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“Excuse Me, Am I in Your Way — in Life?” - me LMAO

Okay but…seriously. Why am I saying “sorry” to the chair I just bumped into? Why am I overthinking that text I sent 3 hours ago? Why am I mentally writing 12 versions of a message just to make sure no one’s offended by my breathing pattern??

In this episode of Becoming Wild, I’m diving headfirst (with grace) into the beautiful, burdensome art of being too considerate. 

I’m unpacking where it comes from (hi, childhood conditioning), why we do it (survival, approval, trauma... whew), and what it actually costs us when we make everyone else’s feelings our full-time job. Spoiler alert: it's EXHAUSTING. Also: you're not alone.

Let this be your loving nudge to stop editing yourself down to be digestible. You are not a disclaimer. You are not too much. And you sure as hell don’t owe anyone an apology for being your full, radiant self.

Take a breath, press play, and let’s start reclaiming our space unapologetically. 

#peoplepleaser #peoplepleasing

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Hey doll face!

Welcome to my world!

In today’s episode we talk all about:

Epiphanies for showing up as my authentic self 

Working through my friendship hurt (being open for separate healing)

Talking through my desires

Setting my boundaries for my next sexual encounters

Figuring out my own wants and needs without shame

How to increase your sexual arousal

An academy update & more

ENJOY!

10 ways to naturally boost your libido: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323918#herbal-remedies 

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Darlings, welcome to the first juicy little bite of my brand-new series, Becoming Wild where I spill the tea, the honey, and maybe a few existential sprinkles about what it really means to unbecome everything you thought you had to be, just to remember who you truly are. (Phew. Yes, that was a sentence. Yes, it’s a journey.)

In this kickoff episode, I’m pulling back the glittery curtain and sharing some real talk: the growing pains, the cosmic giggles, the ego meltdowns, and the tender moments of coming home to ME. Expect some laughs, a few awkward revelations, and at least one moment where I dramatically pause to sip tea and question everything (on-brand, I know).

If you've ever found yourself dancing between the version of you the world expects and the wild, radiant soul whispering beneath the noise — this series is your permission slip to become. Let’s bloom, unravel, shimmy, and sparkle through it together. 🦋💫

Hit play, take a deep breath, and let’s start becoming together. I love you

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I want to live in a world where we aren't ashamed by our self diagnosis and instead are proud to know that we know our bodies well enough to be able to know when somethings wrong and how to heal it.

Not saying I don't think doctors are needed (in some cases) but my goal to learn my own body was absolutely inspired from the hurt and misinformation I've received from "trusted doctors" when trying to find the answers.

ALSO.... my first lesbian lover from back in the day reached out last year november.... here's how it went monkey covering eyes emoji

enjoy my babies!

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Hey beautiful souls!

I’m so excited about today’s episode!

First we’ll be catching up on how I recently learned I had Dyscalculia (a form of math dyslexia) and how it’s affected my life.

Then I chat about my quick meet up with a MAN and how I’m navigating my confused horniness.

Lastly, we chat all about why we sometimes find it hard to get aroused and how to fix that.

10 ways to naturally boost your libido: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323918#herbal-remedies 

Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy

Want vegan and cruelty free self care? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal 

Want exclusive content and mini courses? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience 

Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] 

Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/

Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?

Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.com

YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos 

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In this raw and revealing episode of The Love Atiya Experience, I'm introducing you to something deeply personal, powerful, and necessary. 

Introducing: Project Pleasure!

I sat down with 11 brave, brilliant souls and asked them the questions so many of us wonder about but rarely say out loud: What does an orgasm really feel like? Do you orgasm every time you have sex? Do you orgasm every time you have sex?

This episode kicks off a sensual and thought-provoking journey into the intimate world of your favorite creators personal pleasure free from shame, judgment, or performance.

This is more than a podcast episode. This is a reclamation. A reminder and A conversation long overdue.

Tune in, open up, and let’s experience pleasure—on your terms.

I am sending a major thank you to every last person who participated in this project two years ago & had trust in me and my vision... these beautiful souls include:

INSTAGRAM

@Unperf (Alex)

@SomethingAlfred (Alfred)

@Kam.th3.aziza (Kam)

@nigelmarcellus (Nigel)

@ayeehollaaaa (Alia)

@Ditzylilprincess (Mak Lee)

@beautybitesandbooks (Lakeisha aka Keisha)

@Vinariskillakraneproductions (Facebook: Vinaris)

@divinelyinformedwellness (Jessica)

@Newyorkssixthrangernsfw 

Tiktok:

@Ditzylilprincess (Mak Lee)

@Hen_Taiger (Hen Taiyaki)

@nigelmarcellus (Nigel)

@ayeehollaaaa (Alia)

Want access to my exclusive episodes, bonus episodes & all uncensored content? CLICK HERE TO JOIN MY PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience 

Want more pleasure in your life?

Become A Member Of The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis And Enjoy: 

🌿 Educational articles & blogs

📝 Journal prompts to guide your reflections

🎧 Workshops you can listen to or watch at your own pace

✨ Step-by-step self-guided practices

🦋 Resources designed to help you feel more confident, connected, and comfortable in your own skin 

✨ Access to my Pleasure Shop where you can shop from my personal favorite toys and products!

CLICK HERE TO BECOME A MEMBER OF THE OASIS: https://www.loveatiya.com/ 

SHOP From My Full Collection Of Pleasure Products & Toys: https://www.loveatiya.com/shop 

Let’s connect on social media my loves!

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Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?

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Hey beautiful souls,

HAPPPPY MASTURBATION MAY!

Today’s intention is to help you feel a lot less shame about yourself, your body and your pleasure!

I 10/10 recommend listening to this when you’re home LMAO

We’re gonna look and feel on our Polly Pockets while falling in love with ourselves one touch at a time.

Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy

Want vegan and cruelty free self care? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal 

Want exclusive content and mini courses? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience 

Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] 

Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/

Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?

Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.com

YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos 

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Hey beautiful souls,

HAPPPPY MASTURBATION MAY!

Today’s intention is to help you feel a lot less shame about yourself, your body and your pleasure!

I 10/10 recommend listening to this episode when you’re home because we’re gonna take a look (mirror work) and a hands on feel on our Polly Pockets, while falling in love with ourselves one touch at a time.

Original Air Date: May 2nd 2025

Want access to my exclusive episodes, bonus episodes & all uncensored content? CLICK HERE TO JOIN MY PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience 

Want more pleasure in your life?

Become A Member Of The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis And Enjoy: 

🌿 Educational articles & blogs

📝 Journal prompts to guide your reflections

🎧 Workshops you can listen to or watch at your own pace

✨ Step-by-step self-guided practices

🦋 Resources designed to help you feel more confident, connected, and comfortable in your own skin 

✨ Access to my Pleasure Shop where you can shop from my personal favorite toys and products!

CLICK HERE TO BECOME A MEMBER OF THE OASIS: https://www.loveatiya.com/ 

Shop From My Full Collection Of Pleasure Products & Toys: https://www.loveatiya.com/shop 

Let’s connect on social media my loves!

Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/

Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?

YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos 

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Hey babes!

Welcome to my newest series VOICENOTES BY ATITI where I record the random (divine) sht that happens in my life... IN REAL TIME!

0 edits.. all me LMAO

You can hear the rest of the episode here

My Pleasure Shop: https://www.loveatiya.com/etherealx

Xoxo

Love Atiya

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Hey beautiful souls!

I know i’ve been MIA on the socials lately but for those of you who don’t know, my cat Tam transcended a few weeks ago and it rocked me to my core.

On the day I decided to record this podcast I was finally having an experience of being in better spirits although, grief comes in heavy heavy waves, when the waves are calm the waters are easier to wade through.

Anywho in this episode I give y'all a little bit of insight of what’s been going on in my life.

I talk a lot about the past but if it’s one thing I have learned, it’s that you haven’t really gotten a chance to know who I am as I constantly evolve.

I hope these super transparent and vulnerable episodes can touch someone and show them that they’re not alone.

I’m so thankful to my fur baby Tam for being my true best friend for 10 years and I promise to honor her life in every single thing that I do from here on out.

Thank you for listening.

Oh… and in this episode we also talk about how to feel more pleasure without sex and the way I’d like to show up in future friendships + learning what support looks like to me.

Enjoy!

Sign up for The Ethereal Pleasure Academy: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy 

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Shop from Ethereal Self Care: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal 

WANT MORE CONTENT?! Head to my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience 

Toys From Biird + The Ohwii Glass Dildo: https://www.loveatiya.com/search?q=biird&type=products&collections=X+Biird

Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] 

Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/

Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?

Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.com

YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos 

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