Reed goes solo this week with therapist Amber Robinson for a grounded conversation about loneliness, connection, and the complicated ways we seek love. Amber breaks down insecure attachment, love-bombing, and the quiet cruelty of “I’m sorry you feel that way.” They also dive into the emotional burnout of entrepreneurship and why building real connection has to be treated like a job if we want to thrive.

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Reed sits down with Dan Parziale of Mesa Farm and Jeff Gaddess of DignityMoves; two men who do real work at the heart of the homelessness crisis. 

Jeff opens up about his journey through mental illness and homelessness, and how it called him to a life of service. Together, he and Dan share what it really means to rebuild: not just homes, but community.

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We're excited to be joined by Logan Miller (I’m in the Band, Ultimate Spider-Man) for a raw talk about identity, recovery, and the unpredictable world of Hollywood.
From nicotine to caffeine, we dive into how quickly habits become vices. Logan gets real about his Disney past, carving out a new path, and what it’s really like to hustle as a working actor. The guys also trade stories about coming of age in Hollywood, and a few unforgettable nights out. 

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Reed’s flying solo with the brilliant Nicole Sachs (Mind Your Body, The Cure for Chronic Pain). Nicole shares her own insight on how to actually reprogram your brain. 

Together, Nicole and Reed dive into radical acceptance, why we’re built to remember pain, and how to break the cycle of self-loathing. 

If you’ve been struggling; in your body, in your mind, or in your heart, this episode’s for you

This week on ILYSM, we welcome the incredible Chris Sullivan; Emmy-nominated actor you know from Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2, This Is Us, and Hadestown.

Together, we dive into;  selfishness, self-pity, and patience; and what it really takes to grow through pain instead of getting stuck in it. The guys get honest about complaining, perspective, and the possibility that maybe… we never fully “find” ourselves; and that’s okay.

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This week on ILYSM, we’re joined by actor, comedian, and Vine star Manon Mathews! Tyler comes clean about a childhood lie, and Reed admits to ghosting someone. Manon opens up about her experience being cheated on, and Tyler shares his own perspective from the other side; a raw, vulnerable conversation about infidelity, trust, and the messy human side of love. It’s funny, honest, and deeply real... just how we like it on ILYSM

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This week on ILSYM, the legendary Will Sasso (MADtv, The Three Stooges, Happy Gilmore) joins Reed & Tyler to discuss health, self-care, and what it really means to show up as a man. We discuss taking antidepressants, CPAPs, mouth guards, and why taking care of yourself isn’t weak; it’s how you show up for the people who love you.

Cheers to the men who inspire us; may we all know them, may we all be them.

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This week on ILYSM, Reed & Tyler welcome Mel Rodriguez to the table. You’ve seen him in Better Call Saul, Getting On, and The Last Man on Earth, but here you’ll meet the man behind the roles. Together, we talk about the hard stuff; battling addiction, weight struggles, and the pressure men feel to stay silent about their emotions. Stay tuned for timeless advice from men on what truly leads to happiness.

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Rage, acceptance, and tolerance; we’re diving into it all this week on ILYSM. Steph Barkley joins us to unpack the emotional tug-of-war between doing the work that pays the bills and chasing passion projects that sometimes leave us resentful. There's laughter, there's vulnerability… and yes, we may or may not be booking a rage room by the end of it. Tune in to see how it all unfolds!

We take a look back at some of our favorite conversations from ILYSM so far.    Did we miss any? Which ones did you like best? Let us know down in the comments!

Featuring  Nik Dodani, Fiona Dourif, Ethan Suplee, Mireille Enos, Devon Sawa, Gina Minardi, Will Forte, Eliza Coupe, Judy Greer, and Ian Fidance.