If Only

If your inner voice defaults to doubt, Carol Rieg brings a radically practical alternative: treat optimism like a decision, not a personality trait. We sit down with Carol, a philanthropic strategist and longtime nonprofit leader whose career spans Capitol Hill advocacy, the Future City STEM competition, corporate social responsibility, and NASA. Her “if only” isn’t a regret. It’s a challenge to choose the good day and keep moving, even when the path looks messy or the next step feels unfamiliar. 

We follow the throughline of her work: set goals, believe in yourself, help others, and take credit. Carol shares how Title IX-era expectations and a family focus on education shaped her independence, how she built tough communication skills while lobbying before modern tech made outreach easy, and how she grew Future City from a kitchen-table effort into a far-reaching experiential learning program. Along the way, she breaks down what real leadership looks like in engineering spaces and mission-driven organizations: empower people to solve problems without waiting for permission. 

Then we shift into the world of strategic philanthropy and legacy giving. Carol explains how she helps individuals align charitable donations with values, especially as retirement tax planning, required minimum distributions, and donor-advised funds complicate decisions. She also previews the Resilience AI Challenge, a K–12 competition designed to teach emergency management, critical thinking, and responsible AI problem solving at the local community level. 

If you want an episode that blends mindset, STEM education, nonprofit leadership, and values-aligned giving into one clear playbook, press play. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs a lift, and leave a review telling us which principle you’re putting into practice next.

Connect with Carol on LinkedIn here https://www.linkedin.com/in/carolrieg.

Email Carol at [email protected]. 

Visit GiveMoreConnect at https://givemoreconnect.com/

Find out more about Carol's new educational project-https://www.resilienceaichallenge.org/

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Silence can look like humility from the outside and feel like invisibility on the inside. When a role Rachel Platt was ready for went to someone else, she discovered the hard truth: great work doesn’t speak for itself unless you give it a voice. We unpack how that moment reshaped her approach to career growth, leadership, and the people strategies she now builds with clients across industries.

We walk through the real difference between being championed and being sponsored, and why many managers quietly hold back top performers they don’t want to lose. Rachel shares simple, repeatable ways to advocate without boasting—curious questions that open doors, clear boundaries that keep conversations professional, and outcome-focused language that resonates with decision-makers. Expect concrete scripts you can use this week, from asking for stretch assignments to debriefing a missed opportunity with grace and intent.

From her consulting practice, Rachel shows how moving beyond compliance to true people strategy powers retention, speeds development, and strengthens the bottom line. We explore performance systems that include aspirations, communication that reveals the “why” behind decisions, and leadership habits that turn talent into a strategic advantage. Guided by the mantra clear is kind, we highlight how clarity at work and at home prevents assumptions, reduces friction, and builds trust.

Reach out to Rachel and see what you can create together!

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If you’ve ever waited to be noticed, this conversation hands you the tools to be heard—without losing your values or your voice. Subscribe, share with a colleague who needs a nudge, and leave a review with the one ask you’ll make this week.

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What if years of detours could have been avoided by trusting your inner voice sooner? Sitting across from Nicole Renee—founder of Tidy Bee, certified Scrum Master, and pillar of encouragement—we unpack how faith, focus, and people-first systems help you rebuild after career shocks, lead your family with intention, and make real progress on the projects that keep stalling.

Nicole shares how she moved from seeking approval to listening within, describing the quiet practices that protect clarity in a noisy world: prayer, reflection, and choosing her inputs with care. We talk candidly about social media becoming a default “source of truth” for teens and why the fix is relational, not just technical. From letting kids order their own meals to asking them how they want to spend time, small moments become training grounds for voice and confidence.

We also walk through the emotional landscape of being laid off three times in five years—the grief we rarely name, the silence from leaders who may be bound by policy, and the hard question of identity without a job title. Nicole’s insights are both compassionate and practical, offering a path to heal while designing the next chapter with purpose. Then we shift gears into agile living: using Scrum to break big goals into two-week sprints, remove blockers, and put people over process. Whether you’re organizing a home or shipping a product, right-sizing the work turns momentum into a habit.

For founders and side-hustlers, Nicole delivers a grounded blueprint: “Just start” to beat fear, then build a living business plan, refine your language as you pivot, and create a personal board of directors for finance, marketing, and accountability. Entrepreneurship isn’t solo heroism—it’s coordinated support that aligns with your values.

If you’re craving clarity, ready to organize what matters, and willing to lead with heart, this conversation is your cue to turn down the world and turn up your own wisdom. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway—we’d love to hear what you’re sprinting toward next.

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Ever been told you’re not ready or not the “right fit”? Meet Yvette Campbell, a meeting broker and hospitality leader who turned early doubt into a career built on creativity, precision, and care. We trace her path from a restaurant host stand to banquets, weddings, sales leadership, and global venue sourcing—showing how initiative and anticipation can replace pedigree and open doors across hotels and events.

We dig into the skills that actually move careers forward in hospitality: reading a room, designing site tours that respect a planner’s time, and using thoughtful follow-ups to build loyalty long after checkout. Yvette unpacks what makes a winning site visit—greeting at the door, tailoring the walk-through to the group’s true needs, and presenting crisp proposals that make decision makers look like heroes. She also shares how constraints can fuel creativity, from reimagining complex cultural weddings in unconventional spaces to negotiating contracts that protect budgets without sacrificing experience.

Resilience threads through her story. Yvette talks candidly about rejection, collecting no’s, and the difference direct feedback can make when paired with care. We explore women helping women, the post-pandemic training gap, and why small personal touches—like a guest’s favorite coffee or a handwritten card—create brand memories no ad can match. She also opens up about the joy of adopting her son and how faith and family keep her grounded while she sources venues around the world.

If you lead teams, plan meetings, or want to grow in hospitality without a traditional degree, you’ll find practical playbooks and mindset shifts you can apply today. Subscribe, share this with a colleague who needs a boost, and leave a review with your favorite takeaway so we can bring more conversations like this to your feed.

Yvette can be reached via LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/campbell4/ or email her at [email protected]

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A chance firing. A racetrack gate. A hospital monitor that won’t slow down. Our conversation with Linda Pankala traces a remarkable arc from electronics lab to jockey silks to a healing practice and a powerful mission: help women prevent the number one killer they’re too often not told about—cardiovascular disease.

We talk about the moment that changed everything: a trainer leaning down at Belmont and inviting Linda to try the path she hadn’t dared to name. From there, she learned pace, courage, and what it means to fall hard and get back up. Those lessons carried her into motherhood and a second career as a massage therapist, where hands and heart meet the nervous system one breath at a time. When AFib upended her rhythm, research led to advocacy and a book that turns complex heart health into a friendly guide, laced with “horsey hints,” humor, and practical tools.

Together we unpack why women’s heart disease is underrecognized, how pandemic stress rewired daily life, and which small choices create outsized change: box breathing, hydration, movement, and community that actually lifts you. We zoom out on the noise, then zoom in on the micro decisions that steady your chemistry and protect your energy. If you’re feeling stretched thin, we offer boundaries that preserve calm, gratitude practices that shift physiology, and one mindset to start today: look in the mirror and say, “Yes, I am worth it to begin.”

Listen for a blend of story and science, prevention and possibility, and leave with a simple plan you can start before the day ends. If this spoke to your heart, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs hope, and leave a review to help more women find the tools that save lives.

Would you like to find out more about Linda? Visit her on her website here:https://www.lindapenkala.com/ or on LinkedIn here:https://www.linkedin.com/in/linda-penkala-ba70887/ or send her an email to [email protected] .

Ready to purchase a copy of her book? You can find it here:https://www.amazon.com/dp/1917907540?ref_=pe_93986420_774957520

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What if the belief that “aging is decline” is the very thing keeping you from the freedom you crave? We sit down with Kat Miller MA—counselor, TEDx speaker, and founder of Age Freely—to explore how dismantling internalized ageism can unlock joy, presence, and self-compassion at any age. Her spark came from her If Only of believing she did not matter “enough.” That admission opened a path through therapy, core wounds, and a radical shift in identity that many of us feel but don’t name.

Together, we challenge culture’s script on beauty, productivity, and relevance. Kat offers a fresh lens: declines give rise to expansions. When energy changes, presence deepens. When time feels finite, priorities sharpen. When “youthful beauty” fades, a richer, truer beauty—inside and out—comes into view. We dig into practical tools for making wisdom tangible, including Kat’s conversational card game, Older, A Renewable Life, which helps you reflect on how your view of love, forgiveness, and success has evolved over time.

If introspection feels daunting, Kat’s approach is gentle and actionable: start by asking why it feels daunting. Lower the stakes. Learn for joy, not mastery. Try the thing you’ve postponed for decades without turning it into a performance. We also walk toward impermanence and death with clear eyes, exploring belief systems, family conversations, and how preparation can reduce fear and create the conditions for a good death—so life now can be lived with more ease and intention.

This is a warm, honest conversation about aging as liberation rather than loss, about authenticity as a daily practice, and about turning hindsight into compassion instead of self-critique. If you’ve ever felt “too late,” “not enough,” or stuck inside someone else’s story of who you should be, this one’s for you. Listen, reflect, and share with someone who needs a kinder map for growing older. If this resonated, subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: what belief about aging are you ready to retire?

Interested in connecting with Kat? Visit her website here- https://www.agefreely.com/

Are you interested in purchasing the conversational card game Kat mentioned?  Find out more and order here- https://www.agefreely.com/the-older-game 

Treat yourself and view Kat’s TedX talk here- https://video.search.yahoo.com/search/video?fr=mcafee&p=kat+miller+ageing+freely&type=E210US978G0#id=1&vid=84dbcebab17436dfbc2149d1fb7a277c&action=click

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When life throws unexpected curveballs, it’s easy to spiral into regret and self-blame. But what if those painful moments were actually sacred invitations—to pause, heal, and transform?

In this deeply moving episode, Brenda L. Balding, a nurse and spiritual guide, shares how losing $60,000—including her late father’s estate—to a sophisticated scam became the beginning of her greatest spiritual awakening. Instead of staying trapped in anger and loss, Brenda found clarity, forgiveness, and purpose through what she calls The Sacred Pause.

She opens up about:

• A firsthand account of a week-long scam that preyed on compassion and intuition.
• How silencing her inner voice led to deeper self-awareness and spiritual growth.
• Two transformative healing frameworks she created:
• GRIEF: Grateful Rebirthing Internal Energy Flow — a process for transmuting pain into gratitude.
• PAUSE: Perhaps Another Unforeseen Solution Exists — a tool for stopping reactivity and opening to divine guidance.

💡 In this episode, you’ll learn how to:

• Recognize and respond to the subtle signs of fraud by trusting your instincts.
• Transform regret into growth through mindfulness and emotional healing.
• Embrace forgiveness as a pathway to peace and spiritual freedom.

Brenda’s story is a profound reminder that even in our darkest hours, light can still find us—and lead us home to ourselves.

🔗 Resources Mentioned:

• 🌐 Connect with Brenda: linktr.ee/winblb2
• 🎁 Brenda’s Gift: tinyurl.com/lovesinnervaice
• 🧠 Learn About Havening: Medical News Today
• 💞 Learn About EFT: WebMD

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Ever wondered why some of the most talented, hardworking professionals still hit a wall in their careers—despite doing everything right? In this inspiring episode, Dr. Vicki Johnson reveals how her biggest career breakthrough didn’t come from another award or all-nighter—but from something far more powerful: learning to ask for help.

As the founder and CEO of ProFellow, the leading resource for competitive fellowships and leadership programs, Dr. Johnson has guided thousands of professionals to over $500 million in funding and top-tier opportunities. Drawing on her own experience as a four-time fellowship winner and expert storyteller, she shares how storytelling, mindset, and authenticity can open doors that credentials alone never could.

From winning fellowships to landing dream jobs, Dr. Johnson’s message is clear: the key to standing out isn’t about perfection—it’s about connection. Tune in to learn how embracing vulnerability, refining your personal narrative, and asking for support can propel your career forward faster than you ever imagined.

🔑 In this episode, you’ll learn how to:

• Stand out in competitive fellowship applications that can accelerate your career growth.
• Use storytelling to make your experience unforgettable to selection committees and hiring managers.
• Adopt an entrepreneurial mindset to turn obstacles into opportunities.
• Break through invisible barriers that hold you back from your full potential.
• Leverage the power of asking for help to fast-track your success.

💡 Master Strategies to Win Fellowships

Winning elite fellowships requires more than impressive credentials—it’s about positioning your unique story to align with each program’s mission. Dr. Johnson explains how clarity, persistence, and resilience can transform your approach and outcomes.

🔗 Resources Mentioned:

• ProFellow: www.profellow.com — Access resources, workshops, and group programs for winning fellowships and leadership opportunities.
• Dr. Vicki Johnson’s Website: www.drvickijohnson.com — Explore courses, 1:1 advising, and more.
• Pre-Order Dr. Johnson’s Book: Pitch Your Potential — Coming January 6, 2026! Learn the Match Me Formula for winning dream jobs and awards.
• Nasdaq Milestone Circles: nasdaqcenter.org/milestone-circles — Business accelerator program for women entrepreneurs.

💬 Notable Quote:

“There’s no such thing as unrewarded effort when you put in your highest effort.” — Dr. Vicki Johnson

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Challenges, Intuition, and the Stories We Hide

What if the real secret to magnetic leadership isn’t about being fearless—or even having all the answers—but about sharing the stories you once tried to hide? In this conversation, we dive into the unexpected: from altitude sickness and coaching wins to raw insights on intuition, self-awareness, and why authenticity is the one thing people remember long after the applause fades. There’s also a subtle shift most leaders overlook—one that changes everything about how we connect.

My special guest is Rachel DeAlto, keynote speaker, author, and recognized expert in communication, leadership, and emotional intelligence. With a law degree, a master’s in psychology, and features on major media outlets, Rachel blends research, personal insight, and practical strategies to help leaders and teams foster authentic relationships. Her books—Relatable and The Relatable Leader—offer roadmaps for creating trust, vulnerability, and stronger connections at work and beyond.

In this episode, you’ll discover how to:

• Use storytelling to inspire and build trust.
• Unlock intuition to break through fear and lead with confidence.
• Practice simple self-awareness tools that deepen real connection.
• Embrace authenticity as the key to meaningful, lasting relationships.

Resources from this episode:

• Visit Rachel’s website: racheldealto.com
• Purchase Rachel’s books: Relatable & The Relatable Leader
• Watch her TEDx talk: Being Authentic in a Filtered World
• Download The Age of Relatability whitepaper: Get it here
• Connect on LinkedIn: Rachel DeAlto

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If Only I’d Known Sooner: Navigating HR, Bipolar Disorder, and the Secret to Better Workplaces

Are you tired of launching communication initiatives, DEI trainings, or new HR strategies only to face the same burnout, misunderstandings, and resistance from leadership? You’re not alone. Many HR leaders, managers, and advocates for inclusion feel stuck between wanting real change and hitting the same barriers.

In this episode, I’m joined by Lindsay Mattes —HR leader, TEDx speaker, author, and founder of **Kinder HR**—who is redefining what workplace support can look like. With over 25 years in HR and her own late-in-life bipolar diagnosis, Lindsay brings both professional expertise and personal insight to the conversation. Her people-first, kindness-driven approach shows how empathy can become a powerful business strategy.

You’ll discover how to:

* Build trust and retention by infusing kindness into HR practices.

* Improve communication strategies that actually break down barriers.

* Leverage neurodiversity as a driver of innovation and collaboration.

* Reimagine HR by challenging outdated norms and embracing new perspectives.

* Find balance and resilience while navigating mental health challenges.

Lindsay’s story and strategies prove that meaningful workplace change is not only possible—it’s within reach when we lead with empathy.

Resources from this episode:

* Visit Lindsay’s website: https://kinder-hr.com/

* Connect on LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindsaykmattes/

* Read her book: *Don’t Be a D*ck-HR\* https://kinder-hr.com/book

* Watch her TEDx Talk: The Secret to a Better Workplace https://kinder-hr.com/speaking-engagements

* Book Lindsay for workshops or speaking: https://kinder-hr.com/speaking-engagements

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