⚠️ Content Warning
This episode contains discussions of suicide and mental health crises. If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts, please reach out for help:
* National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (U.S.): Call or text 988 (available 24/7)
* Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
* International Association for Suicide Prevention: www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres
You are not alone. Help is available.
About the Guest
Dr. Vince Hafeli is the President of Ajax Paving Industries and a mental health advocate. 🎤 His TEDx talk "A Discussion on Mental Health and Suicide in the Construction Industry" has received millions of views worldwide and earned the #5 highest spot for number of views. He authored the book Mental Health and Suicide, which shares his story alongside 12 other extremely personal stories of loss, along with practical advice for industry leaders. 🏃 Vince is an 11-time Ironman (140.6) and 4-time 70.3 triathlon finisher—a testament to how endurance sports and physical fitness have contributed to his own mental health journey.
Vince’s Philosophy
It should be OK to say that I am not OK in the workplace.
Episode Highlights
Mental health isn’t separate from safety—it is safety, and when organizations ignore mental health challenges, they’re ignoring a critical risk factor that affects everything else they’re trying to manage.
📚 An Unexpected Journey From Field Technician to President
Dr. Hafeli traces his path from entry-level laboratory and field engineering technician in 1985 through quality control management, asphalt plants and materials general manager, to ultimately becoming President of Ajax Paving in 2019.
🔬 Doctoral Research: Revealing the Hidden Crisis
Dr. Hafeli shares key findings from his dissertation research on mental health and suicide in the construction industry, revealing why depression is one of the top three workplace problems in construction and what makes this industry particularly vulnerable to mental health challenges.
💔 Breaking 17 Years of Silence
After keeping his suicide attempt hidden for nearly two decades, Dr. Hafeli discusses what finally gave him the courage to speak publicly about his experience. Growing up and throughout his career, he faced numerous personal challenges including the loss of his father, brother, two children, and mother within a few years, along with the immense pressure of climbing the professional ladder in a demanding industry that valued strength and stoicism.
🚨 Misconceptions About Suicide
In his keynote "Why Suicide Occurs: The Misconceptions We Need to Address," Dr. Hafeli tackles the most common misconceptions about suicide that prevent people from getting help and organizations from responding effectively.
🛡️ Building a Mentally Healthy Workplace
You will find practical guidance on what signs managers and coworkers should look for when someone might be struggling, and how to help employers overcome the fear that employees have about seeking help—concerns about losing jobs, missing promotions, or being judged by coworkers.
📚 Contact & Resources:
* Personal website: vincehafeli.com
* Book: Mental Health and Suicide
* TEDx Talk: A Discussion on Mental Health and Suicide in the Construction Industry
* Ajax Paving Industries of Florida: www.ajaxpavingfl.com
🆘 Suicide in Construction Awareness:
* American Road & Transportation Builders Association (ARTBA) Suicide Awareness: www.artba.org/suicide-awareness
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