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Thriving Beyond Friendship Trauma, Moving Out The US & Lesbian Crushes

Ya’ll tell me why I thought today was sunday LMAO

Anyways happy MONDAY. We are back with another installation of The Love Atiya Experience and this time we’re talking about…

How I’m Considering ASMR 

Visitor Anxiety & A Rant About New York

Detoxing from the US

Healing from Toxic friendships

Talking shit and getting my diary ready at CAMP!

The Time I Got Cursed Out On The Phone & More

Ya'll I AM SCREAMING HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYY to my love Tori. If you tuned into episode one of my podcast, you know she's the MAIN reason why I even have this podcast. You are the hype-woman of the century, thank you for believing in me before I believed in myself. I am so grateful for you for all that you are. Thank you for cultivating a sisterhood with me that I could've only dreamed about. I love you to the moon & beyond.

The African intimacy book I mentioned is called: The Spirit of Intimacy: Ancient Teachings In The Ways Of Relationships by Sobonfu Somé

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I wanna say "happy love day" but in my world, every day is love day.

Can we talk about the STRESS that we endure during this time of year trying to make sure we are pleased or pleasing others. It's exhausting but it doesn't have to be.

Valentines day can be a beautiful and non-triggering day if we practice the self love techniques suggested in this mini episode.

If you're in the mood to treat yourself to a new sex toy or want to try a toy for the first time I recommend heading to adamandeve.com and using the code: LOVEATIYA for 50% off almost any toy +  free movies, a free gift and free discreet shipping!

I love you to the moon and beyond and am wishing you the happiest valentines day.

Xoxo
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CIAO BEAUTIFUL SOULS!

Welcome To Another Episode Of The Love Atiya Experience!

This week's episode is packed with a LIFE CHANGING ANNOUNCEMENT, how I had THE MOST amazing orgasm while listening to music, a conclusion to a very very long storytime and reflections on my amazing experience in Orlando at a podcast conference!

I also introduce my newest segment “Sex Positive Black History Facts” where I talk about everything melanated and liberated!

Trigger warning! I’m gonna give ya’ll another glimpse into the things I experienced in my super unhealthy relationship butttt you’ll also get to hear about how I created positive experiences in a place that once held extremely negative memories.

I launched my pleasure positive email newsletter and you can sign up https://www.loveatiya.com/signup the first email drops ON VALENTINES DAY and i’m super excited to share everything I’ve been learning with you all.


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Wooooh chile this story is a DOOZY and is so hard to keep up with but if you’ve made it this far then I am sooooo proud of you.

Besties this story showcases how I was lost and confused and lovestarved all in the same breath, I give myself A LOT of grace lol

It’s almost like a "who done it" kinda story with a plot that keeps getting thicker and thicker. Believe it or not this messy story contributed tremendously to my growth looking back on it.

In this episode I also talk about my journey with overthinking, people pleasing, self love, self care and the different ways my self care business Ethereal helped me flourish from the inside out!

I also share my sex toy suggestion of the week the “Com” by Dame which can be purchased from shopsedure.com and you can get 15% off by using the code LOVEATIYA!

If you’re interested in taking a step in the direction of a better relationship with self care I absolutely recommend signing up for my free love letters and self care tips on loveatiya.com

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POSSIBLY TRIGGERING AF:

This is a gentle reminder, at times I reflect on topics that may bring up triggering feelings. Very often I reflect on healing from SA (Sexual assault), Domestic Abuse, Suicidal thoughts and MORE not always but sometimes these topics do come up.

Although the episodes that heavily touch on these subjects have an official trigger warning, there may be a chance I mention one of these topics reflectively in my episodes.

If you happen to listen to the episode and feel triggered here are some tools to help. 

BREATHE DEEPLY, meditate, work out, dance… A LOT, sing, stretch, cry and practice breathwork, schedule a tune up therapy appointment, give yourself a hug, write in a journal.

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I'M BACCCCCCCCK!

Happy 2023 my loves! I just touched down from THE DOMINICAN REPUBLIC and me and my tan are ready to spread some love!

This break was so needed and I couldn't be more excited to serve you all up with brand new stories and crazy life updates.

Today's episode focuses on navigating traveling with friends and lowkey falling in love on vacation.

I speak VERY TRANSPARENTLY about the best oral I ever received while I was vacationing in Mexico and give you all of the deets regarding the drama that ensued afterward.

We also chat about the wonders of the VIBE PAD 2 from shopsedure.com & how 2022 had me effed up.

Thank goodness for the pauses in life.

I'm so excited to be back family!

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WELCOME TO EPISODE 5! Ohhhhhh my goodness were five episodes in and have billions of episodes to go!

In this episode we’re gonna discuss A LOT… including:

- Seasonal affective depression

- How I turned myself on the other day randomly 

- My first pole dancing experience with @lacypoles and I discuss “tapping into my inner sexy”

- Painful sex experiences and why we don’t speak up when it’s painful (and how to change that) 

- Setting boundaries and why you need to.

And how I fell in love with a married man in one night and how my cat tried to steal him from me. 

Stay tuned to the very end to hear a special portion of the show that’s dedication to setting boundaries and be sure to check out @lacypoles creative workshops!

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HELLO BEAUTIFUL SOULS!

Welcome to yet another episode of The Love Atiya Experience!

In this episode we do a deep dive into my very first lesbian “relationship”, exploring the world of polyamory, growing through/surviving drama with my step-family and how my ex thought I was too disgusting to cuddle with.

We also touch a little bit on painful sex but I plan on TRULY diving into that topic for my next episode.

I’ve received so many inquiries on where I get my toys from and if I can give toy suggestions on here so I hope you loveeee the suggestions provided.

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YES. You read that right. I promise the title will make sense by the end of the episode LOL

I was also so inspired by my most recent viral Tiktok videos about Disassociating during sex I figured why not have a super transparent conversation on the pod and chat about the ways I believe trauma has contributed to me not being able to be in the moment during sex.

In this episode I also touch on the time when I was 12 years old and got my heart RIPPED OUT and was completely embarrassed in front of all of my peers after confessing my love for a crush….so yeah, there’s a lot to unpack.

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Welcome to Episode TWO my loves!

In this episode we enjoy a quick catch up in which I tell you all about how my life is falling apart!

If you struggle with shame, anxiety, depression and guilt this episode is for YOU.

We also chat about me experiencing my first orgasm with a partner while “riding the D” for the first time.. So many firsts!

Plus more details on my FWB (Friend with benefits), my yearning for sex, how my OBGYN tried to jack me up, how my ex lied about his STD results, why I had to re-record an episode and how I realized I was legit mentally ill…..and that it’s okay 

We also talk about the woman king and how ABSOLUTELY AMAZING it is and how every woman on earth should see it.

So much to unpack, I hope you enjoy!

Don’t forget to leave a comment and review and please give yourself a hug for me.

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YA’LL WELCOME TO EPISODE ONE OF THE LOVE ATIYA EXPERIENCE. 

In episode one I give you an inside look on the history of my love life and give an in depth look into my celibacy journey.

Oh! And stay tuned for two back to back stories on four play gone WRONG, rigorous jerking off, guys possibly asking me to eat their behind and more!

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