#InternetGrandpa

Some thoughts on the importance of (non-romantic) love in the world and our lives, and how we can spread and cultivate it. This may be one of the biggest factors for happiness--your own and that of other people. And, as always, I want you to be happy! Much Love, #YourInternetGrandpa #InternetGrandpa #fyp #Grandpositivity

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Learning to love your work is an important way to be happy in life! And, it is something that can be learned and practiced, even if you don't currently feel that way about what you do. Sending you so much love! Love, #YourInternetGrandpa #InternetGrandpa #fyp

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Learning to love people, really love real people, will make you happy (and them, but mostly you). And, I want you to experience love and happiness in life. Much Love, #YourInternetGrandpa #InternetGrandpa #fyp #Grandpositivity

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Love is a verb, not merely a feeling. That means we can act and do, not wait for a feeling, and what we can do, we can practice and get better at. Learning to love, and not only in a romantic sense, can make us so much happier in life. And I do wan't you to be happy! Much Love, #YourInternetGrandpa #InternetGrandpa

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When you are worried about big problems in the world that you can't control, it can be empowering and very healthy to address somethng that IS in your control. Focus on what you can do, not on what other people aren't/won't/don't/can't do. A small productive step in the real world will always be better than only being angry, upset, or righteous in your mind or online. Even small things in real life will make the world a better place in concrete terms, and will help you be more peaceful and happy. And I do want you to be happy! Much Love, #YourInternetGrandpa #InternetGrandpa

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Just a reminder that you matter, that you are loved, that you are valuable, important, and of infinite worth; that you have infinite potential! You are brighter, better, stronger, smarter, more competent and capable than you probably know, you are doing better than you think, and you are making important contributions around you! And, for what it's worth, I love you and am cheering you on! Much Love, #YourInternetGrandpa

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One of my most humiliating, mortifying experiences in high school ended up being--not that bad. I think there's an important lesson in this very awkward story and I hope it helps you find peace. As always, I want you to be happy. You are wonderful and I'm sending you lots of love! P.S. Likes, saves, shares, comments, etc. would be lovely. The cool-kid-algorithm is ignoring me lately. Love, #YourInternetGrandpa #InternetGrandpa

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I recently had to decide how serious I was about living the values I say I believe in. Our values don't really mean much until it is hard to live them. It's in these times that we find out how serious we are about what we believe. But, even when it's hard--especially when it's hard--by living our values we find freedom and self-actualization. This is a big key to happiness--and I want you to be happy, free, and self-actualized! As always, I"m sending you so much love. You are wonderful! P.S. Can you help me get the algorithm's attention? Any likes, shares, saves, forwards, comments, etc. would be so appreciated. Much Love, Your #InternetGrandpa #YourInternetGrandpa

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I worry a lot about the content that your generations are exposed to. There is so much contempt and criticism about men and women--you can find both, often from people who have had very little life experience.

Or, from people who have real and traumatic experiences, but then make vast generalizations.

My wife and I will soon have married for 32 years and I've learned a lot in that time. I've also learned a lot by working with and knowing a lot of women and a lot of men. People can't easily be generalized about.

I worry that absorbing too much of this will make it harder for you to have happy, fulfilling relationships, whether romantic or friendship, with anyone who is much different than you. That risks robbing you of a lot of joy and meaning, and I want you to be happy!

Sending you so much love, Your #InternetGrandpa

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We all know how it feels to get in a rut sometimes. There are things we have to do, but we're just not feeling it--but it still has to be done. That is natural and very human. I recently realized I was in a rut on something and re-learned a lesson about how to manage these times. It's helped my happiness and energy a lot--and I do want you to be happy! So much love, Your #InternetGrandpa #fyp

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