I Heard You When You Said

I Heard You When You Said

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I Heard You When You Said episodes

  • Why Survival Isn't the Finish Line w/ Stephen Kim

    Stephen Kim of the Adaptive Training Foundation shares how injury, illness, and trauma can become starting points for strength, purpose, and service. He explains how ATF’s nine-week program helps people rebuild confidence through individualized training, recovery, and mindset work—and why the goal is thriving in everyday life, not just in the gym.Together, we explore rest, resilience, and the choice to turn hardship into purpose. It’s a conversation about rebuilding after life changes and finding ways to help others keep going.

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    1 hr 3 min
  • Conditions for Change

    Change doesn't fail because people lack discipline. It fails because nobody priced the trade-off up front.

    This episode is about what actually has to be true for change to stick — not hype, not willpower, just the right conditions. We walk through the AIR framework: awareness, intention, response, and why skipping straight to "response" is how most people burn out by week three.

    The conditions have to be right both in your head and in your life — miss either one and the change doesn't hold. We also get into the friction nobody warns you about: every real change costs you something before it gives anything back, and until you can name that cost, you'll keep mistaking resistance for failure.

    If something in your life needs to change and it hasn't stuck yet, start here.

    Takeaways

    • Setting the right conditions is crucial for sustainable change.
    • Awareness, intention, and response are key elements in the process of transformation. Recognize the trade-offs involved in making lifestyle changes
    • Set internal and external conditions for successful change


    Chapters

    • 00:00 Setting the Conditions for Change
    • 05:25 The Power of Awareness
    • 10:14 The Conditions for Growth
    • 17:00 The Framework for Sustainable Change
    • 23:26 Intentional Movement and Change
    • 24:55 The Trade-Off of Change
    • 27:25 Awareness, Intention, and Response
    • 31:22 Setting Internal and External Conditions
    • 38:02 The Friction of Change

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    49 min
  • Bringing Order to Life's Transitions w/ Alexia Rodriguez

    What if the thing weighing you down is not the move, but everything attached to it?

    In this episode, Alexia from Easy Nest Solutions shares how she helps people turn overwhelming transitions into calm, functional spaces. From moves and downsizing to closets, garages, and community projects, her work is all about creating order, reducing stress, and giving people a fresh start.If you’ve ever felt stuck in the chaos of too much stuff, this conversation will make you rethink what support can really look like.

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    57 min
  • Taking Thoughts Captive

    Most of us are unknowingly caught in a cycle of repetitive, unhelpful thoughts that sabotage our growth and peace. What if the key to breaking free isn’t about trying harder but about becoming aware of the thoughts that shape your life—and learning to take them captive? This episode dives deep into the simple process of examining, questioning, and rewiring your mind at its most fundamental level.

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    1 hr 1 min
  • You Cannot Judge the Importance of Things by the Noise They Make

    In a world drowning in noise, what if the loudest isn’t the most important? This episode uncovers the wisdom in quietness, showing how loud voices distract us from true priorities. Discover how cultural conditioning tricks us into chasing noise, while meaningful moments quietly shape our lives.We explore practical tools to anchor yourself amid chaos—slowing stories, asking powerful questions, and evaluating priorities. This isn’t just philosophy; it’s a call to action to rebuild your inner compass and find strength in quietness.

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    52 min
  • Weaponized Curiosity

    What if success is simpler than you think? This episode explores the power of weaponized curiosity—turning curiosity into your most potent tool for growth. Discover how asking the right questions can lead to innovation and resilience, just like a black belt winning a match with zero extra training.

    We tackle overthinking and show how clarity and simplicity break barriers. Learn why the simplest actions, like writing down questions and trusting your clarity, lead to freedom and faster results. This episode is for anyone ready to cut through the noise and unlock their potential with minimal friction.If you crave clarity and inspired action, this is your call to weaponize curiosity and master simplicity. Hit play and transform your mindset today.

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    33 min
  • Building a Gym Through Faith and Endurance with Ryan Adam

    What if lasting success isn’t just about business growth, but about deeply connecting with your community? Ryan Adam’s journey from firefighter to gym owner is about more than gains — it’s about transforming lives through love, faith, and purpose. In this episode, he shares how to blend grit with grace, building a legacy that outlasts workouts.

    Ryan’s story is raw and inspiring. From firehouses to North Frisco Athletics, he reveals how faith, family, and community are the keys to a thriving business. Discover how authentic leadership—embracing shared suffering and personal growth—turns a gym into a sanctuary.

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    1 hr 18 min
  • Your Victim Mentality

    What is the victim mentality? What is it made up of? How do you recognize when you are starting to lean toward it? What about it's close relatives of imposter syndrome and the fear of being seen? In this episode, we dive deep into the sneaky, mechanical ways your words and thoughts trap you in a victim mentality — and how a simple shift can set you free.


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    1 hr 16 min
  • Working Out Your Mindset

    In this episode, we explore how to work out your mindset by understanding and transforming the stories you tell yourself. Learn practical techniques like story translation, conflict versus architect language, and the importance of breath and emotion in shifting mental patterns. You will walk away with practical steps to start moving the needle on your stuck stories and the emotions that come along with them.


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    21 min
  • The Hidden Hero in Your Story with Mandy Mason

    In this episode, Justin and Stacey host Mandy, their longest-standing client, who shares her transformative journey from struggling with body image and self-acceptance to embracing her identity as an athlete. The conversation explores Mandy's experiences with coaching, the impact of menopause, and the significance of her childhood memories, particularly the story of 'brown sugar' that symbolizes her past struggles. Through mindset work and hormonal adjustments, Mandy discusses her newfound lightness and excitement for the future, including her aspirations for an Ironman competition. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance, the power of personal growth, and the journey of becoming the best version of oneself.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Running Shoes Discussion
    02:56 Mandy's Journey to Coaching
    05:47 The Connection with Tia-Clair Toomey
    09:54 Transitioning from Nutrition to Performance
    12:58 The Disconnect Between Body and Mind
    16:52 Learning and Growing Together
    19:42 The Impact of Menopause on Identity
    24:09 The Brown Sugar Story and Its Significance
    30:57 Understanding Menopause and Its Effects
    35:15 The Emotional Landscape of Menopause
    40:40 Navigating Hormonal Changes and Mental Health
    46:55 Embracing the Journey: Fat Mandy's Transformation
    52:17 The Power of Non-Judgmental Awareness
    58:11 Looking Ahead: The Future of Athleticism and Mindset

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    1 hr 11 min

About I Heard You When You Said

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You've read the books. You've done the therapy. You've tried the journaling, the meditation, the coping strategies. And you still feel it — that familiar weight, that loop you can't seem to break…