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A veteran of the adult industry, single dad, and unapologetic straight-shooter… today I’m sitting down with Brother Love for one of the most honest behind-the-scenes conversations you’ll ever hear.

We talk about everything — from balancing school drop-offs and set call times, to why modern porn feels so different from the “porn star era,” to the brutal reality of trying to survive on platforms like OnlyFans in 2025. Brother Love breaks down what really happens on set: how camera angles and performer awareness make or break a scene, why big butts and big thighs are secretly a nightmare for directors, and the difference between a responsible male performer and a guy who just shows up with a big ego.

We also get into the messy truth of the industry:

• Single parents in porn and how he built a routine that actually works
• Why so many new performers feel pressured to say “yes” and how that needs to change
• The rise and fall of glam porn, reality porn, step-fantasy, and where he thinks the next big trend might come from
• The grind of fan platforms, management companies, and why “just start an OnlyFans” is terrible advice

And because this is In the Thickk of It, we end exactly where you wouldn’t expect: archery, guns, and why traditional skills still matter in a tech and AI-driven world.

If you’re curious about what life really looks like for long-time creators, parents, and crew in the adult industry — beyond the clickbait and the stereotypes — this episode is for you.

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In this episode of “In the Thickk of It”, Amanda Thickk sits down with creator and performer Lala Tada to talk about her non-linear journey into the adult industry and the life she’s built around it. Lala shares how she went from working as a Toby Keith “Whiskey Girl”, doing calendar shoots, and promo modeling in Las Vegas… to creating niche, fetish-style content online, and eventually building a full-time career as an independent creator.

She opens up about stepping away from the industry to get her degree in psychology, becoming a lactation consultant, starting a practice working with moms and babies, burning out in healthcare, and then returning to the adult space on her own terms. Amanda and Lala also dive into life behind the scenes: being in a long-term marriage, navigating ethical non-monogamy / lifestyle spaces, setting clear boundaries, and keeping communication strong while raising a family.

Lala talks about the business side of things—organization, collabs, hiring help, spreadsheets, and how she balances being a mom, wife, and brand without losing herself in the chaos. This episode is a grounded, sex-positive, and human look at what it really takes to build a career in the adult industry while keeping family, mental health, and real life front and center.

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Amanda Thickk sits down with performer-producer Christian XXX for a raw, hilarious, and insightful talk about the adult industry’s evolution—from VHS and DVDs to fan sites, streaming, and now the rise of AI. Christian shares how he went from Texas schoolteacher to filming over 5,000 scenes, why stamina and mindset matter more than hype, and what it really takes to last in front of—and behind—the camera.

We dive into the business side too: launching seven niche sites, mastering daily content output, and using smart organization to turn creativity into consistency. From fitness and supplements to production hacks and performance psychology, this episode blends honesty, humor, and real business strategy.

You’ll also hear the story behind his famous rubber-duck collection, the viral “did they really get married?!” photo, and wild behind-the-scenes moments that prove success is equal parts discipline and fun.

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Amanda Thickk returns with a powerful and personal solo episode of In the Thickk of It, recorded live on location at Exxxotica New Jersey — her first year premiering the podcast at the event. In this raw and motivational episode, Amanda explores one of the biggest truths behind personal and professional growth: your next win is almost always hiding behind the thing you’re resisting most.

Through her own journey — from leaving a religious upbringing to reinventing her career and redefining her boundaries — Amanda shares how every breakthrough in her life came from leaning into discomfort. She challenges you to question what you’re avoiding, dig into the “why,” and take that brave step toward change. Whether it’s a relationship, career move, or mindset shift, this episode will inspire you to stop fighting what scares you and start saying yes to the unknown.

🎙️ In this episode:

• Why resistance often hides your next big win
• How to separate true intuition from fear or avoidance
• The real difference between discomfort and danger
• Reframing “never” moments into growth opportunities
• How Amanda learned to stay open, adaptable, and unafraid of change

✨ Watch, reflect, and take that next bold step — your upgrade is waiting on the other side of fear.

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Amanda Thickk sits down with iconic performer Ava Devine for a raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation about returning to the industry after a long hiatus, rebuilding authentic confidence, and finding spiritual balance in a high-energy career. Ava opens up about burnout and recovery, why authenticity matters more than ever, how live platforms changed the game, setting real boundaries on set, and the mindset shifts that helped her protect her health, creativity, and peace. We also talk mentorship, 12-step wisdom, trusting a higher power, navigating modern creator culture, building fan connection, and the surprise spark that pulled her back into filming. If you love candid, big-heart, no-ego interviews that blend life lessons with behind-the-scenes insight, this one’s for you.

Listen to learn:
• What made Ava step away—and the moment she knew she was ready to come back
• The habits that helped her restore energy, focus, and self-respect
• How OnlyFans/live platforms put creative control back in performers’ hands
• Why clear boundaries + professionalism matter in today’s creator era
• The role of faith, intuition, and “the pause” in staying grounded
• How to build real connection with fans without losing yourself

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In this solo episode of In the Thickk of It, adult performer and intimacy pro Amanda Thickk breaks down her simple four-step PACE Method for rebuilding connection and bringing excitement back into the bedroom.

Amanda dives deep into the real reason relationships lose their spark and teaches you how to reignite intimacy through Presence, Acceptance, Communication, and Exploration. She shares candid personal stories, explains why emotional disconnection kills desire, and shows how small mindset shifts and honest conversation can completely transform your sex life.

Whether your relationship feels stale, your partner seems distant, or you just want to learn how to create deeper connection, this episode gives you practical tools to restore passion, re-engage emotionally, and become a better lover—without gimmicks or therapy jargon.

🎧 Listen now to learn how to slow down, show up, and get back in sync—mind, body, and energy—with the one you love.

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Taylor Nicole joins “In the Thickk of It” to talk branding, confidence, and building a career in the adult industry—neon-red hair, tattoos, and all. We get into how her “trashy, never classy” on-camera persona contrasts with serious professionalism behind the scenes: planning shoots, setting boundaries, negotiating rates, and choosing quality over clout. Taylor shares her path from art/modeling and cam work to marketing-savvy creator, plus why showing up prepared (and on time) is 75% of success. We cover posing practice that actually works, fitness/nutrition routines that fit real life, and consent-first advice for new models so they stay safe while they grow. She also teases her directorial debut “Alcaraz” (a prison-themed feature), creative set ideas that keep fans engaged, and how to collaborate without burning out. If you’re into creator business strategy, branding, and the realities of content production, this episode is packed with gems.

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In this powerful solo episode of In the Thickk of It, Amanda Thickk—adult performer and intimacy pro—dives into mental health, grief, and what it really means to be a “high value” man or woman. Instead of chasing internet labels, Amanda reframes value as self-respect, responsibility, and authenticity. She opens up about personal loss, the struggles many face with depression and loneliness, and shares five actionable ways to pull yourself out of heavy moments and back into alignment.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re not enough, stuck in comparison, or weighed down by life’s challenges, this episode will give you perspective and practical steps to rebuild self-trust, set boundaries, and find your own worth.

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Oliver Faze on love, limits, and longevity in adult entertainment. We talk about dating while in the industry, why he stepped away, and how he returned, and the communication that makes his marriage work. He shares how he first met his wife, what it’s like balancing adult work with real intimacy, and why professionalism and branding matter for creators. Candid conversation on body confidence, trust, and building a career with staying power.

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In this solo episode of In the Thickk of It, adult performer and intimacy pro Amanda Thickk breaks down six common myths about porn sex versus real sex—and what actually builds intimacy. From positions, silence, speed, readiness, aftercare, and size, Amanda shares candid stories and insider perspective to show why what looks hot on camera doesn’t always feel good in real life. This episode is packed with real talk, humor, and practical advice to help you improve your confidence, connection, and experiences in the bedroom.

Whether you’re curious about intimacy, want to strengthen your sexual connection, or just love Amanda’s unfiltered take, this conversation will shift the way you think about sex and relationships.

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