Kristen Moeller is literary agent, author, and speaker who lives in the mountains of Colorado. Her career includes an acquisitions editor at Morgan James Publishing and executive publisher for Persona Publishing. She is now an agent at Waterside Productions, the literary home of Eckhart Tolle, Neale Donald Walsch, Jean Houston and other luminaries. She has authored three non-fiction books, two of which include a foreword by legendary Chicken Soup for the Soul author Jack Canfield. A three-time TEDx speaker, Kristen has appeared on NPR, ABC, NBC, Fox News, and been featured in publications such as the New York Times and the Huffington Post. She even had a brief stint on TLC network’s Tiny House Nation after losing her dream home and all her worldly possessions in a devastating wildfire in 2012.
Today's episode focuses on the subject accurate thinking vs. magical thinking. Kristen shares her views about the bankruptcy of magical thinking and how quickly life can turn around when just a little accurate thinking is brought to objective situations like money and business.
For those unfamiliar, magical thinking is a term often used in anthropology or psychology. It denotes the belief that one's thoughts by themselves can bring about effects in the world - or that perhaps 'thinking something' corresponds with doing it.
If you study the evolution of modern western thought, Magical Thinking appears to have been born of modern mysticism, pseudo-science and psychological studies which claim that confident belief in one's vision (or one's self) produces real-world effects. The occasional coincidence of belief and effect further confounds the error.
In the 2006 self-help book by Rhonda Byrne - The Secret, (based on an earlier film of the same name) extolling the law of attraction, claimed that thoughts can change the world directly - that people and their thoughts are both made from ""pure energy"", and that through the process of ""like energy attracting like energy"" a person can improve their own health, wealth, and personal relationships. The book has sold 30 million copies worldwide and has been translated into 50 languages.
In this episode, we'll hear more about Kristen's own lessons on the subject - and - finish out the episode with a small bit of our Primer on the Transactional Approach.