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  • My Mom Brought Me My First Vibrator At 16 | Sex Ed At Home Feat My Mommy

    Ya’ll this is my most cherished episode to DATE. I have wonder woman as a guest. A literal personification of love. The mother to all. The muva to me and the grandmuva to my cat. 

    This is a one of a kind experience, featuring sacred conversations that many don’t get to witness, I hope you enjoy as much as I did.

    It’s so long overdue. Introducing…. My mommy, Mother Earth! 

    In this episode we talk all about: 

    • Unschooling me (vs homeschooling)
    • Sex Ed at home
    • How we talk about sucking D while we eat our breakfast together 
    • Learning from your child 
    • The time we (almost) got attacked by an otter 
    • The powers of therapy (and all the different kinds)
    • The time my mom brought me a vibrator when I was 16
    • Generational sexual trauma and sh*t
    • How to give yourself grace as a parent and a child (even a grown child)

    Do you want to own the most fabulous jewelry in the world? Did you fall in love with my mom in the episode and want to support her business (that has been in existence for 40 years!!!) 

    Anytime you’ve complimented me on my jewelry it’s probably been jewelry from https://www.imanijewelry.com  handmade with of one of a kind materials, shells, natural stones & more!

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    You can use the code LOVEATIYA to get 10% off your order (whether it be for you or a gift for a loved one) enjoy! 

    Books mentioned in episode: 

    A mind at a time 

    The parents tao te Ching 

    Want access to my exclusive episodes, bonus episodes & all uncensored content? CLICK HERE TO JOIN MY PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience 


    Want more pleasure in your life?


    Become A Member Of The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis And Enjoy: 


    🌿 Educational articles & blogs

    📝 Journal prompts to guide your reflections

    🎧 Workshops you can listen to or watch at your own pace

    ✨ Step-by-step self-guided practices

    🦋 Resources designed to help you feel more confident, connected, and comfortable in your own skin 

    ✨ Access to my Pleasure Shop where you can shop from my personal favorite toys and products!


    CLICK HERE TO BECOME A MEMBER OF THE OASIS: https://www.loveatiya.com/ 


    Shop From My Full Collection Of Pleasure Products & Toys: https://www.loveatiya.com/shop 


    Let’s connect on social media my loves!

    Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/

    Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?

    YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos 

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    1 hr 27 min
  • 39. Becoming Besties With My Vagina | More Tips For Vulva Health

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    Hiiiiii love bugs! 


    Welcome to episode 39! In this episode we’ll be touching on:

    • How my family forgot about me 
    • How we all have a (lack of) capacity & how I’m learning to be there for myself
    • How compassion is the thief of joy
    • Craving a family bond 
    • Reconnecting with my yoni 
    • Going to an OBGYN in Mexico 
    • Getting gaslit by a black woman OBGYN 
    • How I wanted to literally ☠️ on birth control 
    • Birth control & how they used women in Puerto Rico as guinea pigs (and still are…worldwide)
    • How I prevent BV from coming back 
    • Ice spice and her multiple panties 

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    ​​Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] 


    Pleasure Positive Playlist & Email Sign Up: https://www.loveatiya.com/signup 


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    Website: https://www.loveatiya.com/ 


    Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ 


    Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theloveatiyaexperiencepodcast/ 


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya 


    YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos 



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    1 hr 26 min
  • 38. Things I’m Doing To Connect With My Vagina | Am I Poly & Is There A Straight Agenda?

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    “I fell in love with him because he was acting like me” - Atiya 4/8/24

    Heyyyyy beautiful souls! I am so excited for yet another solo episode! Today were unpacking:

    My secret trip to Atlanta 

    Everything just seems more beautiful 

    I’m in school (& working on a final presentation)

    Opened my heart to dating again 

    Dating is showing me how much I’ve healed vs how much I have to heal 

    Talking to men vs talking to women

    Not having a roster (no dating apps)

    My social media break 

    Sexual assault support groups 

    My first Yoni steam 

    Connecting to my inner child 

    Learning more about it (shoutout to my books from shopsedure.com)

    Male/female relationships: is there a straight agenda? 

    Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] 

    Pleasure Positive Playlist & Email Sign Up: https://www.loveatiya.com/signup 

    For Sex Toys & Sex education books: https://www.shopsedure.com/  USE THE CODE LOVEATIYA for 15% off 

    Website: https://www.loveatiya.com/ 

    Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ 

    Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theloveatiyaexperiencepodcast/ 

    TikTok: @iloveatiya & @loveatiya

    YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos 


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    1 hr 14 min
  • Doing Porn & Healing From Sexual Trauma With The Gross Demon Alex Monroe Part 2

    WELCOMEEEEE LOVE BUGS!

    I am so excited for part two of this magical episode with the absolutely wonderful Gross Demon Alex Monroe! This was such a fun episode to shoot & I am forever grateful for ALL that I learned from them.

    TW: the topic of childhood sexual trauma & rape are discussed in this episode. If this is a triggering topic for you please use your own discretion with no judgment at all when choosing to tune in & many thank you’s to The Gross Demon Alex Monroe for their transparency & vulnerability ❤️

    In part two of this amazing episode with the Gross Demon Alex Monroe we talk all about:

    • Fete life & how it isn’t a Jamaican thing (it’s actually for the kinky community)
    • Being sex repulsed. 
    • Doing porn with a producer you trust 
    • Being a little & what that entails 
    • Using porn as a way to heal trauma 
    • Being a neurodivergent hottie and why we take things people say so literally 
    • Scat play 
    • How sexual trauma can effect your kinks and outlook on sex & pleasure 
    • Shame & masturbation 
    • Big dicks & more 

    Follow The Gross Demon Alex Monroe!

    Personal IG: https://www.instagram.com/unperf?igsh=OGE5c3I1Z2RmdGJx

    Art IG: https://www.instagram.com/spontaneous.chaotic.creations?igsh=N2xsNW9udGVjbWxj

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/Thegrossdemon

    Youtube: https://youtube.com/@SabakuShinJu?si=tAJWc6g5ChpypQFR

    Only fans: Onlyfans.com/thegrossdemon 


    Want access to my exclusive episodes, bonus episodes & all uncensored content? CLICK HERE TO JOIN MY PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience 


    Want more pleasure in your life?


    Become A Member Of The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis And Enjoy: 


    🌿 Educational articles & blogs

    📝 Journal prompts to guide your reflections

    🎧 Workshops you can listen to or watch at your own pace

    ✨ Step-by-step self-guided practices

    🦋 Resources designed to help you feel more confident, connected, and comfortable in your own skin 

    ✨ Access to my Pleasure Shop where you can shop from my personal favorite toys and products!


    CLICK HERE TO BECOME A MEMBER OF THE OASIS: https://www.loveatiya.com/ 


    Shop From My Full Collection Of Pleasure Products & Toys: https://www.loveatiya.com/shop 


    Let’s connect on social media my loves!

    Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/

    Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?

    YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos 

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    1 hr 46 min
  • 36. Cuckholding & Learning How To Squirt With My Favorite Sex Toys

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    I AM SO EXCITED FOR TO BE BACK WITH A SOLO EPISODEEEEE!


    How I've missed you so. Haven’t these guests been amazing?! I am so grateful but I had to take a moment to give y'all all kinds of updates about what’s been going on in my sex positive world.


    In this episode we talk all about:


    • How I had an orgasm in my sleep because of Jcole
    • My first day of sex school
    • I think i’m over my crush
    • If you feel like you’re not growing fast enough
    • How I make my skin glow the way it glows
    • The best sex toys I have at the moment 
    • How a caterpillar cured my panic attack
    • Making new friends as an adult & how I manifested them
    • Updating your old friends on the new you
    • Communication styles and not feeling shame about yours
    • Cuckholding: what even is it and how can we do it?!
    • How I squirted so much I scared myself


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    MORE ON CUCKHOLDING: https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/cuckolding 


    Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] 

    Pleasure Positive Playlist & Email Sign Up: https://www.loveatiya.com/signup 

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    Sex & Pleasure Blogs: https://www.loveatiya.com/blogs 

    Website: https://www.loveatiya.com/ 

    Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ 

    Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theloveatiyaexperiencepodcast/

    TikTok: @iloveatiya & @loveatiya

    YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos 



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    1 hr 30 min
  • 35. F*cking Your Fears & Setting Sacred Sexual Boundaries with Bailey

    “You are not responsible for the decisions of a rapist” - Bailey

    HEYYY LOVE BUGS! I have been so excited to premiere this episode ever since our interview ended!!!! In this amazing episode with the wonderful Bailey (aka Baay free) we talk all about:

    • Dating while healing from trauma.
    • Setting boundaries when dating.
    • Learning how to self pleasure.
    • Reconnecting with your body after experiencing trauma.
    • Asking for EXACTLY what you want when dating.
    • Doing what we can to NOT get pregnant.
    • Ways to help and comfort your loved ones who have been through sexual trauma.
    • What it means to “fuck your fears”
    • Getting back in touch with spirituality.
    • Sacred Sexuality.
    • Sexual boundaries in the bedroom after experiencing trauma.
    • Learning how to uncondition yourself and NOT blame yourself after assault

    & MORE 

    STAY CONNECTED WITH BAILEY:

    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/baayfree

    Website - www.baayfree.com 

    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/baayfree

    YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_7pLlm6xObCtpui948bEjQ

    Any other links - https://www.loyalfans.com/baayfree 

    Baileys linktree - https://linktr.ee/baayfree

    STAY CONNECTED WITH LOVE ATIYA:

    JOIN THE LOVE CLUB & SIGN UP FOR OUR VIRTUAL SLUMBER PARTY 3/30/24:
    patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience

    Sensual Self Workbook USE CODE: LOVEATIYA FOR 15% OFF: https://www.shopsedure.com/products/sensual-self-prompts-and-practices-for-getting-in-touch-with-your-body-a-guided-journal?_pos=1&_psq=sensual-s&_ss=e&_v=1.0 

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    Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] 


    Pleasure Positive Playlist & Email Sign Up: https://www.loveatiya.com/signup 

    Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ 

    Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theloveatiyaexperiencepodcast/

    TikTok: @iloveatiya & @loveatiya

    YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos
    For Sex Toys :
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    Website: https://www.loveatiya.com/ 




    1 hr 29 min
  • Sober Sex & Healthy Dating Tips With Nadine From The Sober Butterfly Podcast

    Heyyyy beautiful souls!

    Happy LOVE MONTH (although every month is the month of Love in my life)

    We’re back with yet another AMAZING guest and in today's episode we have the illustrious Nadine, host of The Sober Butterly Podcast.

    In this episode we talk about EVERYTHING including:


    • Experiencing sex & pleasure while sober.
    • The journey of sobriety.
    • Sober dating vs dating when intoxicated.
    • Being single by choice vs circumstance.
    • Setting boundaries and speaking up in the bedroom.
    • Figuring out what healthy relationships look and feel like.
    • What it means to be “sober curious”
    • How therapy changed (and enhanced) our lives.
    • Why it’s important to have a therapist who holds you accountable.
    • Navigating triggers.
    • Limerence & why some things should go into your notes app and not your future lovers inbox/messages 


    Get in touch with the beautiful Nadine:

    Instagram - @the.soberbutterfly and @soberbutterflypodcast

    Listen To The Sober Butterly Podcast - Apple Podcast Spotify Buzzsprout

    TikTok - @the.soberbutterfly

    YouTube - YouTube

    Website - https://thesoberbutterfly.com/


    Want access to my exclusive episodes, bonus episodes & all uncensored content? CLICK HERE TO JOIN MY PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience 


    Want more pleasure in your life?


    Become A Member Of The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis And Enjoy: 


    🌿 Educational articles & blogs

    📝 Journal prompts to guide your reflections

    🎧 Workshops you can listen to or watch at your own pace

    ✨ Step-by-step self-guided practices

    🦋 Resources designed to help you feel more confident, connected, and comfortable in your own skin 

    ✨ Access to my Pleasure Shop where you can shop from my personal favorite toys and products!


    CLICK HERE TO BECOME A MEMBER OF THE OASIS: https://www.loveatiya.com/ 


    Shop From My Full Collection Of Pleasure Products & Toys: https://www.loveatiya.com/shop 


    Let’s connect on social media my loves!

    Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/

    Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?

    YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos 

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    1 hr 27 min
  • Dating With An Open Heart & Falling In Love With Nigel Marcellus Part 1

    HEYYYYY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! Welcome to The Love Atiya Experience!


    In todays episode we’re catching up with THE Nigel Marcellus and talk about all things LOVE including:


    • Never being in a relationship & navigating love as an adult
    • Having healing and supportive friendships 
    • Yearning to love in a world where many people are currently protecting their hearts
    • Looking for soulmates
    • Being perceived 
    • Creating safe spaces for community, friends & love
    • Teaching yourself how to love yourself
    • Elevating your self worth
    • Setting expectations & boundaries when dating (what you deserve vs what you don’t)

    & MORE!

    TO KEEP UP WITH NIGEL & FOLLOW HIS JOURNEY:

    Nigels Ted Talk - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Wa8_-w02H0

    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nigelmarcellus/

    Link to his childrens book - https://www.amazon.com/Endless-Possibilities-Nora-Vincent/dp/B0CJXKKLXX/ref=sr_1_4?crid=3U8NEV05MM915&keywords=endless+possibilities&qid=1701591045&sprefix=endless+poss%2Caps%2C245&sr=8-4

    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@nigelmarcellus

    Twitter - https://twitter.com/@nigelmarcellus

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@nigelmarcellus/videos

    Website - nigelmarcellus.com

    Want access to my exclusive episodes, bonus episodes & all uncensored content? CLICK HERE TO JOIN MY PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience 


    Want more pleasure in your life?


    Become A Member Of The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis And Enjoy: 


    🌿 Educational articles & blogs

    📝 Journal prompts to guide your reflections

    🎧 Workshops you can listen to or watch at your own pace

    ✨ Step-by-step self-guided practices

    🦋 Resources designed to help you feel more confident, connected, and comfortable in your own skin 

    ✨ Access to my Pleasure Shop where you can shop from my personal favorite toys and products!


    CLICK HERE TO BECOME A MEMBER OF THE OASIS: https://www.loveatiya.com/ 


    Shop From My Full Collection Of Pleasure Products & Toys: https://www.loveatiya.com/shop 


    Let’s connect on social media my loves!

    Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/

    Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?

    YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos 

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    1 hr 33 min
  • Doing Porn & Healing From Sexual Trauma With The Gross Demon Alex Monroe Part 1

    WELCOMEEEEE LOVE BUGS!

    I am so excited for this magical episode with the absolutely wonderful Gross Demon Alex Monroe! This was such a fun episode to shoot & I am forever grateful for ALL that I learned from them.

    TW: the topic of childhood sexual trauma & rape are discussed in this episode. If this is a triggering topic for you please use your own discretion with no judgment at all when choosing to tune in & many thank you’s to The Gross Demon Alex Monroe for their transparency & vulnerability ❤️

    In part one of this amazing episode with the Gross Demon Alex Monroe we talk all about:

    • Fete life & how it isn’t a Jamaican thing (it’s actually for the kinky community)
    • Being sex repulsed. 
    • Doing porn with a producer you trust 
    • Being a little & what that entails 
    • Using porn as a way to heal trauma 
    • Being a neurodivergent hottie and why we take things people say so literally 
    • Scat play 
    • How sexual trauma can effect your kinks and outlook on sex & pleasure 
    • Shame & masturbation 
    • Big dicks & more 

    Follow The Gross Demon Alex Monroe!

    Personal IG: https://www.instagram.com/unperf?igsh=OGE5c3I1Z2RmdGJx 

    Art IG: https://www.instagram.com/spontaneous.chaotic.creations?igsh=N2xsNW9udGVjbWxj 

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/Thegrossdemon 

    Youtube: https://youtube.com/@SabakuShinJu?si=tAJWc6g5ChpypQFR 

    Only fans: Onlyfans.com/thegrossdemon 


    Want access to my exclusive episodes, bonus episodes & all uncensored content? CLICK HERE TO JOIN MY PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience 


    Want more pleasure in your life?


    Become A Member Of The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis And Enjoy: 


    🌿 Educational articles & blogs

    📝 Journal prompts to guide your reflections

    🎧 Workshops you can listen to or watch at your own pace

    ✨ Step-by-step self-guided practices

    🦋 Resources designed to help you feel more confident, connected, and comfortable in your own skin 

    ✨ Access to my Pleasure Shop where you can shop from my personal favorite toys and products!


    CLICK HERE TO BECOME A MEMBER OF THE OASIS: https://www.loveatiya.com/ 


    Shop From My Full Collection Of Pleasure Products & Toys: https://www.loveatiya.com/shop 


    Let’s connect on social media my loves!

    Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/

    Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?

    YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos 


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    1 hr 33 min
  • 31. Are You Beyonce?! | Navigating Unhealthy Relationships & Adult Friendships

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    HAPPY NEW YEAR MY BABIES!

    Wow I am so happy to end the year with you on this podcast & enter into an even more beautiful season in 2024!

    In this episode we talk about:

    How to navigate adult friendships & evolving communication styles 

    The cringe texts I sent to my ex & old fwb’s

    An update about my dating life

    More on reactive abuse (keke palmer)

    And navigating an abusive relationship & coming forward with your story


    Join me on PATREON and become a member of THE LOVE CLUB!

    On Patreon you can have access to:


    Diary Entries

    Love Notes

    A Safe Space To Ask Advice

    Piping Hot TEA!

    The Opportunity To Meet A Community Of Beautiful People

    & More

    JOIN THE LOVE CLUB: patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience

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    Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] 

    Pleasure Positive Playlist & Email Sign Up: https://www.loveatiya.com/signup 

    Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ 

    Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theloveatiyaexperiencepodcast/

    TikTok: @iloveatiya & @loveatiya

    YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos
    For Sex Toys :
    https://www.shopsedure.com/ USE THE CODE LOVEATIYA for 15% off

    Website: https://www.loveatiya.com/ 

    For Jewelry: https://www.imanijewelry.com/ 

    For Plant Medicine: https://heavenhighnyc.com/ 



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    1 hr 27 min

About IADGAF

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Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the…

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