Ignite Your Light with Xara Black

Space Nation Is a CULT Presenting themselves as a church but they have all the attributes of a spiritually abusive organisation. They suck members in slowly and then  followers become loyal, deployable and dependable minions of the church incapable of thinking critically and setting themselves up to be manipulated, abused and extorted.

Quite chilling to think about but large amount of victims cannot put a finger on the kind of abuse they are experiencing in their relationship. Coercive and controlling behaviour is a crime and intimate partners can be prosecuted if found guilty. I discuss my experience with coercive control in an abusive relationship I was previously involved in. 

The ones you want, never want you and the ones you don't want always want you. Isn't that always the case. We don't always have control over how the other person sees us even if we love them very much. Are you struggling to know where you stand with someone? Are you a prospect or a Joe? 

So many of us hit a brick wall in our careers and our business and we often don't realise that we have to get the combination of ingredients right in order for any of our ventures to be successful. We have to analyse what we may be lacking or maybe the ratio of our input is incorrect and we need to check what we could do more of and what we are doing right now that may be unnecessary or even hindering our success. 

My biggest goal is to have my children love themselves. Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all

Would you want to raise your child up to be religious? And for what purpose? Religious does not guarantee good morals. I speak about why I am abstaining from raising my kids to be religious We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me

Why do people stay in abusive situations? A quick talk on the matter. In some cases it boils down to your childhood. Stop victim shaming and support people when they leave.

What is stopping you from taking action? Start to believe that you possess that power to create not waiting for anybody to open the doors but busting down the doors by creating the life that you want. We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me

How are YOU Perceived in the workplace. Is there a healthy balance between being introverted and extroverted? Are you paying attention to what you are saying in social situations? How much you are saying and how much you are willing to kick back and just listen? We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me

Do you prefer to meet people online or in person? A little bit about my experience with dating apps. Most of all, Love yourself, Date Yourself. Nothing wrong with that. Self dating could help you find a more quality bae. We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me