In Your Twentys

In Your Twentys

By Tinah OgaloSociety & Culture
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In Your Twentys episodes

  • 101: Spotting Toxic Relationships + Calling Out Your Friends with Hannah Adams + Emily Aleece Burton

    I am extremely happy and excited as I am joined by my two gal pals, Hannah Adams (@hannahnicoleadams) and Emily Aleece Burton (@emilyaleece) from the “The Gal’s Guide Podcast.” We are chatting about their rivalry, friendship, dating, relationship experience, and more!

    After fighting for a certain role for the spring musical audition in high school, Hannah and Emily turn their rivalry into friendship. They have been best friends for most of their twenties, supporting each other from the pain of heartbreak to celebrating love and enjoying life.

    The Gal’s Guide is a millennial woman’s guide for dating and relationships, finding yourself, and navigating through all the bad decisions you will most certainly make.


    Episode Breakdown:


    12 years of friendship in the making

    Fighting for the role of Belle

    Hannah’s engagement and Emily’s dating stories

    Dating app in LA

    Setting intentions on relationships.

    Love bombing and future faking

    Recycling exes

    Disney castle proposal

    Ex-boyfriend’s email on the Gal’s Guide podcast

    The film Emily wrote and directed

    How to block toxic romance

    Pairing negative memory with a positive

    Healing the breakup wounds

    Looking back to old memories

    The whistle tone


    To connect with and follow Hannah and Emily, head over to:


    Gal’s Guide Podcast

    Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-gals-guide/id1481145846?uo=4

    Website: https://thegalsguidepod.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegalsguidepod/


    Hannah Adams

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hannahnicoleadams/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hannahnadams


    Emily Aleece Burton

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emilyaleece/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@emilyaleece


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    New episodes every Wednesday!

    To stay up to date on the podcast you can find us on Instagram @inyourtwentys

    Need advice? Want to be featured on the show? Just wanna chat?

    Shoot an email to [email protected]

    Host: Tinah (Tina w/ an H) Ogalo @tinah.ogalo

    PSSSSSTTT. If you liked the episode, please tell your friends / follow / rate/review - I'd love to hear your thoughts! xx

    49 min
  • 100: What I've Learned In My Twenties *Celebrating The 100th Episode* with Joey Ucci

    We reach the 100th episode of In Your Twentys!

    Today on the show, I am virtually sitting down AGAIN with the first-ever guest I had on the pod, my best friend, Joey Ucci (@joeyucci on IG), to chat about the journey of this podcast, the challenges, learnings, and my plans for the show and myself.

    This is so exciting and nerve-racking because instead of me interviewing Joey, now it’s the other way around. He prepared and gathered some fun and deep questions from our pod friends and Sunday Scaries on Instagram to ask me! This conversation brings back memories, and I am so thrilled to share them with you!


    Episode Breakdown:


    Dream guest for upcoming episodes

    Top three learnings after the 100th episode

    Biggest challenges while doing the podcast

    Flashback on the Snapchat days

    How to keep motivated and consistent

    The power of social sharing of episode

    My best guests on career, life, and dating

    Older sibling advice episode

    Be part of a podcast network

    Possibilities for an additional host

    Brand expansion

    Podcast as my starting point

    Personal plans for the next 5 to 10 years

    Balancing work, life, and podcast

    Themes and things people wish they knew in their twenties


    To connect with and follow Joey, head over to:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joeyucci/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@joeyucci

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/josephucci/

    Newsletter: https://www.tiktok.com/@mediaholic.news


    Links Mentioned:

    Zane Lowe’s Interview with Harry Style: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3L4m5ZMzf3A

    Not Skinny But Not Fat Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/not-skinny-but-not-fat/id1444559244

    Seeing Other People, Ilana Dunn: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/seeing-other-people/id1505618760


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    New episodes every Wednesday!

    To stay up to date on the podcast you can find us on Instagram @inyourtwentys

    Need advice? Want to be featured on the show? Just wanna chat?

    Shoot an email to [email protected]

    Host: Tinah (Tina w/ an H) Ogalo @tinah.ogalo

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    47 min
  • 99: Drowing Out The Noise + Not Sticking To One Niche with Natalie McMillan

    Today is a special treat and a good one as I am joined by Natalie Mcmillan (@nataliemcm), an artist, creator, and one of the hosts of Am I Doing This Right (@amidoingthisrightpod).

    We are chatting about Natalie’s journey of leaning more into her passions and turning it into a profitable business as well as how she and her friend, Corinne, started the podcast.

    Am I Doing This Right? is not your typical “how-to” podcast as Corinne and Natalie aren’t experts - in fact, they’re far from it. They’re just two best friends with 26 years of life experience, who know firsthand how hard it is to navigate life’s biggest milestones and a whole lot of questions about today’s rapidly changing world.


    Episode Breakdown:


    Everyone is faking it

    Ways of how to spot a bullsh*tter

    'Bullsh*t The Gameshow' on Netflix

    Natalie's childhood

    How do NY and LA differ and how are they similar

    Bay Area rappers, E-40, and G Eazy

    How the podcast Am I Doing This Right started

    Salary raise

    Her jewelry line and lifestyle brand

    Parents as the great support system

    Being pigeon, holding yourself into one niche, isn't good for career longevity

    How to politely tell people to mind their own business without burning a bridge

    Tracee Ellis Ross's words  “My life is mine.”

    Getting started on your business is a big learning process

    Advice for those leaning more toward their passions and making a living out of it


    Connect with Natalie on her socials:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nataliemcm/

    Jewelry and Lifestyle Brand: https://www.instagram.com/SHOPNATALIEMCMILLAN/

    Podcast: https://am-i-doing-this-right.captivate.fm/


    Check out Natalie’s shop with the discount code TINAWITHANH20

    Shop: https://www.natalie-mcmillan.com


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    New episodes every Wednesday!

    To stay up to date on the podcast you can find us on Instagram @inyourtwentys

    Need advice? Want to be featured on the show? Just wanna chat?

    Shoot an email to [email protected]

    Host: Tinah (Tina w/ an H) Ogalo @tinah.ogalo

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    39 min
  • 98: We're ALL Living The Same Life with Black Genzennials' Steph and Jillian

    Today, I’m sitting down with the hosts of the Black Genzennials Podcast, Jillian Newton (@jilliannewton) and Stephanie Arrington-Polk (@steph.tayo). To chat about friendship, black experiences, and hair!

    We are about to hear the story of two black college girls trying to navigate the white spaces and form authentic friendships. This conversation is literally so fun, and I am so thrilled to share it with you!


    Episode Breakdown:


    Having a smaller circle of friends as you get older

    Meeting new people and friends

    Unfollowing people on social media

    Keeping a distance from people that drain you

    Setting boundaries for yourself

    The unspoken bond of friendship

    Secrets underneath the wig

    Podcasting as a pandemic hobby

    Jill and Steph’s relationship status

    Using a career as an excuse to avoid a relationship

    Dating experiences with white and black guys

    Choosing the right partner as a black woman

    Horror and funny hair stories

    Opening up conversation with white guy

    Accepting people for who they are


    To connect with and follow Jillian and Stephanie, head over to:


    Jillian Newton

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jilliannewton/

    Stephanie Arrington-Polk

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steph.tayo/

    Black Genzennials Podcast

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blackgenzennials/

    Show links: https://linktr.ee/BlackGenzennials


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    New episodes every Wednesday!

    To stay up to date on the podcast you can find us on Instagram @inyourtwentys

    Need advice? Want to be featured on the show? Just wanna chat?

    Shoot an email to [email protected]

    Host: Tinah (Tina w/ an H) Ogalo @tinah.ogalo

    PSSSSSTTT. If you liked the episode, please tell your friends / follow / rate/review - I'd love to hear your thoughts! xx


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    41 min
  • 97: How to Have a Succesful Night Out + Finding your For Life Friends with Bran Flakezz

    Today on the show, I am joined by Bran Flakezz (@bran_flakezz on IG), the king of Philadelphia in terms of going out, and having a good time. We are chatting about his TikTok journey, getting into content creation, and more!

    Bran is a popular influencer and Philly TikToker (@bran__flakezz). He does a fantastic job in making his TikToks relatable. They are also incredible and full of entertainment. He makes content about weekend updates, going out, and the importance of balance in one’s lifestyle.


    Episode Breakdown:


    Bran’s TikTok journey

    Social media milestones

    Pursuing content creation full time

    Being intentional in finding the people you surround yourself with

    Not feeling guilty for having fun

    Embracing the unknown and being spontaneous

    Your big age phrase

    Summer House episode

    A perfect balance of ‘we'll be there for you and we'll party with you’ kind of friends

    Being more cautious of who you put around you as you grow

    Protecting your piece

    Not wanting to be like most people

    Finding the balance to live your day-to-day life and things that bring happiness

    The keys to a successful night out

    Bran’s Philly playlist, weekend recap playlist


    To connect with and follow Bran, head over to:


    Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/bran_flakezz/?hl=en

    TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@bran__flakezz?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1&item_id=6998552420762651909

    Philly weekend recap playlist: https://www.tiktok.com/@bran__flakezz/video/7090707138909179182?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1&lang=en


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    New episodes every Wednesday!

    To stay up to date on the podcast you can find us on Instagram @inyourtwentys

    Need advice? Want to be featured on the show? Just wanna chat?

    Shoot an email to [email protected]

    Host: Tinah (Tina w/ an H) Ogalo @tinah.ogalo

    PSSSSSTTT. If you liked the episode, please tell your friends / follow / rate/review - I'd love to hear your thoughts! xx


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    38 min
  • 96: A Material Girl World with The Luxury Dropout's, Stephanie Joplin

    Today on the show, our guest hailing from Houston, TX, Stephanie Joplin (@stephaniejoplin on IG). She is sharing with us how to create genuine connections, face wounds, and spend time and money on rich life experiences.

    After using social media as a side hustle since 2012, she became a full-time digital content creator and marketing specialist. Stephanie also boasts incredible expertise in journalism, high fashion, and wellness. She is also the host of The Luxury Dropout Podcast (@theluxurydropout on IG).

    The Luxury Dropout Podcast covers everything lifestyle-related, including discussions on wellness, beauty, and fitness, and relatable conversations about relationships, passion, and sex. The Luxury Dropout Podcast is informative, empowering, and life-changing.


    Episode Breakdown:


    Celebrating small wins like showing up

    Social media keeps you accountable

    Doing things when you are most creative and motivated

    Early birds and night owls

    Millennial age bracket and view on success

    Fake it til you make it, the courage to try, suck and improve

    The Luxury Dropout Podcast, a labor of love

    The value of being rich was never in material possessions

    Peer pressure in looking best and having nice things

    Gift giving as a love language with attached expectations

    Handwritten cards, poetry, and flowers, an old lost art

    Manifestation lists

    Nine Perfect Strangers, wounds characterization

    Trauma and soul-searching journey

    Divine timing and embracing faith over fear


    Connect with Stephanie on her socials:


    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephaniejoplin/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephaniejoplinllc

    Twitter:  https://twitter.com/stephaniejoplin

    Website: https://stephaniejoplin.com/

    Support The Luxury Dropout Podcast:

    https://linktr.ee/theluxurydropout


    For resources of understanding on topics, Stephanie talked about, head over to:

    Book:  Tell Yourself a Better Lie: Use the power of Rapid Transformational Therapy to     edit your story and rewrite your life. by Marisa Peer

    Hulu:  Nine Perfect Strangers

    Podcast:  This Spiritual Fix


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    New episodes every Wednesday!

    To stay up to date on the podcast you can find us on Instagram @inyourtwentys

    Need advice? Want to be featured on the show? Just wanna chat?

    Shoot an email to [email protected]

    Host: Tinah (Tina w/ an H) Ogalo @tinah.ogalo

    PSSSSSTTT. If you liked the episode, please tell your friends / follow / rate/review - I'd love to hear your thoughts! xx


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    40 min
  • 95: A Walkthrough in Getting your PhD and Obtaining Research Funding with JP Calcitrai

    Today, I am joined by my friend, JP Calcitrai (@jpuhhhh on IG) to talk about further studies applications, research, funding, culture wars, and more!

    We are about to dip our toes into the unknown but that’s one of the main reasons why we have this podcast - to have these conversations that we might not know the most about.

    JP is a Graduate Student at the University of California, Davis, studying animal behavior and computational social science. He is interested in the evolution of sociality, particularly cooperative behavior.


    Episode Breakdown:


    Journey to the path less traveled, a different development from traditional path takers

    Masters and Doctorate application difference

    Ph.D. funding, making people invest in your research

    How science affects contemporary society

    Any topic of interest always has a field of research

    Misconception about the scientific method

    Money and culture wars in your twentys, a Behavioral Ecology Graduate Student's perspective

    Dichotomy explained

    Simple and complex systems

    Nature versus Nurture

    Thrifty genes and the Gene–culture coevolution

    Biology, culture, and environment, in constant interplay

    JP’s surprising discoveries in all his learning!


    To learn more and connect with JP, head over to


    Instagram: @jpuhhhh.


    Learn more about this topic with JP’s two recommended pieces of content:


    Thinking in Systems: International Bestseller Paperback – Illustrated, December 3, 2008, by Donella H. Meadows

    Lecture Collection | Human Behavioral Biology with Stanford professor Robert Sapolsky


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    New episodes every Wednesday!

    To stay up to date on the podcast you can find us on Instagram @inyourtwentys

    Need advice? Want to be featured on the show? Just wanna chat?

    Shoot an email to [email protected]

    Host: Tinah (Tina w/ an H) Ogalo @tinah.ogalo

    PSSSSSTTT. If you liked the episode, please tell your friends / follow / rate/review - I'd love to hear your thoughts! xx


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    40 min
  • 94: Breaking Boundaries as a Woman, Dealing with Insecurities and Moving In with your Partner with Mariya Spektor

    Today on the show is the incredible host of To Date or Not Podcast, social media director, and NASM certified spin instructor - Mariya Spektor (@mariyeah on IG).

    I did an episode on situationships on her show and now I'm so hyped to have her in the IYT podcast as she shares her dating journey, the podcast, and current relationship status!

    To Date Or Not Podcast is a safe space for all things in the shit show we call 21st-century dating, from sex, trauma, dating stories, marriage, divorce, to everything in between, there are no bounds.


    Episode Breakdown:


    Learning from uncomfortable situations

    Not burning bridges

    The 20s is the most experimental platform decade you have

    Creating the passion project, To Date Or Not Podcast

    Endless ways of making friends, sliding DMs

    Having truthful conversations with oneself to face insecurities

    A different perspective from someone outside your circle

    Celebrating your wins

    Early and mid 20s relationships vs. current relationship

    Standards and everyone has a past perspective

    Trauma, what people are going through behind closed doors

    Moving in with a significant other

    Communicating and knowing your person

    Respecting boundaries in relationships

    Brad & Mariya, tying the knot


    To learn more and connect with Mariya, head over to


    Instagram: @mariyeah


    To learn more about the To Date Or Not Podcast, head over to:


    Instagram: @todateornotpodcast

    Apple:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/to-date-or-not/id1542794133

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0FBcSAivkmuwBS3xY1C8X6


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    New episodes every Wednesday!

    To stay up to date on the podcast you can find us on Instagram @inyourtwentys

    Need advice? Want to be featured on the show? Just wanna chat?

    Shoot an email to [email protected]

    Host: Tinah (Tina w/ an H) Ogalo @tinah.ogalo

    PSSSSSTTT. If you liked the episode, please tell your friends / follow / rate/review - I'd love to hear your thoughts! xx


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    40 min
  • 93: Making Bold Moves, Living a Double Life, and New York History with Nigel Roxbury

    Today, I am sitting down with Nigel Roxbury (@nigelroxbury) to chat about dating rules, content creation, his music, and upcoming new tunes.

    I never knew so much about New York until I discovered him on TikTok.

    He is a content creator about All things NYC which he mostly shares on @nigelroxbury along with other recommendation videos, and state tips.


    Episode Breakdown:


    February versus March Pisces

    Liquid love phenomenon, not getting drunk on dates

    Boldness in texting

    Rules on dating

    The NYC adventure and culture

    What Nigel loves about NYC

    Ick lists, videos, and red flags

    Take on IG bios for those who aren’t living in New York

    Embracing the uncomfortableness and chaos of the city

    Do things for the story

    Growth and changes after 1st TikTok video

    The Nigel Roxbury music and upcoming new tunes

    Name plot twist, revealing Chris Murch (@_chrismurch on Twitter)

    Finding balance in creating content and creating music

    Knowing when you are burnout and taking a step back to relax


    To know more about NYC and Nigel’s music, follow his socials:


    TikTok:  @nigelroxbury

    Twitter:  @_chrismurch

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/7IklXFKxseZ7QmNZMYX9u2?si=M0HmuC8bSBiagQU3texiZQ&nd=1


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    New episodes every Wednesday!

    To stay up to date on the podcast you can find us on Instagram @inyourtwentys

    Need advice? Want to be featured on the show? Just wanna chat?

    Shoot an email to [email protected]

    Host: Tinah (Tina w/ an H) Ogalo @tinah.ogalo

    PSSSSSTTT. If you liked the episode, please tell your friends / follow / rate/review - I'd love to hear your thoughts! xx


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    41 min
  • 92: Why You're Not Having Success On Dating Apps, Attachment Styles + The Dating Hierarchy with Amori Founder, Alex Weitzman

    Today, I am joined by Alex Weitzman (@alexsweitzman on IG) to talk about the dating hierarchy and swipe culture that she shares on TikTok (@alexweitzman) and other dating tips. She is a CEO and a Pentalingual who speaks Hebrew, English, French, Spanish, and German!

    Alex did a lot of research on dating apps and is now working on her own -  Amori. Amori (@amori.app on IG) is an audio chat for meaningful connections.


    Episode Breakdown:


    Alex’s journey in apps building

    Swipe culture in online dating

    The dating pyramid

    Categories of levels of attractiveness for each gender

    Finding someone attractive is subjective

    Take on bios and photos and the red flags

    How the ones in the lower pyramid can step-up

    Liking and getting to know someone on a deeper level

    Using the app, Amori

    Different attachment styles in online dating

    Switching out of current style in attachment

    On cheating reasons and specific attachment styles


    For more dating tips, follow Alex on her socials:


    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexsweitzman/

    https://www.instagram.com/covid19dating/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexweitzman?lang=en


    To learn more about the Amori app, head over to:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amori.app/

    IOS app: https://apps.apple.com/app/id1552334356?utm_source=Apple


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    New episodes every Wednesday!

    To stay up to date on the podcast you can find us on Instagram @inyourtwentys

    Need advice? Want to be featured on the show? Just wanna chat?

    Shoot an email to [email protected]

    Host: Tinah (Tina w/ an H) Ogalo @tinah.ogalo

    PSSSSSTTT. If you liked the episode, please tell your friends / follow / rate/review - I'd love to hear your thoughts! xx


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    35 min

About In Your Twentys

From the publisher's feed

Whether you're about to enter your twenties, in the middle of them, or saying hello to your dirty thirties - this podcast is for you. Each week, Tina w/ an H and a special guest will help you navigate your twenty-somethings with lessons they didn't teach you in school. Through chats about life, career, dating, and more we'll be figuring out the who's, what's, where's, why's, and how's of (...you guessed it) your twentys.