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  • 74. We Are Not Normal Human Beings | Turning 31 and Giving Less Fucks

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    Hey beautiful souls!

    Welcome to yet another dope ass episode where I talk all about:

    • Not being a normal human 
    • Faux healers & energy leeches 
    • Having friends I’m excited to listen to
    • Charging money to people I’m not excited to listen to 
    • My thoughts on reciprocity 
    • Listening to my friends talk about men & the dumb sh*t they do 
    • Turning 31 and giving less fucks 
    • Calling out abusive sh*t (to your friend who’s in a relationship with a horrid man)
    • Why do I keep giving strangers my time (no more 4 hour meet ups/hang outs!!!!)

    + My 3 simple core values 

    1. If I have to say no more than once it’s a problem!
    2. Is this bringing me pleasure or can it bring me pleasure in the future? 
    3. Showing up honestly (reflecting on it & dealing with what comes in hopes I shed the dishonest people from around me)

    & so much more!

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    34 min
  • 73. Confession: My Desires For Platonic Intimacy & A Companion?

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    Hey beautiful souls!

    In today's episode I'm talking all about:

    • Platonic intimacy 
    • What if relationships aren’t all bad?
    • Why I don’t need a roster (& taking the pressure off my roster search) 
    • Removing the moochers from my life before I could elevate and ascend

    & SO MUCH MORE

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    44 min
  • 14. I Don't Have To Prove My Depression To You & Quitting Only Fans

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    WARNING: if you are struggling with suicidal ideation the end of this episode may help you or trigger you. The first part of the episode is all about how I am no longer trying to PROVE my depression to the people in my life and tools I’m using to heal my mental health. We’ll practice breathwork before touching on these deep topics & I’ll share some tools that are helping me grow through my journey with my mental health. Listen at your own digression or feel free to come back when you feel like you can better receive this information my love. 


    In this episode we will also talk all about:


    Why I quit Onlyfans 

    Why I’m off TikTok & Instagram 

    Why I took a pause on my self care business 

    Ways I’m healing my mental health

    Why when you’re in a relationship and he tells you “don’t worry about her” she’s probably the person you need to worry about 

    How I was a petty Bitch when my ex booked a trip with a girl on our shared air bnb account

    The Book The Four Agreements

    Family & friends not being able to acknowledge your depression 

    How animal abuse triggers me  & MORE


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    National suicide prevention hotline: 988lifeline.org


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    1 hr 43 min
  • 72. Misogyny in Queer Spaces & My Lesbian Updates

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    Hey beautiful souls!


    Todays episode is all about:

    Love island games 

    Men being unintentionally queer 

    How my ancestors have my back 

    Lesbianism vs queerness 

    My strange ass old friend 

    Having energy that can’t be penetrated 

    Are there other energies other than masculine and feminine?

    Why bi men are looked at as gay and bi women are looked at as straight (hint: it’s misogyny)

    The power of lesbian relationships  

    & MORE!


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    1 hr 3 min
  • 71. PATREON: He Said He Couldn’t Cuddle… Platonic Intimacy & Finding My People

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    Hey beautiful souls!


    I’m so excited for this wonderful Patreon episode that’s all about platonic intimacy! I was going to post it exclusively for my Patreons but I decided to post this as a preview into the type of bonus content you can enjoy on my Patreon! ❤️


    In today’s episode I talk all about:


    Platonic touch & intimacy

    My amazing ass first Reiki session

    How it feels like everytime I go outside I’m energetically attacked (It’s a test, thank you ancestors)

    I only wanna meet people who are like my mom

    Why I’m excited to age now

    Platonic friendships and how to introduce them into our lives

    The time I got ghosted because I held a man’s hand

    My relationship with intimacy before the shame 

    How much I love and appreciate my mommy 

    Finding my people

    All the times I begged for love and intimacy 

    The time he said he couldn’t cuddle cause he gets hot 

    The difference between platonic intimacy and sexual intimacy 

    The difference between sensuality and sexuality

    Hanging out with my 13 year old self  


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    1 hr 3 min
  • PATREON BONUS: Everything You Want Is On The Other Side Of Fear

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    Hey beautiful souls!

    Today's episode is all about:

    • Loving every version of myself
    • Meeting every version of myself and falling in love again and again
    • Having regrets everytime I go outside 
    • Protecting myself from passport bros
    • Practicing no longer caring about what people think 
    • How you can’t fail a test if you’re trying your best 
    • Peeping patterns of fear 
    • How I got a text from an old flame a few weeks ago
    • Energetic check ins 

    & MORE!

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    27 min
  • 70. Creating A Pleasure Plan | Finding Pleasure During Grief

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    Was everyone in my life using me? LOL

    Hey beautiful souls! In today’s episode we talk all about:

    Asking for help & grief in your 30’s

    Letting go of all the people who aren’t truly aligned (and possibly never were)

    Grieving who I used to be and the life I THOUGHT I used to have

    Friend Pushers

    Energetic cut offs & navigating the world


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    49 min
  • 69. Decolonizing Pleasure Pt 2 | Gender & Sexuality Pre-Colonization

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    HAPPY EPISODE 69!

    For Episode 69 I wanted to do something HUGE and this episode is probably THE most informative one yet.

    We’re talking about:


    Gender and sexuality before colonization

    How a spanish colonizer strapped a non binary person to a cannon in brazil because they thought they were dominic

    How the christian missionaries went into Amazonia and raided their communities teaching them about the “horrors” of same sex marriage

    How the language is being actively erased

    & How the indigenous original people of the earth are fighting to get it back…


    Enjoy!


    Article: https://www.e-ir.info/2019/08/20/indigenous-sexualities-resisting-conquest-and-translation/ 


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    1 hr 28 min
  • 68. The Power Of The Indigenous People | Decolonizing Pleasure

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    In today’s episode I talk all about how the white man literally tried to wipe indigenous people off of the earth and dive deep into some research about the world of pleasure before our bodies were colonized.


    Enjoy!


    First Article: https://www.ualberta.ca/en/folio/2016/02/indigenous-erotica-gives-new-meaning-to-all-my-relations.html 


    Second Article: https://www.fairobserver.com/region/north_america/for-native-americans-sex-didnt-come-with-guilt-21347/ 


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    1 hr 17 min
  • 67. Dual Stimulation, Energy Maintenance & Mind Blowing Orgasms

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    Hey beautiful souls!

    In today’s amazing episode we talk all about:

    The Ethereal Pleasure Camp (an adult summer camp)

    Dual Stimulation

    My latest experience with penetrating myself (hint: it was a success!) 

    Explaining why it’s SO IMPORTANT for us to show up exactly as we are

    Tryna figure out how much energy to give people

    Why I’m making a burn book for the people in my life 


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    50 min

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Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the…

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