I think most people will say it’s impossible to feel doubt and also feel positive at the same time...I think it’s possible though cos that’s the phase I’m in at the moment. Lol. I’m dealing with a little bit of doubt and fear about things I’m going through presently, but I’m still positive about how things are going to turn out for me later. Dig In!!! And Oh!, please don’t mind how my voice sounds...dealing with the flu (not the virus, Lol).

Knowing when to give yourself and knowing when to choose yourself is a basic skill that we should all have, if you ask me. In my story today, I did choose myself, and I’m thankful that I did, and I know that I wasn’t selfish. Sometimes you just have to know the difference...

You know exactly what you want...exactly what you want to hear...exactly what you want to be...exactly what your expectations are. So why do you think someone else will be better for you than you are for yourself? Think about it! Lol.

How do you handle the voices in your head that tell you you’re not good enough, and that you can never measure up??

This is like story time. Not story, story; cos I didn’t really go into details, but just giving you a clue of what happened to me over the week and what I really feel about it. And to be honest, we take life so casually, like we own it. We literally forget that it can be taken from us at any time, we forget that anything can happen to us at any moment, whether we’re prepared for it or not. The upsetting part about it is that we are never prepared for it, cos nobody intends for it. The events that turned up for me this past week has made me realize deeply that I really need to relax. I need to stop, and reflect, and appreciate the littlest things I have and the people I care most about. I wouldn’t want to say more than I should here so, have a good listen. LOL

Some thing really give...Just listen. Lol.

Today’s when I realized that I needed to talk about how I’ve been feeling for the past few days, or should I say weeks...My mind has been so refreshed and I feel totally energized because I have allowed myself to let go of things I can’t control and to understand that no matter how things turn out at the end of the day, it’s all for my own Good. Knowing that God gat me and that I can get whatever I need is knowing peace; and I’ve been having a lot of it lately.

Happy new month Loves...Being in August is so surreal actually cos when was January again? But basically, I have so much to be thankful for. Didn’t start the year on a good note but 7 months down the line I’m becoming an amazing version of myself; and there’s so much more in store for the rest part of the year.

The possibility of having a good relationship, weather with friends or a lover, without communication is an illusion. And communication is really not about talking everyday and saying hi and hello to each other...it’s about talking about the uncomfortable things until you are able to understand each other and the value of compromise.

You’ll have to forgive my voice this time. Lol. I’d just woken up from a short nap, and my voice went all left.......Anyways, today’s topic is quite personal for me, and I must commend myself for having so much strength to talk about it. It’s truly time we learnt how to stop complicating things for ourselves, in our relationships. We act like we have everything under our control and then end up hurting each other so much. Everyone wants to be strong and show invulnerability, even when it is totally unnecessary. There’s so much love to give and to go round; so much more than the hate we end up giving...and I hope we find ourselves in ways we intend to. Enjoy!!!