IF I MAY BE SO BOLD

IF I MAY BE SO BOLD

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IF I MAY BE SO BOLD episodes

  • I Know We Just Met But... Want to Move to Sudan? with Rebecca Waring Crane and Ken Crane

    In episode 7 we speak with Justin's parents! We explore the idea of being friends, or even best friends with your romantic partner. Ken and Rebecca recount the tumult of getting married after only knowing each other for 6 months and immediately moving to Sudan together. We also discuss the importance of noticing and releasing the impulse to police or manage your partner's behavior.



    KEN'S BOOK:

    https://www.amazon.com/Iraqi-Refugees-United-States-Enduring/dp/1479886904


    REBECCA'S WEBSITE:

    http://rebeccawaringcrane.com/


    EMAIL US!

    [email protected]


    INSTA:

    @iimbsb

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    54 min
  • Can I Boop Your Nose 3 Times? with Mia Schachter

    In this episode we are lucky enough to speak with The Consent Wizard themself: Mia Schachter. We discuss the important distinction between wanting to do something vs. being willing to do it, and learning to identify when you're making an offer vs. making a request. We also revisit the 2018 Aziz Ansari controversy, and explore the reasons why cisgendered men are resistant to signing up for Mia's consent courses.


    Resources Mentioned in the Episode:


    Mia's Insta: @consentwizard

    Oumou: @connectwithoumou

    CJ Miller: @cjkittenmiller

    Mistress Vivienne: @mistress.vivienne


    Meenadchi: https://traumainformednvc.thinkific.com


    Here’s the class Mia and Meenadchi taught together for Mental Health Professionals about pronouns: https://traumainformednvc.thinkific.com/courses/pronoun-practice-for-mental-health-professionals-and-practitioners





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    1 hr 5 min
  • Monogamy is Not a Fix for Jealousy, with Emily Paul

    On this episode Mutual Aid Organizer and Technologist Emily Paul joins us as we discuss common misconceptions about Non-monogamy. We also explore how addressing smaller, "less important" tensions in relationships equips you to handle greater challenges when they come up, and the possibility of becoming a parent without a primary romantic partner.


    Emily’s currently organizing with her neighbors to buy an apartment building in dc and turn it into an affordable housing cooperative for Black and brown working class DC residents 


    Link: https://givebutter.com/baldwinhouse/emilypaul

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    34 min
  • The Comfortable Lie of "I'm Not Like That"
    A relationship doesn't exist in a vacuum, but when you're in it, it can be hard to see the larger cultural context. After some uncomfortable and illuminating dialogue with listeners and friends, Dan and Justin look back on the conflict in episode 3 with new eyes and break down what they were unable to see in the moment.

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    29 min
  • Permission To Not Be Warm and Fuzzy
    This episode drops you into a tense moment between Justin and Dan. One thing led to another and they both ended up TRIGGERED. Listen as they process their respective inner monologues, feelings, and beliefs about the relationship in real time.

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    40 min
  • Life Makes You A Leader, with Ramesh Srivastava
    Our friend and brilliant musician Ramesh Srivastava joins us as we dive into his journey launching the band VOXTROT in his early 20s. We explore the roles he's played in relationships, what it means to be a healthy leader, and the importance of flowing with and not against the stream of your own life.

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    43 min
  • You're Stuck There Forever Until You Acknowledge The Feeling
    In their first episode, Dan and Justin interview each other about how each of them developed ideas of healthy vs unhealthy relationships early on in life.  They explore Justin's confusion as a teen about sex and romance as well as messaging from their parents'  and onscreen/celebrity couples.

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    35 min
  • Trailer

    How do we learn to be good friends or partners?  Many of us don't!  What are we really talking about when we refer to good and bad relationships?

    Dan and Justin are in a romantic relationship.  They've both worked hard to get to a place where they feel ready to take on the work of making it a healthy one; but it's still tough!  Come be a fly on the wall as they navigate the ups and downs, and hear from friends and experts about their own relationship wisdom and blunders.

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    2 min

About IF I MAY BE SO BOLD

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If you didn’t grow up in an emotionally honest home, learning how to live and love as an adult can feel confusing, lonely, and at times impossible.

This podcast is a weekly ritual where we,…