If you are listening to this podcast, I’ll bet you have had this thought that if you don’t find him, your ideal person, your life will be miserable. This is a belief that I carried for a very long time, and is something I hear often from my clients. Even if they don’t say it outright, I know that some of my clients believe that can’t be truly happy until their person shows up. My loves, I want you to know that your person is an added bonus, but they can’t fill the void. Only you are responsible for healing your heart and loving the fuck out of you. Take a look at your thoughts that are keeping you from finding him, clean up those thoughts, and deliberately love the fuck out of you. Not only is it possible to love your singledom, but it’s critical to love being single while still calling love in.