IF I MAY BE SO BOLD
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IF I MAY BE SO BOLD episodes

  • Security AND Erotic Vitality
    As relationships become more familiar over time, can we continue to cultivate passion, vitality, and sexual desire? With Justin's move-in date just around the corner, we give you first installment of our dive into Esther Perel's incredible book Mating In Captivity. For those of you reading along, we are covering the introduction and first chapter here. Justin and Dan take excerpts from the book and use them to examine their own dynamic and look back on times when things have not flowed as easily between them.

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    47 min
  • The Religious Expectation That You Have Your Sh*t Together
    In this special episode, Justin sits down with her mom, artist and teacher Rebecca Waring, to talk about the evolution of their relationship. They discuss their religious upbringings, what has kept them from being close in the past, going to therapy together, and how to deal with intergenerational wounds.

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    49 min
  • Tales From Reddit
    On todays episode, we weigh in on some entries from the Relationship Advice subreddit having to do with friendship tensions around dating.  Then you'll hear as we ask our friend Mike Hammond (actor, theatre director and teacher) to tell the story of his first kiss. 

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    36 min
  • Our Ancestors Want Us To Be Happy
    In this episode we speak with author and family constellation therapy facilitator Meenadchi.  We have all kinds of questions about this type of therapy and the kinds of healing it can bring. We also explore the concept of intergenerational trauma and why it's important to stop and consider if you need to express yourself authentically, or if you need to be heard.  

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    42 min
  • I Do Things FOR My Body, Not TO My Body (With Aaron Flores)
    We sit down with Dietician Nutritionist and Certified Body Trust® provider Aaron Flores to talk about fat-phobia, fat-stigma, and Health At Every Size (HAES). We discuss why it's important for men to disentangle diet culture in their own lives and what we all lose when we buy into it.

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    44 min
  • Terrified to Merge

    Hey we're back! In our season premiere, we interview each other re: the hopes and fears that are coming up as as we anticipate moving in together. We also dig into the viral "Tony Pizza" post from the "Relationships" Subreddit and all of its implications.



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    34 min
  • Season 2 is Coming! What Was Your First Kiss?

    Holy crud we are back to tease the upcoming season! What are Justin and Dan most excited about this time around? Will they survive moving in together? Also listen as they each tell the story of the first time they kissed someone.


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    24 min
  • The Ex Files (Season Finale!)

    Lately we have been pondering the ways in which the story of a relationship can evolve over time. In Episode 10, Dan and Justin each tell the story of one of their significant past relationships: how it began, how it evolved, and how the story continued to change after the relationship ended.



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    53 min
  • I Would Say That it’s Not Super Chill to be a Virgo, with Ally Gluckman

    We are joined by the very wise Ally Gluckman (skin therapist, learned astrology student, and Dan's cousin) as we dance with the zodiac. Ally explains why she doesn't like to use astrology in a predictive or "deterministic" way; then we look at the zodiac signs that people tend to hate on the most. Also Dan and Ally talk about their grandfathers who were brothers, and how their relationships with the older generations of their family have informed how they want to show up in the present and for the generations to come.


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    49 min
  • I'm Not OK

    In this episode, we talk about the impulse to cover up or not cover up your own suffering. Justin describes some mental health difficulties she's been dealing with and her fears around letting it affect her relationship with Dan.  Then we discuss some specific concerns and desires that are arising as we consider the possibility of moving in together. 


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    33 min

About IF I MAY BE SO BOLD

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If you didn’t grow up in an emotionally honest home, learning how to live and love as an adult can feel confusing, lonely, and at times impossible.

This podcast is a weekly ritual where we,…