutine is a Canadian dish made of french fries, cheese curds, and gravy.
    • The guest finds the combination odd and initially unappealing but is open to trying it.
    • The segment uses humor and personal reaction to introduce the cultural and culinary uniqueness of poutine.

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    5 min
  • Condescending Canadian Poutine

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     We take on a word request by Good ol Boy Mike at Sips, Suds & Smokes podcast: poutine.

    The hosts discuss the word "poutine" at the request of a fellow podcaster, intentionally avoiding prior research to see what they can recall or deduce about its meaning and origins.

    Key Points:

    • Initial Guesses and Context:
      • The hosts recall a conversation with another podcast host about Canadian culture, leading to the topic of poutine.
      • They guess that poutine is a Canadian food, likely potato-based (thick-cut fries), with some kind of cheese or dairy and a sauce, possibly garlic.
    • Actual Definition and Etymology:
      • Upon looking it up, they confirm poutine is a Canadian dish of French fries, cheese curds, and gravy, originating in Quebec in the 1950s.
      • The etymology is uncertain but may relate to French Canadian words for “pudding,” “mess,” or “potato,” and is thought to mean something like “potato mess.”
      • Poutine has become a symbol of Canadian cuisine and is popular as a bar snack, with many possible toppings.
    • Personal Experiences:
      • The hosts share stories about dining in Canada, including a faux pas involving asking for ranch dressing with fries at a nice restaurant in Vancouver, which was met with disapproval.
      • They discuss the rarity of ranch dressing outside the US and how such requests can be seen as an “American” behavior in Canada.
    • Cultural Reflection:
      • The episode explores how food customs can highlight cultural differences and sometimes lead to embarrassment or feelings of being an outsider.
      • The hosts touch on the broader topic of condescension, especially in situations where someone is unfamiliar with local customs or knowledge, and how this can be frustrating or alienating.

    Conclusion:
    The episode uses poutine as a lens to discuss Canadian culture, language, and etiquette, as well as the experience of navigating unfamiliar social norms. The conversation is lighthearted, blending curiosity, personal anecdotes, and reflections on cultural humility.

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    Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique. 

    34 min

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