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Episode 23 is all about reflection, growth, and moving forward.

We recap the highs and lows of 2025, talk about what needs to be left behind, and set real, honest 2026 goals—from finances and health to travel, freedom, and self-improvement. The conversation also dives into whether drinking culture is fading, how priorities change in your 30s, and the symbolic end of MTV as we knew it.

This episode is for anyone resetting their mindset, chasing balance, and trying to build something meaningful in the next chapter.

👉 What are you leaving in 2025?

👉 What’s one goal you’re serious about in 2026?

#2025Recap #2026Goals

#NewYearReset #AdultingLife

#LifeInYour30s #SelfReflection

#MentalGrowth #WorkLifeBalance

#PersonalDevelopment #RealLifeTalk

#MillennialConversations #PodcastLife

#NewYearMindset

Episode 23 Timestamp

0:00 - Intro

0:15 - 2025 Recap ⏮️

3:55 - Things To Leave Behind In 2025 🚮

4:55 - 2026 New Year Resolutions 🎆

10:15 - Has Alcohol/Drinking Become Obsolete? 🍻🥂

13:10 - The End Of MTV 💀🪦

19:25 - Network Promo

20:12 - End Of Show 🎬

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Christmas isn’t the same for everyone. In Episode 22 of If You Don’t Mind Me Asking?, TravTheRealist talks holiday blues, getting older, working holidays, Jake Paul vs Anthony Joshua, Andrew Tate vs Chase DeMoor, Eagles winning the NFC East, John Cena’s final match, Kai Cenat’s mental health, MJ vs Mickey Mouse, and a viral parenting debate. Real talk for the holidays. 🎄

#HolidayBlues #Christmas2025 #HolidayMentalHealth #UrbanPodcast #MiddleAmerica #SportsTalk #JakePaul #AnthonyJoshua #PhiladelphiaEagles #JohnCena #KaiCenat #MichaelJackson #MickeyMouse #RealTalk

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Episode 21 brings a full breakdown of life updates, trending news, and a real creator journey. TravTheRealist opens up with a Thanksgiving recap, family moments, and the mindset shift that comes with watching your parents age. Then we talk podcast changes, balancing life + work, finally getting the passport, upgrading to a new camera, and how that improves content quality moving forward.

We also dive deep into the biggest headline of the week — Netflix acquiring Warner Bros — and what that means for streaming, creators, and entertainment in 2026. And to top it off, we unpack the Summer Walker & Rich The Kid situation, how it affects the culture, and the conversation around self-worth and celebrity transparency.

⏱️ Episode 21 Timestamps

0:08 – Thanksgiving Recap 🦃

4:35 – Podcast Changes

5:45 – Passport Ready 📍🗺️

7:00 – New Camera 🎥📸

7:42 – Netflix Acquires Warner Bros 🎦💰

9:40 – Summer Walker & Rich Da Kid 📲

12:20 – End of Show 🎬

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Episode 20 of “If You Don’t Mind Me Asking?” features a powerful and inspiring conversation with former professional soccer player Ansger Otto, as he shares his journey from Ghana to America. This conversation discusses becoming a standout high-school athlete, competing professionally overseas, battling injuries, dealing with depression, and now passing on his passion to his kids as a coach and father.

This episode is PACKED with gems on discipline, mental toughness, parenting, sports culture, and how today’s technology shapes young athletes. If you’re a parent, athlete, coach, or just someone who loves motivational stories — this one’s for you.

EPISODE 20 TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Introduction

0:45 – Coming to America 🇺🇸 & adapting

2:00 – Making soccer “cool” in school

3:40 – School soccer vs. professional level

4:45 – Battling injuries & adversity

6:00 – Depression, identity & sports

6:35 – Passing on tradition to your kids

10:00 – Are kids maximizing today’s technology?

15:50 – The REAL debate: Brains vs Athleticism

17:05 – Coaching vs Playing: Which is more rewarding?

18:50 – Who pushed Otto to become great

19:30 – Friends or foes in sports

22:00 – Biggest accomplishments

22:50 – Lowest moments

27:10 – Parenting: When your child doesn’t listen

30:40 – Knowing when to give your child advice

32:50 – Closing thoughts 🎬

#athleteinterview #soccerlife #formerproathlete #ghananews #immigrantstory #sportsmotivation #blackpodcasts #sportspodcast #fathersandsons #parentingtips #youthsports #mentalhealthinsports #sportsinjuries #disciplinequotes #coachinglife #sportsdevelopment #podcastclips #ifyoudontmindmeasking #travtherealist #bearviewmedia

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Episode 19 of “If You Don’t Mind Me Asking?” hosted by TravTherealist dives deep into faith, fitness, emotional discipline, and personal growth with the inspiring _Trainwith24.

From navigating engagement life to strengthening your walk with God, from managing emotions to changing your environment for success—this episode delivers REAL conversations that challenge you to elevate mentally, spiritually, and physically.

We touch on how the economy impacts mental health, how music shapes your emotions, what HYROX really is, and whether your kids truly need to be athletes. If you're working on becoming the best version of yourself, this episode is for you.

💬 Drop your thoughts below — which topic hit you the hardest?

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

0:00 – Start Of The Show 🎬

0:15 – Going From a One-Man Army to Joining a Well-Oiled Machine ⚙️

2:25 – Life After Getting Engaged 💍

3:20 – Premarital Counseling

4:25 – The Importance Of Controlling Your Emotions

6:25 – How the Economy Is Affecting Our Psyche 🧠

12:08 – Ryan’s Faith Journey ⛪️🙏🏿

16:30 – How Music Affects Your Emotions 🎶🧠

17:50 – How To Get Involved In The Church ⛪️🤔

20:00 – Changing Your Environment To Help You Pursue Your Goals

22:20 – The Truth About Getting Closer To God

25:00 – What Is HYROX?

27:20 – The Power of Competition

28:50 – Do Your Kids Have To Be Athletes?

31:00 – Sympathy vs. Empathy

33:35 – End Of Show 🎬

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Dive into this candid and unfiltered conversation between two lifelong friends — @TravTheRealist and @K_inhd — as they talk about their humble beginnings in sports, transitioning into college football, and the highs and lows that came with chasing greatness.

They open up about fatherhood, whether sons get treated differently than daughters, and ask the tough question — are men still providers or part of the problem in 2025? The conversation also touches on dating today — is it better to meet people online or in person — and ends with funny high-school memories and lessons learned along the way.

🎧 Timestamps:

0:00 - Hook 🪝

2:03 - Show Introduction 🎬

4:30 - Athletic Background 🏀⚾🏈

7:00 - How We Got Into Football 🏈

11:20 - College Football Experience 🏫

28:20 - Do Kids Have to Play Sports? ⚽🏀🏈

30:45 - The Hidden Side Effects of Football 🩻

32:10 - Raising Sons vs Daughters 👦🏾👧🏽

39:30 - Are Men Still Providers in 2025? 💰

42:10 - Do Men Expect Their Women to Be Like Their Moms? 🧠

43:40 - Are Your Dating Preferences Really Right for You? ❤️

45:00 - Online Dating vs Real Life 🔥

53:20 - High School Memories 🏫

59:30 - End of Show 🎬

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This Episode is gets deep on how us men really think when it comes to raising kids, relationships and setting boundaries. Sit down and enjoy this unfiltered conversation as TravTheRealist sits down and talk with __Amon__ and Aarian___h, this conversation is no b.s or fluff these are honest thoughts from men on topics that most sugarcoat on social media.

#thinklikeaman #themanshow #lockerroomtalk #mendebates

Episode 17 Timestamps

0:00 - behind the scenes 😳

13:19 - Start of the show 🎥

14:23 - What is worse a strict 😠parent or a free one🥱?

16:33 - Does today’s generation of kids truly have any freedom?

22:14 - would you rather your kid be a rebel or rule follower? ( pros and cons)

24:45 - Do parents set unrealistic expectations on the oldest child ?

33:00 - Does the only son get special treatment?

38:19 - Setting Boundaries as a Man

44:35 - Men Advice to women on how to know if la man really like you

51:25 - Should Men Date who they want? Or who actually likes them ?

1:04:00 - How Do You Know A women likes you ?

1:14:22 - Final Thoughts

Join host TravTheRealist in Episode 16 of "If You Don't Mind Me Asking"

as he sits down with 7X time WNFC national champion, 2022 USA gold

medalist, and trailblazing coach Tammie Moore. From her gritty St. Louis

roots and overcoming "crab in the barrel" mentality to dominating in

women's tackle football with the Texas Elite Spartans, Tammy shares her

inspirational journey of building confidence, switching positions, and

becoming the first female high school football coach in Lewisville.

We dive deep into WNFC exposure, legacy vs. creating your own path,

misconceptions about women's professional football, unlearning survival

mode, book recommendations like "The Power of Who" and "Awaken the Giant

Within," family aspirations, and advice for young female athletes.

Plus, discussions on colorism in boxing and Claressa Shields.

🎙️ Episode 16

0:00 - Hook 🪝

0:08 - hometown origins🏡/ adjusting to new environments

6:23 - start of the show 🎥

7:14 - Texas Elite Women’s Football 🏈 wake up call ☎️

9:19 - building confidence while changing your position in the WNFC

11:58 - How Tammie Moore got into the Women National Football Conference/ Joining The Texas Elite Spartans

23:28 - How can the WNFC gain more exposure globally?

25:46 - would you rather join a legacy or create your own ?

28:48 - What was a greater accomplishment The WNFC championships 💍 or the USA Gold Medal 🥇

30:40 - How many more years do you want to play in the WNFC?

31:43 - would you let your kids play football 🏈

33:43 - becoming the first women’s football coach at Lewisville High School

37:28 - what’s more rewarding coaching or playing football ?

38:08 - Common misconceptions about women’s professional football 🏈

40:33 - unlearning St. Louis survivor mode mentality

41:43 - “The Power of Who” by Bob Beaudine

47:48 - “Awaken The Giant Within” - Tony Robbin’s

48:23 - Do you want a family of your own?

50:43 - How can people support the WNFC ?

53:48 - The best advice to young women who want to play football 🙋🏾‍♀️🏈

55:47 - colorism in boxing and Claressa shield hate 🥊

1:00:08 - End of Show 🎥

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In this solo episode, TravTheRealist breaks down the Best of 2025 across music, wrestling, movies, and anime — ranking the Top Hip Hop and R&B albums, top male & female wrestlers, the most talked-about films, and must-watch animes of 2025.

#BestOf2025 #HipHop2025 #R&B2025 #Anime2025 #Movies2025 #Wrestling2025 #AEW #WWE #TravTheRealist #Podcast #MusicPodcast #AnimePodcast #WrestlingPodcast #EntertainmentPodcast #SoloLeveling #KaijuNo8 #ClipsLetGodSortThemOut #LeonThomas #FreddieGibbs #ToniStorm #HangmanAdamPage #TopAlbums2025 #TopAnimes2025

👇 Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

0:50 - Best Hip Hop Albums of 2025

4:50 - Best R&B Albums of 2025

7:50 - Best Men Wrestlers of 2025

9:05 - Best Women Wrestlers of 2025

9:35 - Wrestlers to Look Out for in 2025

12:45 - Best Movies of 2025

14:45 - Best Animes of 2025

19:00 - End of Show

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Dive into raw, real conversations on relationship advice 2025! In Episode 14 of If You Don't Mind Me Asking, host TravTheRealist chats with Aarian from Mississippi/St. Louis about who loves harder—men or women? We cover marriage secrets, dating tips for singles in Dallas, parenting sex talk, and when to let kids date. Plus, the ultimate debate: Does St. Louis have the best Chinese food? Timestamps: 0:00 Intro, 2:16 St. Louis Chinese Food Debate 🍲, 13:42 Teen Dating Age & Losing Virginity Young, 20:26 Marriage Tips 🤵🏾‍♂️👰🏾‍♀️, 21:37 Who Loves Harder? 25:29 Dating Standards & Settling, 35:03 Free Advice for Women, 41:39 Save Spouse or Kids? 50:08 Partner Qualities. Like, subscribe, and comment your thoughts to help us grow—aiming for 1000 views!

#relationshipadvice #DatingTips #marriagesecrets #TeenDatingAdvice #ParentingSexTalk #MarriageTips #WhoLovesHarder #DatingStandards #PodcastLife #GrowingUpStories #StLouisChineseFood #LoveAndRelationships

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

0:46 - Does St. Louis have the best Chinese food? 🍲 🇨🇳

3:04 - Moving to/Growing up in St. Louis

12:12 - What age would you let your kids date ? How Did losing your virginity young affect you ?

15:18 - when do you talk to your kids about sex and if their active?

18:56 - what holds a marriage together? 🤵🏾‍♂️👰🏾‍♀️💍

20:07 - who loves harder women or men ?

23:59 - Is the bar set low in today’s dating world ?/ Are people settling ?

33:33 - Free Game 🎲 to women “ Give men the space to make a choice”

36:51 - What makes you happy?

40:09 - you can only save 1 your spouse or your kids

48:38 - what are you looking for in a partner?

50:38 - how can someone get your time/attention

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