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Episode 108: Many Wigs, One Legacy: Owning Your Voice, Wealth, and Power with Jay Kay

What if you stopped trying to choose… and started owning all of who you are?

In this episode, we sit down with Jay Kay, host of the Many Wigs Podcast, to talk about what it really means to step out of survival mode and into full ownership of your life, your voice, and your legacy.

From real estate and credit to media and entrepreneurship, Jay Kay shares how wearing “many wigs” isn’t a weakness, it’s your power.

We dive into: • Breaking free from the belief that you have to choose between family and success • The truth about generational wealth and why financial literacy matters • The patterns that keep people stuck financially and how to shift them • Why waiting for the “perfect time” is costing you everything • The mindset required to build multiple streams and sustain growth • Turning pain into purpose and becoming the example for the next generation

Jay Kay opens up about building from necessity, evolving into purpose, and creating platforms instead of just participating in them.

This conversation is for the woman who feels stretched, overwhelmed, or unsure… but knows she’s meant for more.

Because you’re not behind. You’re being prepared.

Connect with Jay Kay:

Website: whoisjk.com

Podcast: manywigspodcast.vip

IG: WhoIsJayKay

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Episode 107: From Survival Mode to Soul-Led Success: Building a Business That Heals You with Becca Duncan

What if the way you’re building your business is the very thing keeping you stuck?

In this powerful episode, we sit down with Becca Duncan to break down the truth about “bottom-up” business building, where identity, nervous system, and alignment come before strategy.

We dive into: • The difference between survival energy vs. aligned growth • Why hustle is blocking your creativity and results • How grief, trauma, and life challenges can become your greatest business advantage • The science behind burnout, the brain, and decision-making • Rebuilding self-trust and stepping out of numbing patterns • Creating a legacy-level brand that isn’t dependent on trends or algorithms

Becca shares her raw journey through loss, reinvention, and healing, and how she turned pain into purpose while building a business that actually lights her up.

This conversation is a reminder that you don’t need to be fully healed to grow… and that the most powerful businesses are built from within.

If you’ve been feeling stuck, burnt out, or disconnected from your business, this episode will shift everything.

Follow Becca on IG: @beccaduncanofficial

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Episode 106: Stop Overpaying the IRS: The Tax Strategy Every Entrepreneur Needs with Kymbirley Brake

Kymbirley Brake is a tax strategist, founder of OC Tax Brake, and a powerhouse entrepreneur on a mission to make taxes simple, strategic, and actually understandable. With a background in tax law and a journey that started in a hospital room as a single mom caring for her medically fragile daughter, Kymbirley built her business from the ground up while helping families access resources and financial relief when they needed it most.

In this episode, Kymbirley breaks down why so many entrepreneurs avoid their taxes and how that avoidance is actually costing them thousands. She shares the difference between a tax preparer and a tax strategist, why waiting until tax season is one of the biggest mistakes business owners make, and how proactive planning can completely change your financial reality.

She also dives into common misconceptions around entity structure, explaining why you don’t need to rush into an LLC or S-Corp and how to build the right foundation at the right time. Kymbirley gets real about what the IRS actually cares about, why audits aren’t as scary as people think, and how to stay compliant while still maximizing your deductions.

This conversation also goes beyond business, as Kymbirley shares her personal story of resilience, navigating life as a single mom, and finding her voice in a male-dominated industry. She reminds entrepreneurs that you don’t have to carry everything alone and that the right support can free you up to focus on what truly matters—growing your business and creating the life you want.

Connect with Kym:

http://www.octaxbrake.com/ 

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Episode 105: Rewire Your Mind, Rewrite Your Life with Dr. Lorri Wilson

Dr. Lorri Wilson is a therapist, mental health expert, and neurological strategist who works with individuals facing severe mental illness, trauma, and deep-rooted emotional challenges. With over 16 years of experience studying the mind, she combines traditional therapy with subconscious reprogramming techniques like NLP, EMDR, and hypnotherapy to help clients create real, lasting change.

In this episode, Dr. Lorri breaks down the difference between working on the conscious mind versus the subconscious, and why true transformation doesn’t happen until both are aligned. She shares how limiting beliefs are formed, why people stay stuck despite wanting change, and how powerful techniques like reframing can shift the way we think, feel, and show up in our lives.

She also opens up about her personal journey into entrepreneurship, including the moment she was fired and how that became the catalyst for stepping fully into her purpose. Through faith, mindset work, and self-belief, she transformed what felt like a setback into a breakthrough.

This episode is a powerful reminder that you don’t have to stay stuck in your past, your patterns, or your thoughts. With the right tools and belief, you can rewire your mind, step into your potential, and create a completely new reality for yourself.

Connect with Dr. Lorri:

[email protected]

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Episode 104: The Truth About Intimacy No One Talks About, what Roommate Syndrome is and How to Fix It with Wanda Santos-Haynes

Wanda Santos-Haynes is a relationship strategist, trauma-informed coach, and PhD candidate in clinical sexology who helps individuals and couples move from disconnection to deep, meaningful love. Known as the last stop before divorce court, she works with high-achieving people who feel like their relationships have turned into “roommate syndrome” and guides them back to safety, intimacy, and real connection.

In this episode, Wanda breaks down why so many couples lose the spark, explaining how relationships shift from emotional connection to daily logistics and responsibility. She dives into the neuroscience behind intimacy, sharing how things like stress, lack of attunement, and over-functioning can lower desire and create distance.

She also unpacks why high-achieving women often feel lonely despite having it all, how childhood trauma and attachment patterns show up in adult relationships, and the ways independence can unintentionally block connection. Wanda introduces the concept of regulation and co-regulation as the foundation for healthy relationships and shares practical ways couples can begin rebuilding trust, safety, and attraction.

This conversation is real, eye-opening, and incredibly relevant for anyone who wants to strengthen their relationship or understand what’s really happening beneath the surface.

Connect with Wanda:

https://wandasantoshaynes.com/ 

https://www.facebook.com/wanda.santos.3597 

https://www.instagram.com/wandasantos_haynes/ 

https://www.tiktok.com/@wandasantos_haynes 

In Episode 103 of the Iconic AF Podcast, Anisa Crespo sits down with multi-passionate entrepreneur Christy Lamb for a real and refreshing conversation about creativity, resilience, and building a business that actually aligns with your life.

From cake decorating at age 8 to running a pony party business, teaching classes, operating an animal sanctuary, and now preparing for her next big pivot… Christy’s journey is a powerful reminder that success doesn’t have to look one way.

This episode dives into what it really means to follow your passion, adapt through life’s seasons, and trust yourself enough to evolve when it’s time.

Inside this episode, we talk about:
• How Christy turned creative passions into multiple income streams
• The unexpected pivots that shaped her entrepreneurial journey
• Navigating slow seasons, uncertainty, and mindset shifts
• Knowing when it’s time to evolve or let something go
• Balancing multiple passions without burning out
• Building a business around joy, fulfillment, and real life
• Why fear never goes away and how to choose faith anyway

This is for the woman who feels pulled in multiple directions, has a million ideas, and just needs permission to start.

Because you don’t have to have it all figured out… you just have to take the next step.

Connect with Christy:

@beyondtheroadlady

@charmingponyranch

@charmingdivapaints

Ask about our upcoming Mommy and Me Pony Tea coming up May 10th!

In Episode 102 of the Iconic AF Podcast, Natosha sits down with high-performance coach Jeanne-Marie Eayrs for a deeply transformative conversation about purpose, identity, and what it really means to move into your next chapter.

Fresh off filming an episode of Women of Influence, this conversation dives into the difference between finding your purpose and awakening it. Because your purpose isn’t something you chase… it’s something that reveals itself when you’re ready to release what no longer serves you.

Together, they explore the real-life moments, stories, and patterns that shape who we become—and how unresolved experiences can quietly hold us back for decades without us even realizing it.

Inside this episode, we unpack:
• The difference between “finding” vs. “awakening” your purpose
• How past experiences (even childhood moments) shape your identity
• Letting go of guilt, old stories, and emotional patterns
• Why some seasons of life simply expire—and how to move forward
• The truth about high achievers who feel like “something is missing”
• Navigating motherhood, identity, and what comes after raising children
• Giving yourself permission to live fully in your next chapter

This episode is a powerful reminder that nothing in your journey was wasted—and that your next level is waiting for you to claim it.

If you’ve been asking yourself “what’s next for me?”… this conversation is your invitation to answer it.

Connect with Jeanne-Marie:

https://www.facebook.com/jeannemarie.eayrs

Grab her book: Awaken Your Purpose: Beyond the Transaction Kindle Edition
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Welcome back to the Iconic AF Podcast, Episode 101, where we step into a powerful conversation on identity, intuition, and the responsibility of your gifts.

In this episode, Natosha sits down with Lisa Toland, founder of The One Woman and visionary behind The One Empire. Together, they dive deep into what it truly means to become “the one” in your life and business.

This conversation is a raw and expansive exploration of trusting your inner guidance, navigating fear and imposter syndrome, and choosing courage even when the path isn’t fully clear. Lisa shares her journey from hesitation and insecurity to building a purpose-driven brand rooted in service, faith, and personal responsibility.

Inside this episode, we explore:
• Why your gifts are your responsibility, not just an idea
• How to trust your intuition even when others don’t understand your vision
• The truth about fear and why it often signals alignment, not danger
• Expanding your capacity and regulating your nervous system as you grow
• The importance of community, collaboration, and aligned relationships
• Letting go of mediocrity and stepping into your highest self

This episode is a reminder that you are already “the one.” The question is… are you willing to act like it?

If you’ve been feeling the pull to step into something bigger, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are and call you forward.

Connect with Lisa:
https://www.facebook.com/LisaAToland

https://www.instagram.com/_lisatoland_/

https://www.youtube.com/@lisathe1podcast

https://www.youtube.com/@the1woman

🎙️ Episode 100: We made it to 100 and this episode is a full-circle moment with Anisa and Natosha  🥂🍾🎉

In this milestone episode of Magnetize and Monetize Your Market, Natosha and I reflect on our 2025 journey and share what we’re stepping into for 2026 ✨ We talk openly about the bold pivot that changed everything shifting from short-term revenue to long-term visibility, even when it meant watching our income drop before it expanded.

We share how choosing purpose over pressure led to consistent six-figure months, deeper client trust, and a clearer mission rooted in impact and legacy 🥂🍾🤍

This episode also marks the official announcement of The Million Dollar Network 📺✨ a TV and movie network created to amplify women’s stories, voices, and influence through powerful storytelling across platforms like Amazon Fire, Apple TV, and Roku 🍾

We close by sharing what’s next, including our upcoming mastermind with 18 coaches and speakers, and an invitation for women who are ready to build visibility, influence, and legacy alongside us 🥂👑🍾

This episode is for the woman who knows she’s here for more than just revenue. She’s here to be seen, heard, and remembered ✨🥂🍾

👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, share this episode with your friends, and let us know your thoughts!! 💬

Want info on how you can attend or get featured on our Movie The Million Dollar Room at our luxurious mastermind retreat? Details here: https://www.milliondollarmom.org/themilliondollarroom 

🔗Connect with Anisa and Natosha:

Natosha’s FB: https://www.facebook.com/100093980081725/ 

Anisa’s FB:: https://www.facebook.com/anisacrespo

FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/milliondollarmomsociety

MDMS Website: https://www.milliondollarmom.org/

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🎙️ Episode 99: The Energy I’m Carrying Forward into 2026 with Anisa Crespo ✨

This is not a recap ✋This is not a forecast 🔮And this is not a lesson 📖

In this short solo episode, I’m naming the energy I’m closing the year in and the statements I’m carrying forward into the next chapter. Not as advice. Not as rules. Just as truth 🤍

If you’re ending the year feeling grounded, uncertain, proud, tired, hopeful, or somewhere in between, this episode is an invitation to pause 🧘‍♀️ To stop rushing clarity. To let this chapter close without needing to extract meaning from every moment.

Episode 100 holds the vision 🌟This episode holds the energy that makes it possible.

👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, share this episode with your friends, and let us know your thoughts!! 💬

Want info on how you can attend or get featured on our Movie The Million Dollar Room at our luxurious mastermind retreat? Details here: https://www.milliondollarmom.org/themilliondollarroom 

🔗Connect with Anisa and Natosha:

Natosha’s FB: https://www.facebook.com/100093980081725/ 

Anisa’s FB:: https://www.facebook.com/anisacrespo

FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/milliondollarmomsociety

MDMS Website: https://www.milliondollarmom.org/

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