In episode 12 of "If You Don’t Mind Me Asking," we dive deep into honest, raw conversations about Black family dynamics, parenting in 2025, generational trauma, and the evolving roles of mothers, fathers, and children. Bria joins to discuss therapy, growing up as a “daddy’s girl,” breaking the stereotypes of the “mama’s boy,” and what it means to be a truly open-minded parent.

This episode tackles what generational healing looks like, the realities of safe suburban childhood vs. city survival, and how community, culture, and history still shape self-identity today. Whether you’re reflecting on your own upbringing or trying to parent differently, this is a must-watch for anyone interested in real talk about love, support systems, and healing within Black families.

#BlackParenting #GenerationalHealing #TherapyMatters #CRT #BlackFamilies #FamilyCycles #OpenMindParenting #CulturalRoots #IfYouDontMindMeAsking #2025Conversations #MentalHealth #BreakingCycles

Timestamps:

0:00 – “Breaking Generational Chains: Black Family Legacy, Healing & Identity”

0:14 – “Brandy vs. Monica: Black Music Icons, Representation & Cultural Impact Debate”

6:39 – “How Do Parents Show Equal Love? Conscious Parenting, Emotional Wellness & Support Systems”

10:55 – “Are We Becoming the Parents We Needed? Breaking Cycles, Transforming Black Homes, Personal Growth”

12:33 – “Parental Influence: Shaping Core Values, Identity, and Generational Mindset”

22:36 – “Marriage, Commitment, & Evolving Black Love: Relationship Education and Partnership in 2025”

28:05 – “Redefining ‘Till Death Do Us Part’: Divorce, Family Resilience & Modern Commitment”

32:00 – “Mama’s Boys, Fatherhood & Masculinity: CRT, Family Roles & Mental Health”

41:00 – “What Really Shapes Us? Personality, Social Identity & Cultural Roots”

45:00 – “Do Parents Truly Know Their Kids? Molding vs. Growth, Raising Authentic Children, Building Safe Spaces”

48:41 – “Matriarchy Power: Black Women’s Resilience, Generational Trauma & Strength”

56:44 – “Parenting Self-Check: Are We Doing Enough? Honest Reflections, Progress & Generational Change”

57:39 – “Are Kids Softer in 2025? Resilience, Safe Spaces, and Raising Strong Black Children”

1:00:01 – “Outro: Community Shoutouts, Next Steps for Healing, and What’s Next for Black Families”

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What happens when freedom of speech collides with censorship? In this episode of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking, TravTheRealist speaks on the cancel culture wave and why creators fear losing their platforms. Special guest Chi, a Reading & Development Specialist, joins to uncover the reality of America’s schools—overcrowded classrooms, underpaid teachers, and students left behind. Together, they dive deep into the power of confidence, therapy, and finding your voice in a world trying to silence it.

If you care about education, free speech, and standing strong in your truth, this is the conversation you need to hear.

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Timeline

0:00 - Intro Music

0:10 - Freedom Of Speech Monologue

2:43 - Introduction

3:56 - What is a reading, learning and development specialist?

4:24 - Challenges teachers face in charter schools

7:51 - The Importance of Teachers advocating for students

9:28 - Difference between a bad kid and a misunderstood kid

11:15 - Did any teachers make a impact on you growing up?

13:24 - How can we support charter school teachers

18:06 - Parents role in their child's education

21:33 - How do teachers deal with difficult parents

23:10 - Where does confidence come from?

25:54 - Moving to a new place, adjusting to different schools

28:07 - My Guest Therapy experience

35:10 - Outro

In Episode 10 of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking?, host TravTheRealist sits down with his good friend Kenisha for an unfiltered conversation packed with music, culture, and real-life lessons. From the shocking twists of the “Unknown Number” documentary to the heated Charlie Kirk controversy, plus unforgettable Chris Brown concert experiences, hilarious takes on dating and relationship secrets, and insider travel hacks for Jamaica, the Bahamas, and cruises — this episode has it all. Tap in for authentic conversation, laughs, and insights you won’t hear anywhere else.

We are celebrating 10 episodes! So this episode was a short one.

#ChrisBrown #IfYouDontMindMeAsking #TravTheRealist #PodcastClips #RelationshipTalk #UrbanCulture #TravelHacks #ConcertStories

Episode 10 Timeline

0:00 - Intro

0:39 - unknown Number Documentary 📲🧐❓

2:40 - Charlie Kirk Assassination 🔫☠️ 

5:30 - Chris Brown Concert Experience 🕺🏽🎤

8:46 - how do these women take so many trips?  👙🏖️☀️

9:20 - most memorable traveling experience 

11:05 - Best Cruises to take in 2025 🛳️🚢

14:15 - could you date a person outside the U.S ? 👩‍❤️‍👨🗺️🌍

17:45 - Is there ever an appropriate time to lie to your partner ? 🤥❓

20:34 - Outro

What happens when fitness, entrepreneurship, and fatherhood collide? 💪👨‍👦

In Episode 9 of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking?, host @TravTheRealist sits down with @_humbletrapp and @_Dirty30 — the powerhouse duo behind @CactusFiTT and WRLDChangers. From starting with nothing to building a brand that’s making noise nationwide, they share their raw journey of:

🔥 Fitness discipline & bodybuilding transformation — the mental and physical grind it takes to level up.

🌍 Entrepreneurship & brand building — how CactusFiTT grew into WRLDChangers inspiring thousands.

👨‍👦 Fatherhood & breaking generational cycles — raising kids with intention and rewriting family legacies.

❤️ Relationships & marriage talk — real conversations about love, sacrifice, and choosing the right partner.

This episode is more than just talk — it’s motivation for anyone chasing growth, building a business, or becoming the best version of themselves. Whether you’re in the gym, building a brand, or learning how to lead your family, these lessons will hit home.

👉 Don’t just watch — join the movement. Hit LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE if you’re ready to change your life!

#FitnessJourney #Entrepreneurship #Fatherhood #RelationshipTalk #MotivationPodcast #CactusFiTT #WRLDChangers #BodybuildingMotivation #LifeLessons #TravTheRealist

Timeline:

0:00 - Intro Music 🎶

0:13 - Exclusive Behind The Scenes Conversation 🗣️

6:45 - Intro To Show 🎬

7:55 - Who are The “ WRLDChangers” 🌎⁉️

10:22 - When Did You Take The Fitness Industry Seriously 🏋🏾🤔

12:00 - The Importance of Keeping Workouts Fun 🏃🏾‍♂️😃😆

15:00 - Gyms Are Different in 2025

16:20 - The Negative Side of Fitness Culture

19:00 - Dark Side Of Body Building/ Jonathan Majors role in “ Magazine Dreams”

22:35 - Importance of Nutrition and Proper Rest

24:46 - Game Changing Workouts

28:35 - How a active lifestyle can improve love life

30:33 - Monte Love life

31:55 - Something you wish you done/known before having a child

36:10 - Raising a kid with no blueprint 📐

37:35 - Should a parent teach by their words or actions

40:00 - Breaking Generational Curses/ Are they really curses ?

47:13 - Do men get married for their wife or for your kids ?

57:00 - Is there more to love than just happiness?

1:07:35 - Grass isn’t always greener

1:16:21 - Joe Budden Podcast Staff Updates and Thoughts

1:30:02 - Outro

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In this episode of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking, we dive into detoxing from bad habits, quitting smoking, and the mindset shift needed to truly heal. 💯

This conversation goes deep on family influence, breaking cycles, and finding strength in self-discipline.

If you’re on your own journey of change, this is the episode for you.

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#Detox #QuitSmoking #HealingJourney #PodcastClips #MindsetMatters #PersonalGrowth #BreakingHabits #HealthTransformation #FamilyInfluence #disciplineequalsfreedom

Timeline 

0:00 - Intro

 1:15- Amon's Fitness/Wellness Journey 

14:18 - power of consistency and hard-work

17:00 - You are who you hang around 

20:00 - what is something you wish you did before starting a family 

21:50 - good questions to ask before committing to a relationship 

24:50 - Is Shedeur Sanders Ready ? 

32:56 Kameel Walker “Teamwork inst needed”

41:28 - Gillie vs Cam Newton 

50:53 - Tank vs Jake Paul 

54:42 - what amount would be enough to retire you now 

58:00 - Cowboys Trade Parsons to Green Bay 

1:01:05 - Outro 

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In Episode 7 of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking?, TravTheRealist sits down with Kweku to dive deep into real conversations about fatherhood, forgiveness, legacy, and the immigrant grind. From growing up in Ghana to culture shock in America, overcoming bullying, and finding purpose after loss — this episode is packed with raw honesty, powerful lessons, and inspiring gems.

If you’ve ever questioned your relationship with your parents, the meaning of success, or how to turn pain into fuel, this is a must-watch.

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Timeline:

0:00 - Intro 

2:00 - can revenge be a good motivator? 

5:30 - was standards different in Ghana ? 🇬🇭

8:01 - how did losing a parent effect us 👵🏾

13:29 - how losing one parent got us  closer to the other 👵🏾👴🏾

23:20 - how African culture was treated back then vs now 🌍

26:00 - we can be our own worst critics 👫🏾

27:26  - Coming to America 

30:08 - bullying (the other side)

34:13 - adjusting to different environments 

37:00 - Kweku’s spiritual journey 

38:15 - Relocating to Dallas/Starting Over 

44:00 - the importance of men being involved in a community 

48:20 - Kweku’s most rewarding experience 

51:10 - what place has the most beautiful women ? 

52:12 - How many kids do we want 

52:51 - should you only date within your culture? Arranged marriages 

56:21 - Outro 

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In this episode of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking, TravTheRealist sits down with Sheldon Lucien — a network architect designing internet infrastructure with Wi-Fi, fiber optics, and AI. We dive into how he got started in tech, why there’s so little Black representation in the industry, how AI is reshaping careers, and the real conversation about relationships, culture, and personal growth.

🔥 Don’t miss this inspiring talk on tech, life, and leveling up.

#blackpeopleintech #techpodcast2025 #aiandtechjobsgoingforward #aiandfutureofwork

Timeline:

0:00 - intro

0:52 - how to become a network architect 

8:53 - 100 men vs a Guerrilla

11:18 - Shannon not so sharp 

17:27 what are the prime years for men and women

19:39 - things I learned from my lady (Sheldon) 

22:26 - is it more important to be lovable or likable in a relationship 

31:23 - was our generation taught how to be men and women ? 

39:20 - giving shells his flowers 

41:00 - music ptsd ? Sheldon Jullliard story 

53:35 - should we be afraid of AI? 

1:05:15 - Outro

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In this powerful episode of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking, host TravTheRealist sits down with Ryan Moore — Dallas trainer, life coach, and soon-to-be nonprofit founder — for an unfiltered talk on fitness, purpose, relationships, and building resilience.

From workouts that boost bedroom performance 🏋🏾‍♂️ to finding identity after sports, balancing love and ambition, and creating a safe space for growth, Ryan drops gems on mental discipline, faith, and why discomfort is essential for success.

Whether you’re chasing fitness goals, looking for motivation, or want insight into the mindset it takes to win in life, this episode will inspire you to level up.

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Episode 5 Timeline

0:00 - Intro

0:40 - How to manage a busy schedule 

3:05 - What Stage in life are you currently in 

3:55- finding purpose after football 

6:26 - “Growing up I seen a lot of great men”

9:50 - workouts for beginners 

11:55 - Ryan’s Why

18:25 - balancing a business and a relationship 

23:20 - are you and your partner alike ? 

24:45 - how do you show up for your partner 

27:46 - workouts that help in the bedroom

31:45 - what’s the process in how you coach ?

36:30 - how to overcome complacency 

40:51 - promoting your content on social media 

45:00 - Ryan’s interesting music tastes 

49:55 - Outro 

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Diddy’s Trial, Kendrick’s Reach & Sexyy Red vs Smino?! | Ep 4 w/ Amon | TravTheRealist Podcast

From the controversial Diddy allegations to the wild story of a health insurance CEO’s assassination—this episode gets real fast. TravTheRealist and special guest Amon dive into everything from integrity in hip hop (Drake vs Kendrick), STL’s rap crown (Sexyy Red or Smino?), parenting in 2025, and what it really takes to raise confident kids in today’s world. Plus: character flaws, confidence struggles, and the truth about creating safe environments for the next generation.

🔥 If you're into culture, music, parenting, and real-life growth, this episode is for you. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking convos.

0:00 - Intro clip

0:14 - Diddy Trial

3:48 - Health Insurance CEO assassination

5:05 - Healthcare in the US vs Other Countries

8:25 - can money buy your integrity?

9:41 - Podcast Intro

10:03 - Drakes integrity

15:40 - is Kendrick music popular outside the west coast ?

20:50 - does New Jersey still have a distinct sound in music ?

24:00 - who should be the face of STL hip hop Smino or Sexxxy Red ?

26:10 - songs currently in the rotation

28:00 - what’s the difference between raising a son vs a daughter?

34:19 - Parents in the 90s vs 2025

40:30 - the importance of having a good support system

44:24 - how to make time for yourself

45:45 - Do you trust your kids friends ?

49:30 boy vs girl privilege growing up

52:46 - how can we curate a safe environment outside for children

56:42 - character flaws

56:15 - what advice would you give to your younger self

57:30 - character flaws

1:05:23 - confidence issues

1:12:04 - starting health journey

1:16:00 - outro

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🔥 In this powerful episode of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking, TravTheRealist sits down with real estate professional and former athlete Reggie Jennings to talk about image, identity, purpose, and professionalism in today’s culture. From code-switching and post-sports transitions to relationships, leadership, and legacy—this is an unfiltered conversation packed with real insights, personal growth, and timeless gems. Whether you're into deep interviews, relatable life experiences, or motivational podcast content, this episode sets The Standard. 🎙️ Tap in for laughs, game, and inspiration—and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to stay in the loop with fresh, real conversations every week. #PodcastLife #Interviews #Entertainment

Episode 3 Timeline:

0:00 - Intro

1:07 - How important is someone's image?

6:15 - Code switching

10:04 - should you show up as you are to work?

12:35 - has someone ever gotten you out of character at work?

18:38 - Life after football (was it easy to adjust?)

26:40 - Do you trust just any coach today

29:00 - Kids today vs our back in the day

34:08 - Do you want kids? / Are you ok being an older parent?

35:00 - how to maintain your fitness with a busy schedule

42:15 - Drake vs. UMG

47:25 - what would you tell the younger you

50:15 - playing to your competition

55:49 - people pleaser

57:25 - Have you ever used someone?

59:20 - Views on love; Then vs. Now

1:02:26 - Is it ok for your partner to have a best friend of the opposite sex?

1:06:41 - what drives you?

1:09:25 - is their job security in real estate?

1:12:31 - outro

1:15:34 - Credits // extra content

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