I Make a Difference

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August 12, 2021Episode 8: Becoming My Emotional And Hurt Self
When you experienced the situation where you started your journey of becoming your conditioned self, you had emotions surface within you as a result of the non-acceptance of who you truly are. You expressed these emotions, to release them, but they were also not accepted and were rejected, and you became conditioned with what you do with your emotions. You suppressed them inside of you.
This was not just the creation of your conditioned self, it was also the creation of your emotional and hurt self. And your emotions would come to influence you, your choices, your relationships, and your life. Yet you can heal your emotions and unravel the conditioning of how you express them so that you can take back your ability to be the influencer of your human experience.
THIS EPISODE
You will:
Explore when and how emotions first surfaced within you
Come to know the process you went through that resulted in you being impacted by your emotions
Understand that the emotions you experience now are emotions from the past
Explore how you became conditioned in the expression of your emotions
Be introduced to two key processes for you to familiarize yourself with, in your steps toward healing your emotions
I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are
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17 min
July 24, 2021Episode 7: Emergent Processing; The Gifts Gained From Health Issues
This week’s podcast nearly did not happen, as I have had the flu all week. And what a gift that turned out to be in my processing.
I had an expectation I had to do this week’s podcast, and that I had to continue on with the next step in the journey, but hey when it is not meant to happen it does not happen. But what did happen, was the surfacing of a new addition to the podcast process – emergent processing. This is the first of many ‘Emergent Processing’ episodes I will be doing in amongst journeying the human experience with you.
What this means, is that I will at times do an emergent processing episode where I share with you what my processing has been during that day or week. And in this week’s episode, with having the flu, my focus was drawn to looking at all the times in my life (or the significant ones at least) when I have not been well. In doing so, I acknowledged I have previously viewed, explored, and dug deep into these situations many times before, but not from the perspective I was viewing them from this time. Out of this process, came new insights, discoveries, and distinctions and that is what I share in this episode.
THIS EPISODE
I share with you the process that led me to do this ‘Emergent Processing’ episode
Clarity is given as to what emergent processing is
I share how being ill with the flu, gave me the opportunity to view my physically ill and impacting experiences through different eyes, and what I discovered, uncovered, unraveled, and healed in the process.
I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are
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25 min
July 24, 2021 Episode 7: Emergent Processing - The Gifts Gained From Health Issues
Episode 7: EMERGENT PROCESSING - The Gifts Gained From Health Issues
This week's podcast nearly did not happen, as I have had the flu all week. And what a gift that turned out to be in my processing.
I had an expectation I had to do this week's podcast, and that I had to continue on with the next step in the journey, but hey when it is not meant to happen it does not happen. But what did happen, was the surfacing of a new addition to the podcast process - emergent processing.
This is the first of many 'Emergent Processing' episodes I will be doing in amongst journeying the human experience with you. What this means, is that I will at times do an emergent processing episode where I share with you what my processing has been during that day or week. And in this weeks episode, with having the flu, my focus was drawn to looking at all the times in my life (or the significant ones at least) when I have not been well. In doing so, I acknowledged I have previously viewed, explored, and dug deep into these situations many times before, but not from the perspective I was viewing them from this time.
Out of this process, came new insights, discoveries, and distinctions and that is what I share in this episode.
THIS EPISODE
I share with you the process that led me to do this 'Emergent Processing' episode
Clarity is given as to what emergent processing is
I share how being ill with the flu, gave me the opportunity to view my physically ill and impacting experiences through different eyes, and what I discovered, uncovered, unraveled, and healed in the process.
I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are
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25 min
July 17, 2021Episode 6: Becoming My Conditioned Self
Conditioning is where you change from being natural to being normal. You conform to what you learn from those around you, as to what is acceptable, not acceptable, what others expect of you, and what others say that you did that was wrong, that you were to blame for and responsible for.
Your conditioned self started to come to be, the moment your natural soul expression was not accepted. And each time you experienced the disconnection of energy and non-acceptance of who you are, you took on board the processing of the person or people, and you began to suppress aspects of yourself, including your natural soul expression. You began to protect yourself from judgment and hurt and you created layers. And each time you created a layer, you continued to become your conditioned self – your normal self, as opposed to your natural self – your true self.
THIS EPISODE
You will:
Explore what conditioning is
Explore how you become your conditioned self
Know how your conditioning, results in you creating layers of protection and suppression around your soul self
I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are
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33 min
July 09, 2021Episode 5: How My Human Self Learns To Identify My Soul Self
The beginning stages of your human experience as a soul in a human body is where you – soul express. You express the purity, rightness, and light of your soul. But the world you are born into does not know how to accept your soul expression, and it is made wrong.
For you to live in the human world, your connection to your soul may not be strong enough to manage the impacts of being made wrong, for expressing your natural self. So you begin to separate from your soul and true self.
Your human experience becomes one of separation and then the adventure of finding your way back to your soul.
But how do you identify your soul? How do you know what you are looking for within yourself?
The qualities you see you are born with, that are good and pure that you express through your soul expression, are a human perspective of what the soul is, looks, sounds, and feels like. And your human qualities and attributes, only become identifiable by the lack of that you experience – the dualities, the opposites of these qualities, otherwise, you would know of their existence or nature. The process of experiencing dualities is the way you learn to identify your soul on your journey home.
THIS EPISODE
You will:
Explore the process of disconnection and separation from your soul.
See how the qualities and attributes you see as your soul, are how the human process interprets the soul
Explore how you come to know and identify the qualities in you that are right and good, that you believe are your soul, through knowing and experiencing their opposite.
Explore how the soul is the equilibrium, the balance, and the rightness of the dualities.
I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are
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14 min
June 30, 2021Episode 4: What Differentiates My Human Self From My Soul Self
Your human self is unique. Unique in the features that make you human, and the processing that you experience with each of these features.

Your soul self does not have these features, which is why the human experience and journey are very different and powerful. One that offers so many opportunities to work with each of these features, to achieve a place of purity in your processing and expression. A place where your soul is fully expressed in human form.
The first step is recognizing them, understanding them, and being able to distinguish the difference between your pure form and your conditioned state.
As you heal, unravel and uncover your true self – your soul self, the more each of these features will become pure in their processing. And the more you evolve from human consciousness to soul consciousness.
THIS EPISODE
We explore:
That there is a difference in the level of soul consciousness that you have when entering the human body.
The unique features and processes of the human self
The different processing attached to each of these human self features.
How it is important for you to grow your awareness of these features, and your ability to work with them, for your evolvement.

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are
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18 min
June 19, 2021Episode 3: My Soul Decisions For My Human Adventure
Your soul made decisions, as to the nature of the human experience you would have in this lifetime.

Decisions that would assist your human self on the journey of evolvement to bring your soul and true self fully present and expressed in a human body, where you are fully conscious, seeing and knowing the truth, and are pure.
In this episode, we will explore the key areas your soul made decisions around and why, prior to returning to the human body. Through being aware of the decisions you made, you have an opportunity to embrace every painful, uncomfortable, joyful, and magical experience that you have had and are being offered, as they are gifts in the discovery and reconnection to you. You are able to accept more of who you are and the people and processes that you have chosen to be conditioned and impacted by, emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually, and energy-wise. And you are able to appreciate more the people and processes that have shown, shared, and given you love, care, help, friendship, and nurturing. You become aware that every individual you have interacted with, has been valuable in your support of you on your journey to be able to see, feel, hear and uncover more of who you truly are and the expansion of your expression of the true you.
THIS EPISODE
You will:
Explore the six key processes that your soul made choices about for this human experience
Delve into the nature of the choices you made and the uniqueness of the process of each choice
Grow your understanding of why you chose whom you would journey with and what experiences you would have in this lifetime
Explore how you can identify some of the key choices you made as a soul, and the benefits of embracing the choices

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are
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26 min
June 08, 2021Episode 2: Your True Self
Your true self is the being you truly are at the core of you, the real and natural you. In this episode, you will explore who you were at the start of your journey as your human self and where you have the opportunity to return to and be as you complete your journey – the true you. That journey requires you to be conscious of the components that make up your true self and some of the approaches you can apply to uncover the connection you have always had, to the unique, beautiful, and powerful essence of you, so that you can strengthen and grow what is natural to you.
THIS EPISODE
You will:
Be introduced to ‘your true self
Explore the components of who you truly are
Be resourced with approaches you can take to guide you to uncover your connection to the true you

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are
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17 min
June 04, 2021 Episode 1: Are You Ready To Unravel, Heal and Uncover?
The I Make a Difference Adventure begins and on the first show Melinda shares with you the journey ahead.
The I Make a Difference process explores the journey you have been on in how you became your conditioned and emotional human self and the pathway back to being your true and natural self.
This episode is an introduction to the I Make a Difference adventure, an opportunity for you to journey deeply and broadly into the areas of yourself that are not right and natural to you, to unravel and heal these parts of you. So that you can release the hold your past has had on you and uncover what you have chosen not to see and have hidden within you - the beauty of who you truly are and what is right and natural about and to you.
9 min

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