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WE MADE IT TO EPISODE 20 YALL! Wait until you see what’s planned for the season finale! 

Until then let’s catch up!

Let’s act like you’re my therapist. In this episode we’re gonna do a weekend update and talk about how I survived a 4 day weekend!

-clarify those weren’t my panties in my hand in the cab 

-after hours club 

-basketball game 

-manifesting things in my life 

Let’s talk about my new rules for sex:

• no sex when I’m drunk unless I decided I wanted to have sex before then 
• Take a pause before saying yes (shoutout to not your average sex podcast)
• No shame, no regrets 
• Hell yes (shoutout to relationsh*t with kami podcast)

Shooting my friendship shot 

Homie hopping

MMF 3some’s

Intimacy over sex

Filling my intimacy void with other things 

N*ggas in my DM’s

LINKS TO ARTICLES FEATURED IN EPISODE:

https://anchorlighttherapy.com/fear-of-abandonment-vs-engulfment/

https://www.thecouplescenter.org/dissociation-during-sex-signs-symptoms-treatment/

Sex toy shoutout: the magic wand by https://www.shopsedure.com and use the code LOVEATIYA for 15% off. Thank me later, two settings, automatic bomb deep orgasms. It’s amazing!

Plant medicine suggestions: https://www.heavenhighnyc.com they have everything you need and the highest quality of EVERYTHING (including vegan THC gummies) tell them loveatiya sent you for something special 

Jewelry shoutout: https://www.imanijewelry.com has the best handmade unique high quality jewelry and this is where I got those viral silvery third eye hoops from. Everything is one of a kind so get it while you can! Use the code LOVEATIYA for 10% off

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BOY DID I HAVE A TIME LAST NIGHT!

In today’s episode we talk about:

How I’m mad thick 

Keke Palmer & her “man” 

Dating insecure men (DDG & Halle)

The abduction of Carlee Russell 

Suki and the sexual assault (being sex positive and still having the rights of consent)

Living abroad with atiya 

The best weekend ever while living out the country 

I had to cut the ads because I ran out of time BUT!

Sex toy shoutout: the magic wand by https://www.shopsedure.com and use the code LOVEATIYA for 15% off. Thank me later, two settings, automatic bomb deep orgasms. It’s amazing!

Plant medicine suggestions: https://www.heavenhighnyc.com they have everything you need and the highest quality of EVERYTHING (including vegan THC gummies) tell them loveatiya sent you for something special 

Jewelry shoutout: https://www.imanijewelry.com has the best handmade unique high quality jewelry and this is where I got those viral silvery third eye hoops from. Everything is one of a kind so get it while you can! Use the code LOVEATIYA for 10% off

Sex positive email list: https://www.loveatiya.com/signup sign up for free sex and pleasure tips that are sent out once a month!

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This storytime brought back major flashbacks (some bad but mostly good) I’m taking applications for anyone who wants to press on my feet’s pressure points!

Don’t judge the audio as I was trying out something new with video and audio and it got complicated but the stories so good you won’t even give a f*ck about the audio. Also if anyone knows how to fix this Lmk and I’ll reupload it! 

In this episode we talk about:

Spending pride abroad

How my hoe phase got toxic real fast

The time a guy watched a movie while we had sex

Having sex with two guys in one week 

The time a girl asked me to be her black friend

How I celebrated Father’s Day 

& MORE

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Besties, it’s time to talk about my toxic relationship, how I left my narcissistic partner and how to recognize unhealthy patterns in hetero and queer love.

This weeks episode includes:

A chat about that poly couple on Tiktok

The moment I knew it was time for me to leave my abusive relationship (after years of enduring a lot of sh*t)

How to be a supportive friend & not an abuse enabler

How to spot gaslighting and navigating a narcissistic partner

The ultimatum queer love reunion break down

Abuse in same sex relationships

My insane dating app history

& my newest segment where I share advice and answer questions from my lovebugs

National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800.799.SAFE (7233) 

National Domestic Violence Hotline website: https://www.thehotline.org/

Therapy index: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

To submit a question send an email to: [email protected]

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In This Episode We Touch On Many Many JUICY Topics Such As:

Gentle reminders you need therapy 

NEW SEGMENT: “Atiya dates… sike”

Never feeling lonely again 

Healing from low self esteem 

The time my ex made me dress like a bum 

Dating men can be low vibrational 

Being lowkey touch deprived 

Liking me for me? Or liking me for clout? 

P*ssy talk: let’s break some myths surrounding squirting 

STAY TUNED TO THE END TO HEAR A MAAAAJOOOOR ANNOUNCEMENT !!!!!!!

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Black owned sex shop: https://www.shopsedure.com/

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HAPPY MASTURBATION MAY BABIESSSSS!

In this episode we’re gonna talk about all things MASTERBATION!

We’ll also talk about:

Eating ass

Orgasming in my sleep

The first time I ever experienced “squirting” 

Sex toy suggestions & how to experience different kinds of orgasms with each toy

How a brand stole my content and videos for their own financial gain

How I may or may not be missing intimacy 

Finding balance in setting boundaries and ending suffering in people pleasing 

LET’S TALK! Send your questions and stories to [email protected]

For more information on the 10 different kinds of orgasms: https://youtu.be/vWm5u18xAB4 

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Want a full set of lingerie for only 19.99? Use the code: LOVEATIYA19 & shop https://c.adore.me/loveatiya 

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I LOVE THIS EPISODE SO MUCH! As always we transparently talk about all things taboo and bring light to things such as:

Navigating depression after moving

How pads are most literally killing us & healthier alternatives

Friends who like to steal “my men”

Airport trauma

Shaking orgasms & more

Trigger warning: There is a slight mention of DV as I talk about the steps i’m taking to disconnect from my ex (it’s quick) but I still wanted to give a heads up for those who may be in different points of their healing. Te amo

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For Hair & Skincare: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal 

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For Herbs: https://heavenhighnyc.com/

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CIAO MY LOVES!

In this weeks episode we do a deep deep dive and have A LOT to catch up on. Let's chat about:

Why white people can’t talk to me for 4-5 weeks

My first experience with vibrating panties (USE CODE: LOVEATIYA for 15% off your vibrating panties! LINK: https://www.shopsedure.com/products/companion-vibe?_pos=1&_sid=b21a4c54c&_ss=r )

Emmett Till and my trip to Mississippi 

Updates about moving abroad

Getting tf out of America 

Walking 500 miles to shoot my shot in 99 degree weather

The time me and my best friend were assaulted in the club & no men (or women) tried to help us

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Instagram: @loveatiya

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Website: Loveatiya.com

For Hair & Skincare: https://www.loveatiya.com/ 

For Jewelry: https://www.imanijewelry.com/

For Herbs: https://heavenhighnyc.com/

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Ciao Babes,

I am back from Mexico and have sooooo many updates to share with you all! I have learned A LOT since i’ve been gone so in today’s episode we’re gonna talk all about:

Why your vagina may have bumps (aka glands).

Women’s history facts and how men used to put leeches on women’s vulvas and anus to quell “hysteria”.

The time I fell in love (delusionally.)

How I didn’t know cocaine came from a plant!

The difference between STD’s & STI’s  & the best ways to protect yourself.

If you can contract chlamydia from kissing or not.

The bumble “hotel date” gone wrong & MORE

PODCAST SHOUTOUTS:

The Sober Butterly

Business That’s Black

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Website: Loveatiya.com

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Heyyy beautiful souls!

GUESS WHO’S IN MEXICO FOR THE WEEK! I’m so excited for this episode and it actually might be one of my favorites.

In today’s episode we talk about:

Leaving my job that was no good for my mental health & taking a leap of faith

Genital smells and what they mean

BV, Yeast Infections & More

We have a black history sex fact because it’s black history month for me every month

How our ancestors created birth control 

My second lesbian experience with a poly woman

& MORE

FOR 50% OFF SEX TOYS USE THE CODE LOVEATIYA ON https://www.adameve.com/ 

Article about vulva health: https://greatist.com/health/vaginal-odor#corresponding-discharge-color

Don’t forget to keep up with me on all of my socials besties!

Instagram: @loveatiya

TikTok: @iloveatiya & @loveatiya 

YouTube: iloveatiya

Website: Loveatiya.com

For Hair & Skincare: https://www.loveatiya.com/ 

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For Herbs: https://heavenhighnyc.com/

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