THE INTERMOUNTAIN PI™ PODCAST | EP 13 | JAN 5, 2019
NEW YEAR BONUS EPISODE: 75 SIGNS OF A CHEATER Let’s talk about cheating. Specifically, 75 signs of a cheater. To begin with, a few disclaimers. Obviously, not everyone who cheats exhibits all 75 signs. In fact, your spouse or partner can demonstrate 5 or 6 of the signs and it may not mean anything. So, don’t jump to conclusions.
Obviously, the greater the number of signs, the more likely there may be a problem. First, consider other factors. Medical issues can contribute to some of these signs. For example, stress at work, finances, the death of a loved one, or even loss of a job can contribute to problems in a relationship. For these reasons, it’s important to consider the relationship as a whole. On the other hand, if your spouse or partner is having an affair, they may exhibit some of these 75 Signs of a Cheater.
75 SIGNS OF A CHEATER
THE GUT CHECK Sometimes you just know something is off. Go with your gut and look for other signs.
CHANGES IN THE ROUTINE We are all creatures of habit. Men begin shaving on the same side of their face every morning. Has your spouse are partner’s routine changed? Consider why.
UNACCOUNTABLE PERIODS OF TIME Are there periods of time when the cheater is unaccountable? There will only be certain times of the day when your spouse or partner has the opportunity to cheat.
ACTING OUT OF CHARACTER Is your spouse or partner acting out of character? Admittedly, the longer you’ve been with someone the more you know them. Are they not themselves lately?
* AGE Of course, your spouse or partner can cheat at any age. However, studies have shown that women begin cheating in their early 30’s. On the other hand, men begin in their 20’s.
* RACE Furthermore, a 2010-2016 study from the Institute of Family Studies found 22% of Blacks, 16% of Whites, and 13% of Hispanics, have had sex with someone, other than their spouse, while married.
* POLITICAL PARTY Likewise, the same study found 18% of those who identify as Democrats have had sex with someone, other than their spouse, while married. It’s 15% for Independents and 14% for Republicans.
* EDUCATION Those with “some” college cheat the most, at 18%, followed by those with college degrees, 16%. Those with a high school diploma come in at 15%.
* RELIGION 14% of those who attend religious service at least once a week to several times a year will cheat. It’s much higher for those who are non-religious.
* MONEY The person who earns the most in the relationship is more likely to cheat.
* PREVIOUS MARRIAGE If your spouse or partner was previously married they are more likely to cheat.
CHANGES IN MUSIC Has your spouse or partner developed a taste for Opera, Country Music or Heavy Metal out of the blue? Their new interest could be due to their lover’s taste for music.
YOUR PARTNER IS MOODY Is your easy going partner suddenly irritable? Even if, it’s just with you? Cheaters often grow impatient and irritable with their spouse or partner.
PARTNER PICKS FIGHTS AND BLAMES YOU Has your spouse or partner began picking fights with you over inconsequential matters? Is the cheater suddenly blaming you for everything wrong in his life?
PARTNER OR SPOUSE ACCUSES YOU OF CHEATING It’s bold, but cheaters often turn the tables. Your spouse or partner may actually accuse you of having an affair.
JOKES ABOUT CHEATING Aside from accusing you of cheating, the cheater may joke himself about having an affair.
ACCUSES YOU OF BEING CRAZY Moreover, if they don’t accuse you of cheating, they just claim you’re plain crazy. Or they say it’s simply your imagination.