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Welcome, beautiful humans! 🌴✨

Love Island USA is officially back and you already know I had thoughts.

If you know me, you know I've been riding with this show since Season 1 (far less enthusiastically) but the nostalgic vibes of these villa-ians finally inspird me to share my thoughts on what's gonna go down this summer.

So if you're new here, welcome lol and if you're used to my other content, I hope you enjoy this too (but feel free to stick around for my regularly scheduled content)

In today's video, I'm sharing my reactions, first impressions, favorite islanders, questionable decisions, and all the chaos from Love Island USA Episode 1.

We're discussing:
💕 The first couplings
👀 My initial thoughts on each islander
🔥 Who has chemistry and who absolutely does not
🚩 The red flags that had me side-eyeing my screen
💋 The flirting, tension, and awkward moments
🍿 My predictions for who's going to thrive and who's in danger already

As someone who is endlessly fascinated by attraction, relationships, communication, and human behavior, I love analyzing what's happening beneath the surface while also fully embracing the reality TV messiness.

It's only Episode 1 and somehow I'm already DEEPLY invested.

Who are your favorites so far? Which couple are you rooting for? Who do you think is playing a game? Let me know in the comments because I need people to obsess over this season with.

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Welcome back, beautiful humans! 🌴✨

Today we're diving into my thoughts, reactions, hot takes, and probably a few dramatic opinions about Love Island UK Episodes 1, 2, and 3!

If you know me, you know this isn't my usual content but I needed to add a little extra razzle dazzle and pleasure into my world and one of the things I love the most at the moment is LOVE ISLAND LMAO

In This Episode We're talking:

💋 First impressions of the islanders
👀 Who's giving main character energy and who's already testing my patience
🔥 The strongest couples so far
🚩 Early red flags I've noticed
💕 Unexpected connections
🍿 The drama, the flirting, the chaos, and everything in between

As a certified lover of reality TV and human behavior, I can't help but analyze the relationships, communication styles, attraction dynamics, and all the messy little moments that make Love Island so addictive.

Do you agree with my hot takes? Who are you rooting for? Who needs to be dumped immediately? Let me know in the comments because I need someone to gossip with.

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Welcome to yet another episode of THE IADGAF PODCAST!

In todays episode we talk all about:

The Lorax & how it’s kinda my favorite movie 

The epiphany I had about my caterpillar soup phase 

Being willingly be cracked open (non sexually)

Building my my armor (or dropping it) by being triggered and embracing the triggers 

Adult me’s wants vs inner child me’s wants

How we’re not supposed to be living this way (separate and disconnected) 

How somehow it’s a “male loneliness epidemic” yet people of all genders in the world is experiencing it 

A question for trans people (and how you want to be seen and recognized) 

That time I was so stressed I went temporarily blind (like a snake) 

Finding gratitude while in the midst of the storm 

My pervy “play uncle” reposting videos of me in lingerie 

How and why it’s okay (and necessary) to feel your anger 

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Hey beautiful butterfly!

Welcome to yet another episode of IADGAF

In today’s episode we’re talking about dating as well as: 

What even is a womb

Can men’s breast produce milk? 

Freeing the nipple 

Pre Covid dating vs Post Covid dating 

The dating app dopamine boost from people shopping 

Challant ass men (and how I get the ick from them) 

Absolute “NOs” for dating profiles 

A guide on what not to have on your profile 

Why don’t people ask questions back? 

I like a man who actually doesn’t exist 

Daddy wounds x dating 

Dating with a disorganized attachment style 

My 5 week pleasure program 

20 questions to ask people on dating apps cause wtf 

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Welcome to season 4 of THE IADGAF podcast (formally known as The Love Atiya Experience & The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast) I am sooooooo excited for this newly revamped and rebranded version of my podcast. We made it to year 4 baby! This is a big F you to anyone who says I have a problem with commitment LOL 

THIS EPISODE IS DEDICATED TO MY FUR DAUGHTER TAM WHO IS THE CATALYST IN TEACHING ME HOW TO SET BOUNDARIES & TAKE UP SPACE (AND ALSO HOW TO REMOVE MY ENERGY WHEN THE VIBES ARE OFF)

Today mantra: I actually don’t care

Topics we’re hitting in today’s episode are: 

a welcome into season 4

seeking the good in people (and how that’s f*cking us up) 

a storytime about how I thought I made a friend but now she’s lowkey blocked (featuring the actual voicenote I sent to her to end the connection) 

how daughters feel like they have to protect their dads reputation 

how to be less accessible 

f*ck my ex and his waves 

you have limited fucks use them wisely (the 5 fuck rule) 

featuring: questions you can ask yourself when contemplating if your need to revoke or minimize your access to people 

TAKEAWAY: people are going to feel a way, so the f*ck what?!

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Hey! So my laptop started glitching while I was trying to fix the sound (peep my pristine intro with my NEW mic) anyways in honor of not giving a fuck i'm posting it as it because I refuse to let my glitching laptop stop me from releasing this LMAO so just turn it down when I start doing the breathing otherwise it may blow your eardrums out jk jk lmao enjoy babes 

I can't wait for ya'll to enjoy my OFFICIAL first episode dropping in MARCH!

Xoxo

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HEY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! This episode was WAAAAAY too juicy for the main feed so I decided to upload it onto Patreon instead. Wanna hear the rest of the episode? Become a Butterfly (Patron) TODAY!  https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience 

This episode is all about:

Soooooo many damn lessons

My amazing ass flower, fruit, water, moldy soup analogy (somebody write this down for me please!)

I need more “acknowledgers” in my world (be gone with non acknowledgement) 

Having a transactional relationship with a parent and it’s impacts 

Family can be the opps (learnt through pattern recognition) 

That one time I lowkey thought my mom was tryna kill me (she literally was trying to HELP me lmao) 

Learning how to differentiate when my ancestors send me signs (are they blessings, offering assistance or are they protecting me)

The light skin spiders (no spider racism I promise) 

Accidentally thinking a friendship was real (LMAO awkward af girl I thought we were friends 🤣) 

But we’re all going through it 

Why I’m not adding mf’s on social media anymore (para social relationships are a drag)

The guy I met up with from hinge back in November

How much I love my twin sister friend 

“Minimadality” LMAO

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Friendship archetypes and feeling more pleasure with friends (Part 2)

Where is part one?: Part one can be found on my Patreon! Listen for FREE by becoming a patron today!

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Affirmation: “I accept myself”

This episode is all about: 

How I woke up to a scream from my higher self 

Visualizing me and my mom being on tv together 

The fleeting need for validation 

Doing what I want to do instead of what I should do

My back to back interactions with narcissists 

How I call myself “Seal girl” cause I just be clapping or everyone 

How I’m no longer being the audience for people 

Shoutouts to my mom for putting me onto the friendship archetypes theory 

My list of friendship types

& different kinds of friendship archetypes 

Doing wtf I want to do 

My 47 day challenge 

P.s. I promise I’m setting up my mic this week lol 

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TRIGGER WARNING

Hey beautiful souls, this episode of The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast includes discussion and mention of sexual assault.

These conversations may be activating or emotionally challenging for some listeners.

Please listen with care, honor your boundaries, and pause or step away at any time if needed.

i love you.

In this episode we talk all about: 

Stories of Me and my 1st lesbian lover’s second go round & the time she fell asleep when we were sexting

Why wasn’t I always horny?

Tips for after care (even after sexting)

The time my aunt joked about my sexual assault 

What happens when I don’t listen to my gut 

Doing what I want to do 

Conscious sex and intentionality

Solo date ideas and suggestions

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Heyyyyy beautiful souls! So happy to have you here.

This episode is all about:

Me flying in fake first class on JetBlue

My failed attempts trying to connect with men

How New York tried to steal my soul

I just don’t have it to give to the men in my life anymore (a tough pill to swallow)

Being naturally enthusiastic (perfect for energy vampires)

Men are who they are (and they’re ok with that)

Holding out hope for men (no)

What do men even talk about?

I don’t think I was ever meant to connect with men

Making excuses for the men in my life

I wanna stop wanting men to see or recognize my pain

Are men narcissists by default?

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